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Subject: "how common is it for men…"

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Trinity444
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Mon Oct-04-21 05:50 PM

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"how common is it for men…"

to check out other woman while with their lady.

I quit someone over the weekend because his is excessive.

let’s start there…

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how common is it for men… [View all] , Trinity444, Mon Oct-04-21 05:50 PM

Subject	Author	Message Date	ID
i dont see the foul in a quick undetected glance...but when you	mikediggz	Oct 04th 2021	1
for me common...because my wife will point fine women out	tomjohn29	Oct 04th 2021	2
^	kinetic94761180	Oct 04th 2021	4
^	infin8	Oct 05th 2021	32
VERY healthy and secure relationship!	bibblegolf	Oct 05th 2021	38
LOL @ y'alls standards for what is healthy....just because it may (or ma...	FLUIDJ	Oct 05th 2021	42
Right. We both have eyes, and we both know who's hot.	Frank Longo	Oct 07th 2021	76
A quick look is common but I don’t stare	makaveli	Oct 04th 2021	3
I never NOT see	FLUIDJ	Oct 04th 2021	5
funny...my wife and I have different ideas of what I like	double negative	Oct 04th 2021	6
i look but i dont stare	BrooklynWHAT	Oct 04th 2021	7
That’s why God made sunglasses.	shockvalue	Oct 04th 2021	8
it's pretty frequent.	tariqhu	Oct 04th 2021	9
If you don’t get your girl to look with you on some	Fishgrease	Oct 04th 2021	10
facts!!!	legsdiamond	Oct 05th 2021	17
Just cause you're tied to the fence	Oak27	Oct 04th 2021	11
Excessive is a problem. Looking really isn't.	KiloMcG	Oct 04th 2021	12
we're not children. my wife points them out	Rjcc	Oct 04th 2021	13
and y’all don’t think anything is wrong with that?	Trinity444	Oct 05th 2021	14
if thats your boundary why question it?	tomjohn29	Oct 05th 2021	18
I question if I’m being fair…	Trinity444	Oct 05th 2021	21
control is the perfect description	legsdiamond	Oct 05th 2021	22
you have a boundary....	tomjohn29	Oct 05th 2021	23
frfr, fuck fair.	spades	Oct 05th 2021	27
we have complete control and using it to look.	tariqhu	Oct 05th 2021	24
I don't think it's fair.	Heinz	Oct 05th 2021	26
let’s clear up the misconception…	Trinity444	Oct 05th 2021	28
I had no misconception. I knew you were talking about the 'looking'	spades	Oct 05th 2021	34
It depends on the look, the situation etc	Heinz	Oct 05th 2021	35
there was no misconception	tomjohn29	Oct 05th 2021	37
Everyone has boundaries lol	Heinz	Oct 06th 2021	66
depends how you peep the crotch	legsdiamond	Oct 05th 2021	39
Well is he looking? or staring, grunting, craning his neck, etc	BrooklynWHAT	Oct 05th 2021	30
I'm 99% sure it'd be frowned upon.	FLUIDJ	Oct 05th 2021	19
Haha for once you're actually not trippin 😉	KiloMcG	Oct 05th 2021	57
Out of respect, it should either be discreet or shared	Cocobrotha2	Oct 05th 2021	58
lmao.. good luck finding a man who doesn’t	legsdiamond	Oct 05th 2021	15
Me and wifey ogle together...	kwez	Oct 05th 2021	16
stands in this line minus the oogling men together part.	PROMO	Oct 05th 2021	41
Now ninjas is oggling other men to make a point. SMH.	Buddy_Gilapagos	Oct 05th 2021	45
nah.. she knows unless its his attire I don’t give af about that dude	legsdiamond	Oct 06th 2021	62
it happens everytime you go out together...	My_SP1200_Broken_Again	Oct 05th 2021	20
Very	spades	Oct 05th 2021	25
ppl are generally unrealistic af	rdhull	Oct 05th 2021	29
I believe the idea is that the practice of restraint in front of one's m...	spades	Oct 05th 2021	36
try as a may, try as a. might.. I can't ignore a phatty	legsdiamond	Oct 05th 2021	40
I wear a lot of sun glasses.	spades	Oct 05th 2021	48
RE: I believe the idea is that the practice of restraint in front of one...	rdhull	Oct 05th 2021	47
we BOTH look	infin8	Oct 05th 2021	31
Yeah...	Marbles	Oct 05th 2021	50
Matt 5:27-28?	infin8	Oct 05th 2021	33
Y'all can have all that "We BOTH look" mess....	FLUIDJ	Oct 05th 2021	43
n**gas proud too…	Trinity444	Oct 05th 2021	44
of having stable marriages and positive relationships	Rjcc	Oct 05th 2021	51
00	spades	Oct 05th 2021	52
fair shot, nigga…	Trinity444	Oct 05th 2021	53
if what you're doing makes you happy then I got no problem with it	Rjcc	Oct 05th 2021	55
because it’s uncommon…	Trinity444	Oct 06th 2021	75
what do you know about what's common among married people?	Rjcc	Oct 07th 2021	77
smh…	Trinity444	Oct 07th 2021	79
I can’t stand him but he is correct	legsdiamond	Oct 07th 2021	82
well, that theory is silly…	Trinity444	Oct 07th 2021	84
nah.. just means there is more than 1 way to view marriage	legsdiamond	Oct 07th 2021	85
A: I didn't say you could speak on anything or not	Rjcc	Oct 08th 2021	96
why wouldn’t we be? We get to look at people	legsdiamond	Oct 06th 2021	64
goose and gander can't do the same thing?	tariqhu	Oct 05th 2021	54
LOOK AT MEEEEEEE!!!	legsdiamond	Oct 06th 2021	67
I can't really articulate it...but I know something about it don't sit r...	FLUIDJ	Oct 06th 2021	69
I mean if it's my responsibility to protect her then I'm going to	micMajestic	Oct 06th 2021	71
Hey, it works for yall and that is all that matters	legsdiamond	Oct 07th 2021	81
daps	FLUIDJ	Oct 07th 2021	83
thanks??	legsdiamond	Oct 06th 2021	63
you play it off by commenting on her shoes or what color she's wearing.....	ThaTruth	Oct 05th 2021	46
Another tactic.	spades	Oct 05th 2021	49
I married, not dead.	mrhood75	Oct 05th 2021	56
What was your guy doing that made it excessive?	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 06th 2021	59
if he doesn't make you feel like he CRAVES you, then i think it's	EMATI	Oct 06th 2021	60
it is very common and to be expected	EMATI	Oct 06th 2021	61
RE: how common is it for men…	jimaveli	Oct 06th 2021	65
Been with my wife so long she would prolly think	legsdiamond	Oct 06th 2021	68
why undersell?	Trinity444	Oct 06th 2021	73
RE: why undersell?	jimaveli	Oct 07th 2021	86
I can live with that…	Trinity444	Oct 08th 2021	87
but was she dressed like an old lady?	legsdiamond	Oct 08th 2021	88
JUST when you think you follow what ¾ is going on about, she throw a cu...	FLUIDJ	Oct 08th 2021	89
I’m wondering if dude actually been staring down women	legsdiamond	Oct 08th 2021	91
in essence…	Trinity444	Oct 08th 2021	93
Fam, that's not objectifying...that's just talking shit lol...	FLUIDJ	Oct 08th 2021	94
quit hanging out with leg’s, lol	Trinity444	Oct 08th 2021	95
wait.. so this isn’t about him staring down women.. just commenting	legsdiamond	Oct 08th 2021	97
even if, why would it be HIS business?	Trinity444	Oct 08th 2021	92
so that means she does dress like an old lady	legsdiamond	Oct 08th 2021	98
I’m asking sincerely…	Dstl1	Oct 11th 2021	102
i was providing jimaveli with more insight…	Trinity444	Oct 11th 2021	104
gotcha, thanks	Dstl1	Oct 11th 2021	106
are you bothered that he was looking at her in general or	tariqhu	Oct 11th 2021	103
I’m bothered by the lack of discretion…	Trinity444	Oct 11th 2021	105
We grown. If he cared he'd figure out ways to look without you noticing	micMajestic	Oct 06th 2021	70
you get it…	Trinity444	Oct 06th 2021	74
and then there's that.	spades	Oct 11th 2021	101
Can he see? If so he looking at every ass that passes	Binlahab	Oct 06th 2021	72
lol	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 08th 2021	90
There's a full spectrum of how to handle this, and each couple	soulfunk	Oct 07th 2021	78
it's all communication	Rjcc	Oct 07th 2021	80
first ask yourself if you're only noticing cause you noticed too	dgonsh	Oct 09th 2021	99
my wife told me the lady near us, with the big booty,	tariqhu	Oct 10th 2021	100

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