>What I love about my friend's parties, is that we spend time
>discussing and practicing requests, consent, denials,
>negotiation etc in a closed "container" (meaning, by a certain
>time, no one else can come in, and once you leave, you can't
>re-enter)

That right there, is GENIUS, and I'm shocked I never thought of it before. Totally stealing it.

>he also has a caterer onsite, who makes fruit salads and
>other body-friendly small bites...there's also usually cacao
>to drink, and other soft drinks, but no alcohol.

I've never understood this at some parties. No alcohol, no weed... I mean, they are lubricants (social) They can help.

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