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Cold Truth
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Wed Jul-29-20 11:16 AM

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20. "Pssst- none of that matters, at all. "
In response to In response to 18
Wed Jul-29-20 11:23 AM by Cold Truth

  

          

The correct response is, that's not fodder for e-beef discussion, either way. It's irrelevant.

The issue here is, you like to talk about the people in the room and the opinions being expressed, but not to the people.

So you got called on that.
Point blank, period.

You could have:

-Ignored me
-Discussed it, and explained why I was wrong.

Those are both perfectly reasonable, stable options.

You chose option C: Fuck you, you need therapy. lmao

You chose an emotional, angry personal attack. A definitively unstable choice. You then made an even more unstable choice to make your CW post.

As I've pointed out, you've done similar things recently, going WAY above and beyond. Shit, you didn't even contribute to the post itself- but you did make some snide remarks about the people and opinions expressed in the room.

None of those actions are exactly the mark of stability, and yet here you are, trying to attack my mental health in response, rather than address the actual issue at hand in the other post.

Even now, we *could* turn this around and actually discuss this like grown ass men.

I'm good to do that.
I'm pretty sure you won't do that.

But one thing you won't do without getting called out, is try to attack my mental health to deflect from the way you engage. Because my mental health has nothing at all to do with the way you choose to engage.

Case in point: It's 9:17, Pacific time..... and the first Confession Wednesday post is you attacking another poster's mental health, ensuring that the post gets locked, because your self-centered ass decided that your need to personally attack another person was more important than allowing the community safe space to remain just that:

A community safe space.

Guess what?

That safe space isn't a space for you to levy personal attacks on other posters.

But you're too selfish- ahem, unwell- to see that.

You're also betting/hoping for a groundswell of community support, knowing that I'm generally- not universally, as some like to think - disliked.

  

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** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY ** [View all] , Geah, Tue Jul-28-20 11:00 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
Cold Truth is unwell
Jul 29th 2020
1
is sowhat still banned?
Jul 29th 2020
5
I wouldn’t know.
Jul 29th 2020
7
the second one
Jul 29th 2020
16
      i don't blame him
Jul 29th 2020
22
           he was off the rails in the end though
Jul 29th 2020
40
That shit is a letter to a mod, not a CW post.
Jul 29th 2020
8
fuck Deadzombie
Jul 29th 2020
11
In fact... you did something similar with your wedding post
Jul 29th 2020
12
Not like this. This isn't cool.
Jul 29th 2020
14
I go out of my way to leave dude alone. We extend dude a level of grace
Jul 29th 2020
15
      Nah, you're not going to keep doing that shit.
Jul 29th 2020
17
           My last manic episode was like 2013 or so
Jul 29th 2020
18
               
i respect him...
Jul 29th 2020
44
Internet has been like the Wild West lately
Jul 29th 2020
2
is this how you feel or has this been conveyed to you
Jul 29th 2020
3
      It’s been conveyed in emails and meetings
Jul 29th 2020
4
           RE: It’s been conveyed in emails and meetings
Jul 29th 2020
6
           absolute trash
Jul 29th 2020
9
           thats some bull
Jul 29th 2020
10
Out before the lock
Jul 29th 2020
13
I haven't seen one of these GIFs in a minute. It's nice to bring it back...
Jul 29th 2020
19
I say, keep it open, and let his post remain
Jul 29th 2020
30
I'm glad we didn't win the bid on this house.
Jul 29th 2020
21
We haven't gotten our prequalification, but I've seen this already
Jul 29th 2020
23
yup. shit was crazy BEFORE covid, no one knows why.
Jul 29th 2020
26
yikes
Jul 29th 2020
24
it's stupid out here...but it also depends what area.
Jul 29th 2020
27
We had that house buying fever for a minute
Jul 29th 2020
25
i keep crying
Jul 29th 2020
28
I'm sorry man
Jul 29th 2020
29
*hugs*
Jul 29th 2020
41
SEE WHAT I WAS SAYING
Jul 29th 2020
31
I hate owing people a call/text/response.
Jul 29th 2020
32
RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Jul 29th 2020
33
A guy I know from the scene has been hitting up people for money.
Jul 29th 2020
34
Can you call or reach out to confirm? It sounds like a scam.
Jul 29th 2020
35
my thought was to see if he's down to drive to my crib and get it person...
Jul 29th 2020
38
      Definitely a scam
Jul 29th 2020
42
I'd facetime him to verify, if you want to help
Jul 29th 2020
36
damn, I'd have to see dude in person on that one...
Jul 29th 2020
37
      yeah i was telling my homie (who is basically my brother)...
Jul 29th 2020
39
the love...
Jul 29th 2020
43
Finally started tearing into home repairs. Started with the roof.
Jul 30th 2020
45
i accidentally clicked on GD archives instead of GD
Jul 30th 2020
46
im not sure why i stayed worried about my job
Jul 30th 2020
47
Grandfather got dat rona
Jul 30th 2020
48
Just found out my uncle passed and now I’m worried about my dad
Jul 30th 2020
49

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