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I have no idea how it’s gonna work for building lasting relationships if that’s even going to be a goal but I’m with you on this.
You even see it with teens and preteens now quite a bit. They all have phones and tablets/computers. And with that, they have ridiculous access. And they don’t immediately go look up nudity and sex stuff every chance they get. Hell, I’m in my 40s and I will still end up looking at a titty or something sexual if I’m on the internet for a while in one sitting! Haha. It was a different time when I was growing up. Grandpas were up on that JC Penny’s underwear section like ‘heyyyyyy!’.
To these kids, taboo is blood, death, suicide, and other scary/weird stuff. Jokes about school shootings and zombies/doomsday scenarios. The squirrelliest anime. Gayness and/or bisexuality. And oh my lord, PRETENDING TO BE SAD. Little fuckers, you ain’t sad. You have a pool, a dog, and 15 friends.
And really, I’m surprised at how many girls and women I know who just switched from Hetero to gay or bi basically out of nowhere. Cousins. Coworkers. Even a couple of my kid’s friends are going around claiming they’re bisexual. I’m like ‘all of you mfers are nosexual and you don’t have any idea about any of that shit’.
>I think the the kids of today and the kids of tomorrow will >have such a different view on sex and sexuality that I don't >think we will even be able to measure "decency", "taboo" in >the same ways we measure those things for ourselves. > >and before I continue, NO. NO I AM NOT SUGGESTING SOME >DOWNWARD SLIDE INTO ABJECT IMMORALITY > >I just think or have a sense that...ok, I also have to put >this out here - In NO WAY am I saying this as a kumbaya, >"we're all going to get along together!" statement. There will >always be progression, conservation and attempts at regression >socially. > >ok. > >I just think that or have a sense that things are about to get >real messy - meaning that the hard lined views of people, >dating and sex will morph. I embrace the change and I know >that I'm aging out. When I was at the end of my single days I >realized I had a different view of sex and sexuality from the >younger generation. > >Hetereoflexiblity will become closer to a standard of being - >that is to say same sex interactions for mostly heterosexual >people will not be a defining event but seen as a part of >dating. > >"Oh, aint that homie you used to smash over there?" > >"Oh yeah...man, I avoided a real shit show with that one. >Anyway so I was saying to my wife last night..." > > >Like our privacy and internal thoughts, sex will not be viewed >as the ultimate form of closeness or intimacy. Sex will still >be special, but also just something that becomes as common as >drinking a beer. > > > >Long post short, my thoughts are, the kids are over sex, it's >going to be common, it wont be seen as the ultimate in >intimacy anymore. Sexual orientation will become an accepted >kaleidoscope of endless possible combinations. Relationships >will become an accepted kaleidoscope of endless permutations. > > > >Like, I think about a specific mental exercise. >Imagine if you had a time machine, a copy of a porno mag and a >cloak of invisibility. Trip to the start of each decade, put >on the invisible cloak, find a group of teenage boys and drop >that magazine. > >1920 - WOWZA! >1950 - GOLLY! >1970 - GROOVY! >1990 - FUCK YEAH! >2010 - OH. >2030 - PAPER?! >2050 - I wonder what shes thinking in that pose. This is >vintage. I wonder how much this would fetch if I sold it. > >
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