Been following your updates for a min. Feel you on the dough...daycare...time wit' da wiz...ALLA That (we ain't had an official vacay since '14...stay-cationed for our 10 year anny last year).
So Hold'ja head....ye'en ou'chere in the struggle alone.
...and believe me when I say I can tell you real fast how 2+ bucks a year (collectively) can go, and STILL check-to-checkin' it.
It takes all kinds to make up a world, son. -My pops