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Subject: "did (will) ur family help u with ur downpayment? wedding?"

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bonamie
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Mon Mar-30-15 01:41 PM

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"did (will) ur family help u with ur downpayment? wedding?"

anyways, did ur family help with ur wedding?
ur downpayment?
uh we're mostly black here, right?
now im curious.

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did (will) ur family help u with ur downpayment? wedding? [View all] , bonamie, Mon Mar-30-15 01:41 PM

Subject	Author	Message Date	ID
yes and sorta	esb225	Mar 30th 2015	1
yes that was very nice	bonamie	Mar 30th 2015	3
before or after he got there?	esb225	Mar 30th 2015	4
both	bonamie	Mar 30th 2015	29
Sheeit. We had to pay to get some of them to the wedding	John Forte	Mar 30th 2015	2
^^^^^	j.	Mar 30th 2015	32
her fam helped with the wedding majorly lol	Cenario	Mar 30th 2015	5
I didn't have a lot of student loans which is a huge contribution	Buddy_Gilapagos	Mar 30th 2015	6
I highly doubt it. Shit, they already think my ass is rich.	Overqualified	Mar 30th 2015	7
I got the whole down payment from my parents.	Teknontheou	Mar 30th 2015	8
my mother was killed in a car accident..	legsdiamond	Mar 30th 2015	9
i never knew that, legs...	morpheme	Mar 31st 2015	65
Parents paid for the wedding	tully_blanchard	Mar 30th 2015	10
yes, they would/have helped.	earthseed	Mar 30th 2015	11
no and they'll cost me thousands in funeral expenses	ndibs	Mar 30th 2015	12
get a policy.	Cenario	Mar 30th 2015	13
they've either got health issues that make them	ndibs	Mar 30th 2015	17
eh..i got you. tough situation. Sorry.	Cenario	Mar 30th 2015	18
don't even get me started on funeral expenses	John Forte	Mar 30th 2015	19
sheesh	blkprinceMD05	Mar 30th 2015
you'd better call alex trebeck.	morpheme	Mar 31st 2015	66
No. They won't help me with a fucking thing.	Hitokiri	Mar 30th 2015	14
yes @ our wedding. we tried to keep costs reasonable and they helped	Government Name	Mar 30th 2015	15
yes	KiloMcG	Mar 30th 2015	16
yes. thats how my family is.	NikaMandela	Mar 30th 2015	20
No.	soulfunk	Mar 30th 2015	21
they bought my car + currently pay my car insurance	MzOnyxVI	Mar 30th 2015	22
no and no BUT	Lach	Mar 30th 2015	23
I'm sure my parents would but I'm too proud	Niq96st	Mar 30th 2015	24
whyso?	bonamie	Mar 30th 2015	28
Because I feel they've already done so much.	Niq96st	Mar 30th 2015	30
ditto	lfresh	Mar 31st 2015	56
First time around, no. Second time yeah, they pitched in a bit.	spades	Mar 30th 2015	25
downpayment no	Ashy Achilles	Mar 30th 2015	26
nope. wouldn't have accepted anyway.	ternary_star	Mar 30th 2015	27
her family paid for most of the wedding	atruhead	Mar 30th 2015	31
they would bust out laughin if I even asked...I am the help	ambient1	Mar 30th 2015	33
Yes	Marla	Mar 30th 2015	34
my parents are both dead and aunts and uncles have their own	blkprinceMD05	Mar 30th 2015	35
i'm white. they did not. my family is poor.	PROMO	Mar 30th 2015	36
Yup, and Yep	-DJ R-Tistic-	Mar 30th 2015	37
my family would help if necessary...	StephBMore	Mar 30th 2015	38
My dad paid most of my student loan debt so I wouldn't need his help	no_i_cant_dance	Mar 30th 2015	39
my parents paid for everything	GirlChild	Mar 30th 2015	40
Maaaan. I try to tell folks that they can do Weddings for under 10K	-DJ R-Tistic-	Mar 30th 2015	41
mfers spend $20-30K only to get divorced	GirlChild	Mar 31st 2015	60
my mother didn't have the means. i held her down once i got grown	BigJazz	Mar 30th 2015	42
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH	double negative	Mar 30th 2015	43
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA	double negative	Mar 30th 2015	44
AHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH	double negative	Mar 30th 2015	45
nope.	double negative	Mar 30th 2015	46
Blaxican. Pop is dead. No to Question 1.	astralblak	Mar 30th 2015	47
Yes to both	afrogirl_lost	Mar 30th 2015	48
Hmm. I've actually never thought about it. My dad has the money.	Goldmind	Mar 30th 2015	49
My parents sold me their house.	TheUltimate	Mar 30th 2015	50
they had set aside some money to help pay for the wedding	KosherSam	Mar 30th 2015	51
my wife's parents paid for our wedding.	RobOne4	Mar 31st 2015	52
Questions to those with family help	Sarah_Bellum	Mar 31st 2015	53
...thats is how it usually works	lfresh	Mar 31st 2015	57
my in laws were very upfront	KosherSam	Mar 31st 2015	61
nope	GirlChild	Mar 31st 2015	64
not for us	RobOne4	Mar 31st 2015	68
They are entirely incapable of that.	Monkey Genius	Mar 31st 2015	54
RE: did (will) ur family help u with ur downpayment? wedding?	DaHeathenOne76	Mar 31st 2015	55
got married at the court house. his mom paid for dinner	SHAstayhighalways	Mar 31st 2015	58
If they could, they totally would.	soulpsychodelicyde	Mar 31st 2015	59
we didn't want a wedding	samsara	Mar 31st 2015	62
no	labcoat	Mar 31st 2015	63
moms/her side? as much as they could	BabySoulRebel	Mar 31st 2015	67
No.. But hopefully Indiegogo will.	antoniovaladez	Mar 31st 2015	69
my family did	brownskinbaby	Mar 31st 2015	70

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