now if she's unattractive and she approached me...
aka...what typically happens...then yea...obviously won't date them
i always thought this was odd though...big girls used to approach me damn near regularly and I used to think it was bc they didn't get a lot of attention...but i learned later that they do...it's not always obvious attention but it's definitely there...
as hard up as some women are about men...i'm genuinely shocked most are so afraid to buck that system...i know part of it is they lack tact and fear of the duel-edged double standard...
but with all the women complaining about lack of prospects...it seems like way too few are actually out here trying to do the choosing themselves
another part of it is if women did...they'd all be hollering at the same small subset of men...which already happens...but those men tend to realize just how powerful having options is and opt out or play the game
everybody loses
Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble