How often are you ACTUALLY interested in the chicks that approach you?

For reasons unknown, less approachable women are my type. Maybe it's the challenge.
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on topic, HELL YES. i wish a cute broad would (if i was single which im not) holla @ me, oh yes boo we going to red lobster because you have balls & i like a woman w/ balls (no pause big enough for that statement)

key word in that sentenace is: CUTE.

if she a moon cricket...cue that cece peniston

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XGd-EKsTqQE


does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
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i think that's the general rule. most guys would run with the holla if they're attracted to her. some guys would run with the holla even if they weren't.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

i do it for all the other brothers
and to encourage such behavior

(and she paying)

whether I step up and speak or she does, if I am attracted, I speak. If I am not I K.I.M.

And how aggressively she comes off. A few have almost played it friendly, while some almost seem like they're spitting game at me. But most of the ones I've dated came from me approaching, even if they gave me a sign that let me know they were interested.

who approached who is completely non-issue

now if she's unattractive and she approached me...

aka...what typically happens...then yea...obviously won't date them

i always thought this was odd though...big girls used to approach me damn near regularly and I used to think it was bc they didn't get a lot of attention...but i learned later that they do...it's not always obvious attention but it's definitely there...

as hard up as some women are about men...i'm genuinely shocked most are so afraid to buck that system...i know part of it is they lack tact and fear of the duel-edged double standard...

but with all the women complaining about lack of prospects...it seems like way too few are actually out here trying to do the choosing themselves

another part of it is if women did...they'd all be hollering at the same small subset of men...which already happens...but those men tend to realize just how powerful having options is and opt out or play the game

everybody loses

waste of a post if you ask me.

Don't even say nothing to me, girl.

I have also had a super fine woman approach me, hell she followed me around cary town and she was pretty slutty, damaged goods.

but yeah, if all seemed fine I have no problem dating a woman who knows what she wants.

I play the shy guy roll and have light eyes.. shit's easy.

>I play the shy guy roll and have light eyes.. shit's easy.
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but it doesn't matter who approaches who

I love the chase.

I think most of the women that approach me have some preconceived notion of how I am, and they are usually disappointed so the attraction just withers away.

I prefer to be the aggressor, so to speak.

Some of the WORST "first dates" or whatever I've hd were with women that either approached me first, or had someone hook me up with them. It got to the point where I realized that if I wasn't the initiator, things would always go left. I've had women holler at me, give me their number then refuse to answer or return my FIRST phone call (this was pre-texting). Or they would just not talk. At all. One word answers, poor eye contact, etc.

I think it's because when I holler, they get to see exactly who I am without having time to build up some fairy tale in their heads about how I *might* be. I'm a little eccentric, so it matters.

well, was.

Depends on the woman, personality, conversation, looks, over all demeanor. Its intriguing to be approach by a woman for sure, where it goes from there depends on how well we hit it off and of there is physical attraction

but lately they've been wanting dates/relationships and trying to get to know me.



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but she was to shy/awkward/hesitant/whatever to make a move.

THEN

after the fact she wanna talk about how into me she was

fuck.outta.here.with.that.bullshit.

even if i like you, i now don't like you. cuz you can't commit and go after what you want...


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I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

my success rate to date is about 70/30 my favor

If I was interested in you, you would definitely know it.
If you didn't reciprocate?
oh you ain't feeling me?
fine, it costs you nothing, pay me no mind.
Which RARELY happened.

Everyone isn't for everybody to begin with
I just accepted very early that other people had the right to reject me like I had the right to reject people for I didn't feel any attraction.

I actually expressed my interest in someone a while ago and got turned down.
Did it hurt? YES
I really did want to get to know them better but I live by the saying "you only get one good time to reject me".
Now I'm grateful they did that because I'm now interested in someone else and that possibility looks like a much better fit for me.

it is not the norm

Usually it's surprise or a small amount of disbelief.

Most of the women I've been with over the years approached me first. You have to be confident to make that approach, plus it takes the "am I harassing an uninterested girl" pressure off of me, lol.

Most Definitely!

>How often are you ACTUALLY interested in the chicks that
>approach you?

I like that she shows initiative, it's a little flattering, she shows herself as outgoing, we have a good chance to make a connection and it establishes a baseline level of interest that sometimes isn't there when things go the other way. I've taken a lot of girls out who basically said yes because they didn't want to say no. That always turns out to be a waste of time.

It doesn't even have to be a holler, just give me some sort of clear-ish sign rather than being standoffish with your friends or burying your nose in your phone all night. Just be a little loose, a little outgoing, show me a little interest in some subtle way.

i was never really one to pursue/go after someone unless i knew they were feelin' me. it's pretty much how all of my relationships started.