I think it should start mattering more to me now, actually. But it still wouldn't be a driving force.


>How important is sexual attraction in choosing a long term
>mate?
>Do you feel like it's secondary or its a must to move
>forward?

It's very important, but sexual attraction grows for me as I get to know him better.
So if the guy's decent looking, he can become really sexy as I get to know who he is.

Classic case was this frequent customer when I worked as a barista. He was basically the
physical opposite of what I like, but he was really smart and had the perfect sense of humor.
I got butterflies every time he came in, lol.