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It's highlighted because I spoke to her the day prior. I actually hadn't followed up with her in a little over a week. Her birthday was on July 12th and I hadn't talked to her since her bday. It was like I was granted one last convo and it was right on time.

But I agree. I found peace in those being our last words.

>It's so great that you have that final memory of exchanging I
>love yous before she passed. A lot of people (obviously) don't
>get that kind of closure and spend a lot of time with regret
>about that kind of thing. You'll realize later how helpful it
>is to have that finality to your relationship w/her.
>
>I actually don't remember the last words my mother and I said
>to eachother, but like I said in my post below I have months
>worth of incredible memories w/her because we knew she only
>had so much time left so my dad, my brother, my mom and I made
>the absolute most of whatever limited time we thought we had
>left. So thankfully I have a kind of closure even if I don't
>necessarily remember our last conversation specifically.

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The possibility of losing a parent and how to cope [View all] , walihorse, Mon Aug-05-19 10:40 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
You have my empathy...my mom passed on the 23rd of July
Aug 05th 2019
1
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Aug 05th 2019
2
Don't be hard on yourself. There's no right way to grieve.
Aug 05th 2019
5
Thank you
Aug 05th 2019
7
Thank you
Aug 05th 2019
8
      That is the biggest positive right now
Aug 05th 2019
9
Very sorry for your loss.
Aug 05th 2019
4
My condolences, bruh! To you and all of yours.
Aug 05th 2019
10
Thank you fam...appreciated.
Aug 05th 2019
12
My condolences
Aug 05th 2019
19
Thank you
Aug 06th 2019
35
Sorry for your loss
Aug 05th 2019
23
      Thank you also
Aug 06th 2019
36
I lost my mom to cancer when I was 15.
Aug 05th 2019
3
Thank you for that
Aug 05th 2019
6
both my parents are gone
Aug 05th 2019
13
My condolences.
Aug 05th 2019
17
My pops died in March
Aug 05th 2019
14
Sorry for your loss
Aug 05th 2019
16
Peace yo
Aug 05th 2019
15
Peace to you too and thank you.
Aug 05th 2019
18
Peace
Aug 05th 2019
20
Thank you
Aug 06th 2019
27
I feel you...
Aug 05th 2019
21
Record them if not video audio
Aug 05th 2019
22
When we were first told the diagnoses my wife brought this idea up
Aug 06th 2019
28
cherish the time
Aug 05th 2019
24
Yeah, I learned this 2 weeks ago
Aug 06th 2019
29
I wish you didn't have to go through this
Aug 06th 2019
25
I had been meaning to post on her about this since 3 weeks ago
Aug 06th 2019
30
      I'm glad we can be here for you as we can.
Aug 07th 2019
38
I can't say too much but..
Aug 06th 2019
26
I feel like saying fuck it all
Aug 06th 2019
31
I lost my mom last week...so I feel you
Aug 06th 2019
32
Sorry for your loss
Aug 06th 2019
33
sorry for your loss.
Aug 07th 2019
37
Sorry for your loss.
Aug 08th 2019
39
Condolences fam. Seems a few of us are going through it.
Aug 12th 2019
45
Grieve later, spend all the time you can with your mom and support her
Aug 06th 2019
34
Mom is presently in the hospital
Aug 08th 2019
40
Got some good news, Her surgery got moved up to the 12th.
Aug 09th 2019
41
RE: Got some good news, Her surgery got moved up to the 12th.
Aug 11th 2019
43
The only thing that you can do is just be supportive...
Aug 09th 2019
42
Its not looking good
Aug 12th 2019
44
Sorry to hear it
Aug 12th 2019
46
Thank you
Aug 12th 2019
48
Do your best to be the light she needs right now. It may seem daunting.....
Aug 12th 2019
47
Thank you
Aug 12th 2019
49
strength and love to you and yours walihorse... nm
Aug 12th 2019
51
man this is tough, i wish you the best
Aug 12th 2019
52
Such devastating news.
Aug 13th 2019
53
Stay strong, keep a level head about what needs doing, and don't
Aug 12th 2019
50
*hugs alla y'all* *prays for alla y'all*
Aug 13th 2019
54
Hugs for everybody (nm).
Aug 14th 2019
55

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