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 black women been talkin bout it and i hope their voices are amplified |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 1
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 I guess. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 3
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| this story isn't about 'sweetheart'. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 7
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| Yeah I started talking about a related topic. I think it's allowed. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 11
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| yes, buddy. it's a shame that some old black woman can't say |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 18
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| You are skipping over the question (I thought you would see where |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 139
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| no, buddy. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 142
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| There is an easy answer (I think). |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 145
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| k. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 146
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| Not a fan of “look at the discomfort in these photos” |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 2
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 Possibly because you're not their intended audience. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 4
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 Who is the intended audience other than men who should learn |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 14
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| It's a personal essay piece, it ends like this. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 25
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| What you have typed here not at all refutes my point. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 29
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| RE: What you have typed here not at all refutes my point. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 31
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| Pretty sexist of you to assume the piece is only meant for women. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 119
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| RE: Pretty sexist of you to assume the piece is only meant for women. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 134
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| should be intended for everybody |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 32
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| Why should it be for everyone? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 36
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| why shouldn't it be? That just seems weird |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 37
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| Because it's a personal essay piece on a blog. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 39
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| huh? google jesse Jackson accused and see how many news sites |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 42
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| Those sites are doing news interest pieces, didn't say nothing about pri... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 43
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| What do you mean by "personal essay"? This isn't her journal. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 127
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| RE: What do you mean by "personal essay"? This isn't her journal. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 135
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| Because it's on the Root, An African-American General Interest |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 120
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| Bruh been loud and wrong... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 151
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| You stfu. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 153
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| Never |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 155
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| did he just argue wit your sig? |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 187
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| they coming for you lol |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 6
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| lol |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 8
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| who them? https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_KAbb54SuKU/maxresdefault.jpg |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 20
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| https://goo.gl/DL5HWk |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 22
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| leave a comment on the article & see how it goes |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 10
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| RE: leave a comment on the article & see how it goes |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 186
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| http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/tbt.gif |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 12
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| See #15. Better Bait. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 17
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| for the 10 thousandth FUCKING time... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 105
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| I agree with you but the Ben Affleck Tape is a bad example. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 117
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| what makes it a bad example? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 122
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| The woman came out strongly disagreeing with the |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 132
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| that makes sense. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 133
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| fair enough; i wasn't aware of the follow up |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 141
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| I hear you and again agree with you, but let's acknowledge the |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 148
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| and if it's awkward for you, imagine how confusing this shit is for us |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 149
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| Word. Peace. |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 166
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| Fight, flight, freeze, appease |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 138
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| Can be confusing bc that's also a reaction for an enjoyable |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 147
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| ive had a couple of run ins with John Singleton and dude is wild |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 5
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| he aint been the same since he got his eyes fixed |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 152
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| didja hear about Marilyn Manson's bass player? him too. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 9
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| I think you call them out and hope they learn and stop. If Bush |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 13
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| but is "learning and stopping" alright? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 40
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| sorry is the most some will get.. and it may not even be heartfelt |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 71
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| basically if you got laid ever someone could say you harassed them. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 15
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| i dont think i understand |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 16
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| or: any of us could've harassed or abused someone |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 23
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| anyone you holla'd at or hugged back in the day could come forward |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 28
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| you might've been inappropriate back then. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 34
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| I wasn't a handsy type of dude but I was a dog |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 41
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| i'm sure plenty women can relate to those photos though, bro. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 44
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| yup.. and I've said I believe her |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 47
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| no that's not at all what's going on. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 21
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| I was going to say you're wasting your keystrokes |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 24
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| right. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 26
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| I applaud your optimism. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 61
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| I had a good deal of partners before I got married |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 27
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| that's not for you to say tho bruh... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 30
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| No it really is for me. I've always understood consent |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 35
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| you are doing what women have been complaining about |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 45
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| I'm not. No. I've continuously respected the agency of women I interacte... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 49
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| It also feels like your misinterpreting/misrepresenting the conversation... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 51
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| lmao.. what the fuck are you talking about |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 54
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| RE: lmao.. what the fuck are you talking about |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 56
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| wel this story is a thigh grab and hugging while saying something |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 63
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| Have you ever grabbed the thigh of someone you weren't fucking? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 65
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| no, but I've hugged a lot of people.. especially in college |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 73
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| RE: no, but I've hugged a lot of people.. especially in college |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 80
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| and my point is it doesn't matter how great you think you were |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 87
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| RE: and my point is it doesn't matter how great you think you were |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 92
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| sure thing guy |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 109
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| you play too much. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 60
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| He's the temporary embarrassed millionaire of predatory behavior |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 64
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| lmao.. you are a funny dude. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 70
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| Because you seem more scared of slippery slope fallacy and straw men |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 72
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| I think you are having a hard time with this because I corrected you |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 83
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| I could say the same about you |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 67
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| right on. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 77
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| Last one. When I was 17 four dudes got kicked off the CC team for flashi... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 55
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| oh, I've seen dudes do some terrible things back in HS |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 58
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| a lot of our approach to sex has been predatory when you think about it. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 33
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| *turns the volume up on this* |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 52
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| Whoa player...what's this "OUR" shit??? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 66
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| good point. i shouldnt assume you like women. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 69
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| Thanks, confirmed your adolescent mindset for me... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 74
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| fam, he did say a lot of our, not all of our |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 75
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| dude knows what i meant. just wanted to pop fly. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 76
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| Why you so mad doe? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 81
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| you still doing this in 2017? lol |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 86
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| Sometimes I like to go back. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 95
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| It don't sit right with me..... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 78
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| why not? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 79
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| Sex is a two way street. I get what he meant, but we have the space |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 85
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| but do you understand what he's saying though? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 88
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| Of course I do. I didn't say anything about the substance of his stateme... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 97
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| k. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 98
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| lol i love this place. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 114
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| so you get what i meant but that wasnt gonna stop you from arguing. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 91
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| Who's arguing? I basically said "What's this WE shit?" .... lol..why y'a... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 99
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| what's wrong w/being sensitive about a delicate subject? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 103
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| I'ma just sit my Chris Rocking ass down....lol.. you right. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 110
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| ha! workshopping . LOL |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 115
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| flesh what out, though... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 101
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| my delivery is just off. he's good. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 111
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| It DOES take some skill to get women to want to have sex with you. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 121
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| No..no it doesn't...ESPECIALLY these days lol...chicks WAY hornier |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 128
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| Realistically do you Think it takes more effort for your average |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 131
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| what does the level of effort have to do with it? i mean a man can |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 137
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| yea, but they'd still have the make the effort |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 154
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| . |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 164
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| not everyone has game tho |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 160
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| https://media.tenor.com/images/ecca6d81113c2e6d77cdc392cb0c4a59/tenor.gi... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 162
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| Or getting yourself in position to |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 163
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| chicks w/big chests and no backside...#1 on the planet...you're welcome |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 167
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| When grown dudes are awkward around women |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 168
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| Gotta disagree. It seems easy to dudes that pull women regularly... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 184
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| OK |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 185
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| What's the correct way to ACTIVELY pursue sex? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 104
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| you might fck around and get impregnated by flying sperm though... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 116
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| yep, predatory and somewhat adversarial |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 156
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| ^^^^^^^^ |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 171
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| Is there a way to ethically , ACTIVELY pursue sex? |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 180
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| Oh obviously. I think so. Thing is, it's subjective |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 181
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| my view on this would be how would you feel if you found out the other |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 183
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| poast achieved. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 94
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| Jesse had a side kid, so that's not surprising. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 19
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| MLK tho.. imagine the stories about the great MLK if he were alive? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 90
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| we already have some stories about MLK. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 102
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| this...just....huh. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 113
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| when we immediately jump to concerns about proof we ignore |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 38
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| kinda like how the white folks do Black folks in reference to police |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 46
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| damn. yeah. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 48
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| See also: |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 57
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| damn. LOL |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 82
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| the first thing that comes to mind... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 50
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| observation and past experience. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 53
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| ok... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 84
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| maybe you are one of the lucky ones. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 96
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| lucky? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 124
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| cool. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 125
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| how old? and that dude did the right thing |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 112
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| I'll never forget the day... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 136
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| Girls can have that awkward age were they don't know they are .. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 143
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| smh i remember once in my early 20s...i was at my boy's house pissy |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 178
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| I don't know if there are conversations about it |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 118
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| a cousin recently talked about being molested in my family |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 123
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| these things are really tricky to navigate |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 129
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| damn |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 157
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| Visual media, movies, tv really can fuck up your world view |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 59
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| older men/dudes...and for some...severe childhood issues |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 62
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| remember when folks tried to romanticize pimps from back in the day |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 89
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| wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy worse...like way way worse... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 100
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| World culture. It's not just a man thing at all. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 68
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| what do you mean? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 93
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| The pursuit of companionship is ALWAYS a chase. A pursuit. A movement. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 108
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| are there cultures where women pursue aggressively w/ behaviors |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 126
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| Young M.A comes to mind immediately... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 150
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| Jesus Christo |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 158
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| lmao |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 165
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| I used a person because I don't know the politically correct term and I ... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 169
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| lol |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 179
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| are you playing GNDRWARZ? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 130
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| i think he trying to emphasis it being more of a culture thing... |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 140
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| of course it's a cultural thing. no one is saying it's biological. |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 144
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| the culture she's a part of is a subculture |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 159
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| Yup. |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 161
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| then you have the hands part of it... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 172
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| This is what I typed: |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 170
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| this ain't the place to have this discussion. |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 173
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| no doubt. no time today anyways.... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 174
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| i literally had no idea what you were trying to say originally |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 175
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| I think he is saying women and men CHASE women |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 176
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| there had to be a simpler way to say that other than world culture lol |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 177
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| LOL..there was. I be struggling with getting what's in my head out on pa... |
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Nov 08th 2017 | 182
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| We can't get around the fact that men are overwhelmingly the perpetrator... |
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Nov 09th 2017 | 189
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| "the game is to be sold, not told" posts |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 107
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| how come you put on the old black man? |
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Nov 07th 2017 | 106
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| Paul Mooney would say they're already in trouble |
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Nov 09th 2017 | 188
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