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 I generally stay out of posts like these, but co-sign 100% |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 1
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| you see it. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 2
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 if nothing else, I've seen my own shortcomings. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 4
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  call it out when it happens yeah but we also should talk about it |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 11
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| I agree and I think it's also possible without caring per se |
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Nov 03rd 2017 |
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| word. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 7
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| this is where it gets tricky though. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 17
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| It's really not that tricky |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 20
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| you're correct. ( I knew my words would trip me up, lol) |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 25
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| RE: you're correct. ( I knew my words would trip me up, lol) |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 29
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| your whole thing is "Screw 'em". I'm not built that way. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 30
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| My whole thing is, quit trying to out-think people you don't know |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 32
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| HA!!! I suppose you're right. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 35
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| i hold doors for women - except when I don't. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 37
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| Seems like a good policy. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 39
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| sure. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 50
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| why do you think it's difficult to talk to women w/o problems? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 22
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| see #25. I just elaborated. I hope. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 26
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| "thats a big package you got there" |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 54
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| yup. lol |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 56
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| Michael Scott wept. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 62
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| lmao. "yeah and i have a box here too" |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 70
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| Do you have the same rules for interacting with men? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 65
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| I kinda do |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 118
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| RE: you see it. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 36
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| ^^^^^^^ |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 64
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| NNN lol |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 3
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| and for the love of god stop talking about your fucking daughters |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 5
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| Lord jeebus, I need glasses. I SOOO read that wrong. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 8
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| lol smh |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 9
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| stop laughing |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 12
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| no, everything is a joke. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 14
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| is ''i would hate for some1 to do that to me'' denying the |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 156
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| every post turns into a string of jokes tho. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 6
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| No they don't. Black people getting killed posts don't |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 10
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| too many posts about women devolves into a lame genderwarz |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 13
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| And they should just own that |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 15
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| ditto for the probing questions seeking to blame women |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 19
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| you been here long enough...yes they do. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 47
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| Here's the ferguson post |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 49
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| There are plenty of jokes and llolz in that post |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 55
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| Ok. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 57
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| i appreciate that so many women and men are coming forward |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 16
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| change |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 18
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| I hope it doesn't turn into the "Cause of the week" |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 21
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| i don't think we get to define 'harassment' or 'real shit'. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 24
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| fair enough. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 27
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| I think there's going to be a backlash |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 23
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| there will be a backlash for sure |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 28
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| agreed completely |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 31
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| i was/am really disturbed by the poster |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 33
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| And he's still god damn fucking posting like he didn't type that |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 34
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| yup. he posted in the rape lyrics post too, no less |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 38
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| ain't no way in HELL I'm going in that post. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 40
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| And for all the people wanting to give him the benefit of the doubt |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 41
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| reading that again has me livid |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 44
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| I don't begrudge you one bit |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 46
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| RE: I don't begrudge you one bit |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 51
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| I just want to say ONE thing real quick.... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 42
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| It's hard for me to forget someone casually admitting to rape |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 43
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| I hear you, i'm just saying...it's tough. Like you linked it which is co... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 45
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| How? Bartek aint posted in years and folks still bring him up |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 48
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| I guess for me because it's one post and I wouldn't have known about it |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 52
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| Dude never came back and clarified or gave more info |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 59
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| the post is vague as hell |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 53
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| my question is when did APPROACHING women become rape culture |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 58
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| Give an example |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 60
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| circa the stop tellin women to smile stuff |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 61
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| And like I said in the first response to you there. It isnt |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 63
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| Yup. People know how not to use 2am club holla language |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 67
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| In the street holla post years ago, men couldn't talk to women...EVER |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 66
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| We live in a time where folks can post a horror story about ANYTHING |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 68
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| I was talkin abt Southern Culture & she tried to flip it as Rape Culture |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 69
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| but can we hear them though? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 72
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| Why the push back against absurdity? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 73
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| i don't think it's absurd. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 74
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| and in that post its me, sowhat, hitokiri and the women |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 153
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| yes but you understand you're not entitled to speak to |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 71
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| While I understand how excessive and disrespectful men can be |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 76
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| you just argued against yourself. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 78
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| Lol fair enough. I feel entitled to speak. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 105
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| RE: Lol fair enough. I feel entitled to speak. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 107
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| I believe we're just arguing degree |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 128
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| Folks bringing up degree to make concessions and excuses for themselves.... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 129
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| Sorry, I didn't acknowledge I wanted to talk to you. You are now raping |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 135
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| No I'm talking about hello. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 130
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| You conflated hello with smile beautiful lol |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 138
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| Yes, I did. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 139
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| But that’s just part of being in public |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 77
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| no that's how we choose to act. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 79
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| It's culture. I would feel weird standing next to someone for minutes... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 82
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| Word. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 84
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| Just nod nigga |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 85
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| nah |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 89
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| Ok then. You the weirdo that can't change behavior. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 93
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| ^^^goes to networking events to mean mug |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 103
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| RE: ^^^goes to networking events to mean mug |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 121
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| I'm sure you do |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 127
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| are women not part of the culture? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 92
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| They want a quasi forced "in." |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 95
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| SAY THAT SHIT. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 149
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| Which women are you talking about? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 119
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| Dumb people need to argue in absolutes because they can't do nuance |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 122
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| k. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 123
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| RE: It's culture. I would feel weird standing next to someone for minute... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 137
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| this is what I was touching on earlier, actually. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 83
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| Just fucking nod nigga. Nobody needs to hear your voice |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 86
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| Black Fist too, or nah? ( To the brothers in the breakroom) |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 88
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| Are you giving black men the raised fist randomly? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 91
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| Straight Alpha Male up in this piece, Holmes. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 97
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| Then say you old and don't wanna change my guy. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 98
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| apparently so. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 101
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| do you know why? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 99
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| you guys are making good points. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 102
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| those women have issues they need worked out in therapy. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 111
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| wow. i dont even know what to say to this |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 116
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| Ole hurt alert ass nigga. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 120
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| ive read this whole post and i find this particular reply odd |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 196
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| Says a lot about you I suppose |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 198
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| This is male privilege. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 125
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| Eesh |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 131
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| I'll scale that back...my post was in reference to women that have been ... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 143
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| Women who I say hi to that give a fuck off vibe |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 159
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| Why the over focus on hi |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 160
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| Wow, dude. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 75
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| Vice's former "Male Feminist" columnist is accused of drugging and viole... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 80
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| So much for him not being like those other men. LOL |
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Nov 05th 2017 | 187
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| Rape culture is forcing ourselves on women against their will |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 81
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| forcing ourselves like by saying hi? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 87
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| No. Because that's not rape culture. Fuck the dumb shit. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 90
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| there's a lot of joking and whatnot, but that's the root of it all. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 94
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| Yes. We men are really that fucked up |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 96
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| agreed..I say hi to women all the time. Especially if they fine. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 100
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| I don't care about you enough to explain nuance. You grown. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 108
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| Word. and none of the grown women i know relate random hi's to |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 112
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| you always have time to whine about some shit |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 133
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| ^^^^^^ |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 147
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| yeah. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 104
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| yeah i'm sorry man. There's nothing wrong with saying hi. If a woman |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 109
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| i dunno what else to tell you. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 110
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| Nah I care. I'd tell them to go to therapy. It helps. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 113
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| that's very funny. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 126
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| Not tryna be funny. Any victim of assault should have therapy |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 144
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| so what happens if you don't say "Hi" tho |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 114
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| If I didn't say hi and/or start conversations with random people i'd hav... |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 115
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| Way to find a way around the question |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 140
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| I'd die with less friends than I have now |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 142
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| not for nothing, but somebody triggered by "hello" needs therapy |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 197
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| Honestly the shit I've seen in Miami during spring break |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 106
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| Was it Memorial Day Weekend? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 117
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| It won't happen publicly here. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 132
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| Them lonely niggas get it. Fuck them. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 134
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| eh. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 136
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| What if your smiles and nods are taking them to bad place? |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 145
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| its spring break. thats what youre there for. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 171
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| this is a pretty trash POV |
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Nov 05th 2017 | 186
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| Feel free to say hello to strange men, fellas. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 141
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| I say hi to dudes all the time. Especially on vaca and they black |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 146
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| Anyone can get it. Talked to a strange dude at the bar tonight |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 150
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| I speak to strange men all the time. |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 151
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| million dollar question |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 170
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| Get all the way the fuck out of here. Yall act like you Tony Robbins |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 173
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| It's the weekend man relax |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 174
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| RE: It's the weekend man relax |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 176
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| Lol you pulling census data on saying hi to strangers? |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 175
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| Where would I even get that data? |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 178
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| Meet implies new people. What the hell is wrong with you |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 181
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| ok |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 182
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| The fuck is you talking about? Charlotte is a transplant city fam |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 183
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| RE: The fuck is you talking about? Charlotte is a transplant city fam |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 184
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| That’s a lot of words. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 185
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| im actually annoyed that this post went exactly as expected |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 148
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| Pervy men have discovered consequences in 17 |
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Nov 03rd 2017 | 152
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| we have to understand |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 154
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| It's fine for her to protect herself, to react how she wants |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 155
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| Are there really too many incidents going the wrong way? |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 157
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| It feels like you're deliberately missing the point. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 158
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| Bro, I’m not out here thuggish up women. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 161
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| Then the conversation isn't about you. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 162
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| Lol... ok, next time just tell us to cosign or log off |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 177
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| Yeah, it's my fault that a post about rape culture became everything but |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 180
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| And like you STILL not talking about consent |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 163
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| The dudes first sentence spoke to dudes who press the issue |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 169
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| Nigga please |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 172
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| I can only speak for myself. But I agree with everything you are saying.... |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 164
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| RE: I can only speak for myself. But I agree with everything you are say... |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 165
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| Who said women should 'take it'? |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 167
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| let's use that cop example. |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 166
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| Does anyone have an issue with this tho? |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 168
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| I get that... I'm not crosding the street at night to speak |
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Nov 04th 2017 | 179
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| really proud of y'all in this post..i got nothing to add. |
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Nov 05th 2017 | 188
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| this post went weird on both sides as expected |
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Nov 06th 2017 | 189
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| Both sides (c) Trump |
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Nov 06th 2017 | 190
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| I can't put my finger on it. But some people seem to be only concerned |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 191
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| there was a whole thing about Alyssa Milano |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 192
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| that still speaks to his point though |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 193
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| That's what I was tryna get at |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 208
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| there's a weird coincidence about people who use the phrase |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 194
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| was "believe all women" actually a thing? |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 204
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| I've looked and I haven't been able to find any reference to people usin... |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 205
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| thats pretty much become her own genre. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 206
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| I mean I've seen it on social media |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 209
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| Bruh, these people are lying |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 211
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| pretty sure you got bigger problems than making shit up |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 214
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| this sounds like some personal shit homeboy. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 218
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| You see who is in here doing the most |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 220
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| show me |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 213
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| Again... |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 207
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| I hope you weren't expecting me to remember you. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 212
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| Your hoe ass remember everything else |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 216
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| so you didn't mean it last time but you will stop interacting with me no... |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 217
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| energy suddenly changes up. |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 195
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| fixed that |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 199
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| and i just realized how old this post is lol |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 200
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| Weird that you felt a need to decenter rape from a rape culture post |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 201
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| bloop. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 219
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| I'm pretty sure this isn't true. |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 202
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| Some people? I would say all. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 210
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| USA CULTURE |
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Apr 21st 2020 | 203
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| Bernie LOST. |
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Apr 22nd 2020 | 215
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