Represents choosing a completely different lifestyle, access to certain environments and treatment. Especially in DC, where class, biracial identities and education drive so much of how people move, get jobs and are treated.
Some black men don't want to be average. They want to be admired and respected, if it means being with a white woman, they will do it. I don't think it is all about love. I think the security of whiteness opens them up for more love.