My dad was a heavy drinker and one of his nicknames is car daddy because he has so many lives. When he was 23 or so he was at a bar with a random that wasn't his fiance at the time. They decided to walk to the next bar because it was nice out. The girl points over at a bridge that has steps going up the side and asked him to guess how many steps there were to the top of the bridge. They decide to go count them and once they are at the top she sits on the railing of the bridge while they smoke and talk.
My dad says "what if I pushed you off this bridge and joked like he was going to do it. The woman pushes him away but in doing so she pushes herself backwards off the railing. My dad dives over the railing and grabs her as they both flip and fall over the edge.
He lands on his back on the railroad tracks and she is in top of him and her knees break his pelvis. Both of them are fucked up and after an hour or so they wake up. She can move but my dad is in too much pain. She finally climbs up the side of the hill and goes to her brothers house because they play poker on Friday nights and you can actually see the house from the tracks.
She opens the door and the brothers see her all fucked up and all they hear is my dad's name. "Leggs" so they think he beat her up. They go down to the bridge and see him laying next to the tracks. They pick him up and doing him over one of the brothers shoulders. Climb up the hill and when they almost get into the top they slip and fall all the way back down the hill... these dudes been drinking all night so they weren't much help.
They finally get him to a hospital and it's the same hospital my dad's fiance's mother works at but she had the night off. They call the mother at home to tell her Leggs is at the hospital cause he fell over the railing with a woman. Naturally the mother thinks it's her daughter so she rushed down to the hospital and when she runs in the room to see her daughter she sees some other woman.
That was the end of his relationship with his fiance.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*