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71. "Man GTFOHWTBS"
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You think it's a parents responsibility to make sure their black kids spend time with White Folks? Like why would that be a priority? Especially if those parents have had no meaningful contact with white folks?

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>At this point in the conversation, I feel like anyone that is
>of age to discuss this matter intelligently should be on a
>level of understanding that there are more things that have a
>bearing on social interaction and intercultural existence that
>can/should be done waaaaaaay before college is even on the
>table. Not trying to throw darts at peoples past.




There aren't
>really any real barriers to social interaction between
>different races and culture in America in current times.
>Hell...i'd venture that it hasn't really been any real
>barriers since the late 80's.... So with that understanding,
>there's no real excuse for anyone born since the 90's to not
>have been socialized enough that they gotta cram for adult
>life by choosing a PWI over an HBCU.


This is just made up bullshit that doesn't take into account that many black people live in segregated communities that would require busing to have that sort of interaction. How is this important meaningful interaction suppose to happen? And how are poor people (who live in the most segregated communities) suppose to engage in this meaningful interaction?


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>
>>So how would someone in that position get exposure to
>cultures
>>that are non-black? Should they bus their children out to
>the
>>suburbs?
>
>In 2016, that's just a non factor. I'd venture that in all big
>cities, exposure to other cultures doesn't require being
>bussed to the suburbs for school. IT takes action on the
>parents part though.
>

Man you should listen to this American Life Episode about how segregation is still such a huge part of the American education experience.

http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/562/the-problem-we-all-live-with

You just don't know what you are talking about.


>>Not saying that choosing a PWI vs HBCU is the answer, but
>how
>>is it a bad thing if someone chooses a school in-part to
>>experience other cultures?
>
>It's not a bad thing until people hang their hat on it being
>THE reason. Which is a lot of what I seem to be reading here.
>
>
>"Get ready....for your blessing....."


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Aisha Tyler to students: Think beyond Black colleges [View all] , legsdiamond, Fri May-06-16 09:46 AM
 
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She didn't say anything wrong
May 06th 2016
1
Her actual quote is a good argument FOR going to black colleges
May 06th 2016
2
Had the same thought. I think it's generally good advice.
May 06th 2016
11
exactly what i was thinking word for word.
May 06th 2016
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      I went to a PWI for college, but my grade schools were mostly black
May 06th 2016
33
           i ended up going to a PWI for grad school
May 06th 2016
44
Has Aisha Tyler ever stepped out of her comfort zone?
May 06th 2016
3
prolly never dated a brotha.. IRL or on TV
May 06th 2016
10
you seem really upset about that
May 06th 2016
78
I won't be able to sleep tonight
May 06th 2016
85
she met her husband in high school
May 09th 2016
109
Um, isn't she from Oakland
May 06th 2016
19
Says San Francisco on her Wikipedia page
May 06th 2016
21
basically
May 06th 2016
29
What about us Cali Kids that grew up in <5% populations?
May 06th 2016
4
headline and quotes don't seem to match at all.
May 06th 2016
5
The "step out of your comfort zone" thing is real tho. But as for that
May 06th 2016
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I'd only be surprised if she was with a Black dude
May 06th 2016
8
dammit, even in a cartoon yo...
May 06th 2016
12
>>>>>SHOCKPOSTINGTITLE<<<<<<
May 06th 2016
7
It's Friday and I just got paid!!!!
May 06th 2016
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RE: >>>>>SHOCKPOSTINGTITLE<<<<<<
May 06th 2016
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Allyson Leak & madamenoire.com deserves some heat for the clickbait bs
May 06th 2016
9
lol.
May 06th 2016
13
Black Colleges enrollment off the charts?
May 06th 2016
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      i'm LOLing at your clickbaitassed subject line...lol...
May 06th 2016
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           don't lol at the messenger. I copied and pasted
May 06th 2016
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                my bad, I'm just having trouble finding the actual quote you quoted.
May 06th 2016
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                I copied the title from the article
May 06th 2016
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                     LOL..damn...shit was right.there. I don't think i'm the only one that
May 06th 2016
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                Stop trying to beat him over the head with HBCU Blackness
May 06th 2016
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Hopefully
May 06th 2016
24
I guess I need the context of the statement. Was she at a Black Expo?
May 06th 2016
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      It was an interview for Money Magazine
May 06th 2016
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           I'm sure she feels like she is proof her way is the best way
May 06th 2016
40
If we want to get this post poppin, let's discuss whether HBCUs
May 06th 2016
27
The notion that Black people need formal training to "deal" is insulting...
May 06th 2016
30
I learned in college and law school. *Shrugs*
May 06th 2016
32
learned what?
May 06th 2016
35
How to deal with them on a personal level.
May 06th 2016
39
      I guess everyone is different. *shrugs*
May 06th 2016
45
      RE: How to deal with them on a personal level.
May 06th 2016
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I'm Black.
May 06th 2016
38
      besides the white dog smell stereotype.. how hard is it?
May 06th 2016
48
           Depends on your mindset I guess... Are you proceeding as an Other or
May 06th 2016
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           I will give you the most extreme egregious example (that might
May 06th 2016
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                how much of that "enlightenment" was age/maturity vs. school though.
May 06th 2016
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                Maybe but I doubt it from my experience. And no I went to a PWI
May 06th 2016
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                yeah, that's a bad example
May 06th 2016
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Some black folks grow in in nearly all-black environments...
May 06th 2016
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      If there's an issue...it's not a choice of college issue, it's a cultura...
May 06th 2016
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           Are you saying where one grows up is an "upbringing issue?"
May 06th 2016
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           I'm saying that the growing up process is a parental responsibility
May 06th 2016
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                     I DIDN'T SAY THAT AT ALL.. Chill with that nonsense & read...
May 06th 2016
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                          I don't think anyone saying a reason to go to PWI is to learn
May 06th 2016
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           Yo I think you are all the way dead wrong here.
May 06th 2016
68
           No, the root of what i'm saying is the college isn't going to solve
May 06th 2016
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                Then we are down to two points.
May 06th 2016
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                     Segregation is not the issue on either side. The issue is the
May 06th 2016
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                          Ooohhhhh, I finally see where you are coming from.
May 06th 2016
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                               I can clap to this.
May 06th 2016
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           It's not irresponsible at all
May 06th 2016
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he still lives in America right?
May 06th 2016
31
I didn't have any meaningful interaction with white folks until
May 06th 2016
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      I envy that shit fam
May 06th 2016
43
some of us easily live work and play successfully in majority
May 06th 2016
41
But where? There isn't a long list of places where you can do that.
May 06th 2016
47
ATL, Detroit, N.O.??
May 06th 2016
49
Detroit, Chicago, Baltimore, Philadelphia, Memphis, old-school DC...
May 06th 2016
50
Houston, Dallas, All over Alabama/Mississippi, Los Angeles
May 06th 2016
53
How are they living tho?
May 06th 2016
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      All those place got black people doing well and making money
May 06th 2016
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      I have to ask because up above cats are listing some of the poorest citi...
May 06th 2016
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           I don't disagree that they aren't poor cities, but even poor cities
May 06th 2016
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           poor cities still have middle class black areas
May 06th 2016
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           everybody in 'poor' cities aint poor
May 06th 2016
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                Don't you work for the fed govt?
May 06th 2016
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                     indirectly
May 06th 2016
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                          OK but I've dealth with Govt orgs that are HORRIBLY inefficient
May 06th 2016
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                          i used to work there too lol....the IRS is the # 1 dgaf about you
May 06th 2016
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                          Fed government & related jobs are already on my short mental list of
May 06th 2016
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      RE: How are they living tho? 2 B Honesty, They live in poverty.
May 06th 2016
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Fam, no matter WHERE you live...there's gonna be some Black folks
May 06th 2016
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Durham
May 06th 2016
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I went to a small New England PWI and only fucked with black
May 06th 2016
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that headline is a SICE
May 06th 2016
34
she is getting divorced from that white dude
May 06th 2016
55
we still ain't getting our recipes back....
May 06th 2016
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and when he gets on, he leave yo ass for a white giiiiirl
May 06th 2016
62
Aww man. Didn't know much about her till I subscribed to her podcast
May 06th 2016
99
      seems like she doesn't bring him up because he doesn't want to be brough...
May 09th 2016
108
           true
May 09th 2016
111
Anecdotal but, MOST of my folks who went to HBCU's...
May 06th 2016
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good stuff
May 06th 2016
80
my life verbatim
May 06th 2016
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yup.
May 06th 2016
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That's exactly why I wish I went to an HBCU, that infinite spectrum
May 06th 2016
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same. it took some living to realize what I missed out on
May 06th 2016
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This. I was the "weird" black guy in college
May 06th 2016
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There are studies to back this up...
May 06th 2016
91
I do not see anything wrong and agree with her.
May 06th 2016
96
That's excellent advice
May 06th 2016
100
HBCU experience teaches you the fallacy of race
May 07th 2016
101
so so true
May 07th 2016
103
i agree with her...yall trippin
May 07th 2016
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hella common knowledge
May 08th 2016
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Are HBCU grads struggling socially after graduation in the work place?
May 08th 2016
105
Exactly.
May 08th 2016
106
Definitely unfounded bias fueling an agenda.
May 09th 2016
107
Yup
May 09th 2016
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