When I was single, only one person had a spare key to my apartment: My oldest sister. Even then the only time she ever used it was to let herself in AFTER she called me to let me know she was stopping by.
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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out? Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then? They don't want to call for peace then.