iono about that
if we're talking ppl living in some dirt village sure, because that's a survival thing
i'm not talking about "africans" per say. if it was some hausa chick from some dirt road i may have understood
but "westernized" people making that a #1 priority in peoples lives to the point ppl get depressed and avoid family gatherings
yikes
we got into a lot of other stuff like the reasons why they couldn't even logically argue or explain that getting a man wasn't their #1 life goal to otherwise rational family members
but that cultural norm was a shock to me coming from ppl who are quick to let you know "Africa" isn't all huts and lions

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