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dew drops
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"Okps over 30: let's discuss dating"
Wed Aug-12-15 09:21 AM by dew drops

          

When I was younger, dating was a lot more fun for me. Meeting new people and having new experiences. It seemed more recreational and easygoing. Now, I'm over it. lol The process is less enjoyable and more frustrating. Possibly due to having to balance with all my other responsibilities.

So I wondered how okps feel about dating at this point in their life. Do you like dating? Did you ever like it, and are now tired of it? Do you want to get married or settle down with someone or would you be happy being single forever? Is being in a relationship a priority to you? Do you feel pressured (by anyone including yourself) to settle down or to get married? Do you think your career gets in the way of dating?

Feel free to discuss (or vent) about anything regarding dating.

  

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Okps over 30: let's discuss dating [View all] , dew drops, Wed Aug-12-15 09:20 AM
 
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feels like it gets harder to meet people
Aug 12th 2015
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RE: feels like it gets harder to meet people
Aug 12th 2015
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RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 12th 2015
2
i feel you on creating/maintaining relationships in general.
Aug 12th 2015
9
Meeting women is harder, everything else is MUCH easier
Aug 12th 2015
3
Some answers:
Aug 12th 2015
8
what is "much easier" for you?
Aug 12th 2015
10
      I'm no longer chasing women, I'm now running a path that I make
Aug 12th 2015
13
           ^^great outlook
Aug 12th 2015
17
           yeah this is a great outlook.
Aug 13th 2015
37
20's was just carefree, now it's like a damm job
Aug 12th 2015
5
Man I use to love that New Date Smell. The excitement is gone.
Aug 12th 2015
6
I'm ok with it-- I just stopped fighting the frustrations
Aug 12th 2015
7
word
Aug 12th 2015
11
shit has to be rough...
Aug 12th 2015
12
I'm out the game too.
Aug 12th 2015
14
yeah but it's sooo not worth it
Aug 12th 2015
15
      I can see it not working for everybody.
Aug 12th 2015
19
social media is the lick
Aug 12th 2015
16
It's getting way easier, yet it still hasn't lead to anything
Aug 12th 2015
18
no snark... you sound like a perfectionist when discussing dating
Aug 12th 2015
22
      Hmm, what do you mean by "perfectionist?"
Aug 13th 2015
39
      i'm curious. what does this mean?
Aug 13th 2015
41
RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 12th 2015
20
i meant to ask how you felt about me rolling up on you like that
Aug 12th 2015
29
      nah it was cool.
Aug 13th 2015
31
           that's funny.
Aug 13th 2015
45
                Real talk tho, from what I just read YOU were the bamma
Aug 13th 2015
58
                     uh...nah.
Aug 13th 2015
61
                     ... tough call. you might be the type of nigga I'm typing about.
Aug 13th 2015
62
                          Says the bamma that was hurt that an okp gave his date a hug
Aug 14th 2015
64
                               this could be fun.
Aug 14th 2015
65
                                    Nah, I really don't care enough to continue. You win!
Aug 14th 2015
67
This has been on my mind lately too...
Aug 12th 2015
21
social media has made everything easy as far as meeting
Aug 12th 2015
23
pretty much.
Aug 12th 2015
25
i've met my "future wife" so many times but....
Aug 12th 2015
26
This is why I quit online dating...
Aug 12th 2015
28
i do think social media has made some feel overwhelmed by options, but
Aug 13th 2015
40
there was a whole tinder article on this recently
Aug 13th 2015
46
Yah.
Aug 14th 2015
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RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 12th 2015
24
Companionship vs. just fuckin' to fuck
Aug 12th 2015
27
YES! companionship vs. fucking to fuck.
Aug 13th 2015
42
RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 12th 2015
30
The combination of being single for the first time in a MINUTE
Aug 13th 2015
32
RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 13th 2015
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RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 13th 2015
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dating after 30 is way better imo
Aug 13th 2015
35
never change bruh
Aug 13th 2015
36
it never stops being funny to me
Aug 13th 2015
44
thing is
Aug 13th 2015
38
      I agree that you are now more accessible to douchebaggery
Aug 13th 2015
43
           RE: I agree that you are now more accessible to douchebaggery
Aug 13th 2015
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i'm 32. and i've never had so many women in my life like
Aug 13th 2015
47
continue to fly free bro!
Aug 13th 2015
48
thank you man, will do.
Aug 13th 2015
52
YES. its the dualism you just described that resonates
Aug 13th 2015
53
man dating is more enjoyable now than in my twenties
Aug 13th 2015
50
opps missed the whole question thing
Aug 13th 2015
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RE: Okps over 30: let's discuss dating
Aug 13th 2015
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I never liked dating. In my 20s I had LTRs with droughts in between
Aug 13th 2015
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reading that article that's all over facebook
Aug 13th 2015
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also reading this vanity fair article
Aug 13th 2015
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I like it.
Aug 13th 2015
59
it sucks
Aug 13th 2015
60
i haven't been on a date in 3 years
Aug 13th 2015
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