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19. "First understand that they won't take your word as gospel."
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Fri Jun-05-15 02:05 PM by daryloneal

  

          

Young people are smart and hardheaded, which is appropriate.

And if they do take your word as gospel, they deserve whatever bad advice you give them so that they can learn from it and do what they should have done in the first place: Find their own way.

People need to make decisions that are the best fit for their situation and what matters most to them.

If you're ALL about the cash, you're likely willing to do nearly whatever as long as it brings you that.

If you're ALL about the passion, you're likely to be willing to sacrifice within reason to chase that.

If you're a mix of both, your path will be a mix of both.

Listen to yourself. That's the advice. If you succeed, keep going. If you fail, learn from it, and keep going.

No one that isn't walking on your journey every day can advise you on what's best for you.

Only you can do that.

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"Find A Job/Career You Love" -- Unrealistic Advice? [View all] , BigJazz, Fri Jun-05-15 10:32 AM
 
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im always torn because I often think 'somebody gotta make the fries'
Jun 05th 2015
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also, I think it works well when you have a job you love - because you
Jun 05th 2015
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My advice is to push that a career is better as a tool to obtain the $$$
Jun 05th 2015
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I hate when that "Career" has to be Rap though
Jun 05th 2015
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RE: "Find A Job/Career You Love" -- Unrealistic Advice?
Jun 05th 2015
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this is sound advice...well said
Jun 08th 2015
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do something you love/like
Jun 05th 2015
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i think it is still realistic advice
Jun 05th 2015
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chase the cash.
Jun 05th 2015
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I think it's realistic... Mostly because I love my career.
Jun 05th 2015
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RE: "Find A Job/Career You Love" -- Unrealistic Advice?
Jun 05th 2015
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maybe they need to find fulfillment outside of their job.
Jun 05th 2015
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"find a job that makes you happy"
Jun 05th 2015
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what do you say to people who can't identify their passion
Jun 05th 2015
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i just think that's impossible to do and is a willful choice
Jun 05th 2015
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i don't think it is...
Jun 05th 2015
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It's an incredibly privileged point of view
Jun 05th 2015
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^ this.
Jun 05th 2015
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well stated.
Jun 05th 2015
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^^^ yeah
Jun 08th 2015
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RE: First understand that they won't take your word as gospel.
Jun 05th 2015
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^^^^^to thine own self be true.
Jun 08th 2015
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even "doing what you love" involves doing lots of
Jun 05th 2015
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as a teacher i big up unionized career fields generally
Jun 05th 2015
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suggest a good cost of living calculator
Jun 05th 2015
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      here's the page i made for my youts. theres one at bottom
Jun 08th 2015
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           nice
Jun 08th 2015
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i really think people should do what they are best at
Jun 05th 2015
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that myers-briggs shit shouldn't be slavishly trusted...
Jun 08th 2015
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Not unrealistic advice, but can lead to unrealistic expectations
Jun 08th 2015
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how so?
Jun 08th 2015
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      in the word of John Forte:
Jun 08th 2015
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I always advise others to figure out what you like to do and then align
Jun 08th 2015
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I've always pushed the idea of balancing...
Jun 08th 2015
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I know people with good careers who HATE their job
Jun 08th 2015
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Career pays bills, Passion fuels Life
Jun 08th 2015
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If you have the support to find that career, then definitely
Jun 08th 2015
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