relationships definitely affect the household.so, you're male. a white male.im guessing your lady is black.it's an interracial relationship, but the 'guy' or 'head of household' is white. so she gotta listen to you. and you be on that white shit. that's different if the male is black.i know, i know. just stay with me....i know J_sun is the most well-adjusted white man on earth, but all caucasians could only dream of being as enlightened as him. some white boys fall short.do you fall short?