they said "we will pay for the entire wedding, as long as it's here in Syracuse and the ceremony is in our church."
I liked their church, and I'm not very religious. I have no ties to Syracuse, so there was no alternate location that I would have preferred. No big deal. My grandmother didn't come to the wedding though, because it was in a church.
For the house money, my parents gave it to us with no strings attached.
*Jews you*
"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus