42. "my mother didn't have the means. i held her down once i got grown" In response to In response to 0
my late Pops was holding a little bit in the years before he passed but i never asked him for much. he was a bootstraps type of dude so me asking him for money would have caused him to launch into his diatribe on how i should do for self...
now that i'm a father...
i'm part bootstraps and part shut up and cut the check. i'll do it on a case-by-case basis...