we all got socialized through our friends and schools, just not at home
the important thing is that our parents talked to us openly about *everything*
the kids who isolated themselves weren't very adjusted to social situations, but we always had/have other families/friends/people around. and the kids who drank up a strom in college did so as an experiment/rebellion, but our family historically experiences that stage of development differently because we were introduced to drugs & alcohol & their effects earlier and very openly
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"Who need fossil fuel when the sun ain't goin' nowhere" - Amiri Baraka