having read the post and most of the responses, it seems that the main sticking point for those who are, for lack of a better word, against homosexuality is the 'choice' factor that they feel exists.so, to those who are heterosexual, i'd ask:when did you choose to be heterosexual?|peace|cruciverbalist|muddy.angel.syntactics|masques and straitjacketsmerchants of cool -- may 1st -- http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/cool/