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23. "RE: uh huh..."
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>Deal intelligently with the situation... somehow
>this makes me feel like
>the comparison makes sense...

when I say "deal intelligently" I only mean understand the risks involved, weigh pros and cons, and then decide whether or not to have the child. I'm definitely not suggesting whether they "should" or "shouldn't," just that they fully comprehend their situation, whatever that may be.

>if
>what I say now doesn't
>change your basic objection, fine,
>you have responded intelligently to
>my questions and raised interesting
>points.

thanks


>Two people "fall in love".
>Their biological status makes having
>a baby a questionable choice.
> They decide to prevent
>the possibility of pregnancy and/or
>adopt, but stay together because
>their love matters so much
>to them.

okay...

>
>Two people "fall in love".
>Their biological status makes having
>a baby impossible. They
>decide to stay babyless or
>adopt, but stay together because
>their love matters so much
>to them.

okay...


>Are these situations so different?

Different from what? From each other? No, not really. Just a matter of choosing NOT to have a child vs. accepting the fact that they CANNOT have a child.

Are those situations different from a gay couple adopting a child? Yes. There's no guarantee that a straight, "conventional" couple will raise a sane, well adjusted child. Conversely, there's no guarantee that a child raised by a same sex couple will grow up to be morally deficient or psychologically scarred.



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Why No Response? [View all] , Chike, Sat Apr-21-01 06:30 AM
 
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I heard dat!
Apr 21st 2001
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RE: Why No Response?
Apr 21st 2001
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RE: Why No Response?
Apr 21st 2001
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      RE: Why No Response?
Apr 21st 2001
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      RE: Why No Response?
Apr 23rd 2001
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RE: Why No Response?
Apr 23rd 2001
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that's what I was thinking n/m
Apr 23rd 2001
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Apr 23rd 2001
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Apr 23rd 2001
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           RE: Why No Response?
Apr 24th 2001
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RE: Why No Response?
Apr 23rd 2001
6
RE: Why No Response?
Apr 23rd 2001
8
RE: Why No Response?
Apr 24th 2001
14
      uh huh...
Apr 25th 2001
17
           RE: uh huh...
Apr 25th 2001
19
                RE: uh huh...
BookWorm
Apr 25th 2001
20
                what do you mean...
Apr 26th 2001
24
                     RE: what do you mean...
BookWorm
Apr 26th 2001
35
                          plenty graphic
Apr 27th 2001
37
               
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Apr 27th 2001
38
RE: Why No Response?
Apr 24th 2001
12
question 4 original poster
Apr 24th 2001
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RE: question 4 original poster
Apr 24th 2001
16
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Apr 25th 2001
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      RE: question 4 original poster
Apr 26th 2001
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Apr 26th 2001
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Apr 26th 2001
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Apr 26th 2001
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Apr 26th 2001
29
RE: question 4 original poster
Apr 25th 2001
18
      RE: question 4 original poster
zcees73
Apr 26th 2001
28
      RE: question 4 original poster
Apr 27th 2001
41
           also,
Apr 27th 2001
42
           so easy 2 B misunderstood...
Apr 28th 2001
47
Stop Judging
Apr 26th 2001
30
RE: Stop Judging
Apr 26th 2001
31
      @ Abduhu....
CoolV
Apr 26th 2001
32
      better known to yall as........
Apr 26th 2001
34
      RE: Stop Judging
Apr 27th 2001
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           RE: Stop Judging
Apr 27th 2001
39
                Good question
Apr 27th 2001
40
                RE: Stop Judging
Apr 27th 2001
43
                     RE: Stop Judging
Apr 28th 2001
48
excellent discussion!
Apr 26th 2001
33
RE: excellent discussion!
Apr 28th 2001
49
      if it was a proven disease
Apr 30th 2001
64
           RE: if it was a proven disease
shwei
Apr 30th 2001
66
                RE: if it was a proven disease
May 01st 2001
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                     RE: if it was a proven disease
shwei
May 01st 2001
68
interesting topic....
Apr 27th 2001
44
ga is not always a choice
mixturevans
Apr 27th 2001
45
RE: ga is not always a choice
BookWorm
Apr 28th 2001
46
RE: Why No Response?
Apr 28th 2001
50
RE: Why No Response?
Apr 29th 2001
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      RE: Why No Response?
Apr 29th 2001
53
           cant say
Apr 29th 2001
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           RE: Why No Response?
Apr 29th 2001
56
                RE: Why No Response?
shwei
Apr 29th 2001
57
                     RE: Why No Response?
Apr 29th 2001
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                          RE: Why No Response?
shwei
Apr 29th 2001
59
Here We Go
Apr 28th 2001
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RE: Here We Go
shwei
Apr 29th 2001
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      RE: Here We Go
Apr 29th 2001
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           RE: Here We Go
Apr 29th 2001
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                RE: Here We Go
shwei
Apr 30th 2001
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the 'choice' issue
Apr 30th 2001
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RE: the 'choice' issue
shwei
Apr 30th 2001
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RE: the 'choice' issue
May 01st 2001
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      RE: the 'choice' issue
shwei
May 02nd 2001
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      RE: the 'choice' issue
shwei
May 02nd 2001
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      RE: the 'choice' issue
May 11th 2001
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           RE: the 'choice' issue
May 11th 2001
79
ha!
May 01st 2001
69
      Response (also to the Queen who thought no one would)
May 02nd 2001
73
RE: Why No Response?
May 02nd 2001
74
My homophobia question
May 10th 2001
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May 10th 2001
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May 11th 2001
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