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35. "Only you can judge if you're doing the best you can"
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That's my point.

You say "yes" but I'm sure there are many who do more/different who would disagree, understand?

>do I have to quantify and qualify my involvement
>in order to have an opinion?

Ma, of course you do, especially if you (or anyone) choose to criticize others & what they do/don't do.

>Would you be championing her (lil' Kim) if
>she were....ummmmm...a prostitute? Is
>that the same thing?

I've know prostitutes who are better quality of people than those who aren't. While I wouldn't choose to be a prostitute (for a variety of reasons), nor would i encourage someone to go that route, I refuse to automatically assume that a hooker is automatically a fouler person than someone who's not. Many people are whores, they just all don't walk the streets. I champion Lil' Kim because I like her spirit & the fact that she known for being friendly & approachable. And that she's found a way to rise above some of the ugliness in her life. Not the way I would chose, but she did it

>I got bigger fish to fry. So much so that I can >do a lot of those volunteer things that you >illuded to earlier without having my ass hanging out, flashing my karratts and respecting
>myself while garnering the respect of others-all >at the same time.

That's you, ma. Not only that but the fact that you don't "have your ass hanging out" doesn't necessarily have to be a positive thing. You could be one of those people caught up in the madonna/whore thing. Also, the respect I value doesn't come from not being flashy or scantily clothed. What's important to me is reliability, loyalty, compassion, friendship - I respect those things...and i don't care if they come in a slut or a or a virgin.

>>>Muhammed Ali- remember him? Those
>>>brothers at the Olympics....remember them?
>>Some would argue that those brothas
>>should've never participated in the
>>Olympics in the first place,
>>ya dig?
>No, I dont.

There were many athletes who's convictions didn't allow them to participate in those Olympics at all. >
>>No offense ma but what makes

>Can any of us afford to be detached from the other?

No, so let's not act like our shit is better than the next man's, particularly when we're walking a slippery slope ourselves. That's my point. Each individual should examine his/her life & correct it, do all they can, sacrifice all they can THEN maybe they have the right to look at someone else & point fingers when it comes to these type issues.
>I'm not talking about people as much as I am >about attitude.

But people have the attitudes.>
>IMO, the main

>>- but be honest, are you doing all that you
>>possibly can? On the real, HELL YEAH!
> Every day, using every
>opportunity......

and you don't think there are other blacks who would beg to differ on your self assessment? Who gets to be judge & jury?

peace

  

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Too bad this wasn't posted here... [View all] , BooDaah, Tue Aug-01-00 06:03 AM
 
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I agree...
Aug 01st 2000
1
But don't get it twisted
Aug 01st 2000
3
      RE: But don't get it twisted
Aug 01st 2000
5
      Don't be talking bout my braids..
Aug 01st 2000
19
           actually
Aug 01st 2000
23
                what are we gonna do about it?
Aug 01st 2000
26
                     don't sell it short
Aug 01st 2000
27
regarding money fixation in hip hop
Aug 01st 2000
2
RE: regarding money fixation in hip hop
Aug 01st 2000
20
      RE: regarding money fixation in hip hop
Aug 10th 2000
65
Hip Hop has taken...
Shellypooh
Aug 01st 2000
4
What started this new trend anyway?
Aug 01st 2000
6
Selective memory
Aug 01st 2000
7
RE: Selective memory
Aug 01st 2000
9
Good point nay...
Aug 01st 2000
10
But today's ballers raise millions for HSBCs
Aug 01st 2000
15
      Also, I see a lot of "we made it"
Aug 01st 2000
16
      What's an HSBC?
Aug 01st 2000
17
      Historically Black Colleges
Aug 01st 2000
18
           My bad
Aug 01st 2000
25
                I just hate the continued focus on "certain things"
Aug 02nd 2000
28
                     RE: I just hate the continued focus on
Aug 04th 2000
49
                          How easy we lie to ourselves
Aug 04th 2000
56
      RE: But today's ballers raise millions for HSBCs
Aug 04th 2000
47
           RE: But today's ballers raise millions for HSBCs
Aug 04th 2000
55
Finally
Aug 01st 2000
22
King Tee's "Bass"
Aug 01st 2000
21
Hip Hop
Aug 01st 2000
8
The sad thing is...
Aug 01st 2000
11
      Here's that detachment
Aug 01st 2000
13
      but you know how folk are....
Aug 01st 2000
14
      what is THE 10 pt program?
Aug 01st 2000
24
      K, the children are WATCHING &
Aug 10th 2000
66
           So why are y'all just limiting it to rappers
Aug 02nd 2000
30
           Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes!
Aug 02nd 2000
33
               
                     To me it's not as much
Aug 03rd 2000
38
           The media are watching the children
Aug 02nd 2000
32
      I fear it too...
Aug 02nd 2000
34
RE: Too bad this wasn't posted here...
Quinn
Aug 01st 2000
12
*observing*
Wise_7
Aug 02nd 2000
29
      How many of us are starting programs?
Aug 02nd 2000
31
           Hip-hop
Aug 03rd 2000
36
                Hip Hop is not a gateway Drug
Aug 03rd 2000
37
How would yall feel.....
Aug 03rd 2000
39
RE: How would yall feel.....
Quinn
Aug 03rd 2000
40
      Please spare me the course
Aug 03rd 2000
41
           what is your real question?
Quinn
Aug 03rd 2000
42
                although i will admit
Quinn
Aug 03rd 2000
43
                Exactly
Aug 03rd 2000
44
                     Once again, nay
Aug 04th 2000
45
                          Maybe you think that calling black female addicts bitches
Aug 04th 2000
58
                          It should have read
Aug 04th 2000
60
                          It should have read
Aug 04th 2000
62
                               amen n/m
Quinn
Aug 04th 2000
63
                          RE: Once again, nay
Quinn
Aug 04th 2000
59
Do You People have
Aug 04th 2000
46
apparently not enough 4 u
Aug 04th 2000
48
Help!
Aug 04th 2000
50
let's see...
Aug 04th 2000
51
      Ah-ight.....
Aug 04th 2000
53
Ok I read it AGAIN
Aug 04th 2000
52
      well..
Aug 04th 2000
54
Did it ever occur to you
Aug 04th 2000
57
Oh what a Quiet World
Aug 04th 2000
61
RE: Oh what a Quiet World
Quinn
Aug 04th 2000
64

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