Actually, I see my son about every other day now. That is only cause her husband dumped her on the street with nothing. Now like I said I am her "best friend". When she moved I did report it, I made a mistake in saying that I did not. I did not say anything in court but went straight to domestic relations and told them. They said...and I quote "so what". I was with my son every day until he turned 3 and then she moved. She came back when he was 5 so I missed 2 years. Now I can see him again.

For all who asked I live in Maryland. From what I have seen on-line every state but MD has an equal rights for fathers type organization.

As far as my 1 dollar more per hour. This was not something I just told them they took my paystubs and could see plainly I now make 1 dollar more per hour.

It was suggested that I send the post to some lawyers, anyone got some links or specific lawyers in mind?

As far as me not saying to Jacob "I am your father" (darth vader memories) I did not and still do not know the full impact that this could have on Jacob, He never wants to leave when I am with him and that's cool!! But I don't know that telling him his mom lied to him is for me to do.......I could convince her to do so...or at least try first.

Backbone????? Well you just helped me find it........will get a lawyer tomorrow.

Will also come back ta fill y'all in....word?