and trust me, internally I feel exactly like you do.
It’s just work, chill out
Unfortunately some folks can’t turn that shit off. Then again, some folks have jobs where they have to take it home with them.
Some folks work is their life. It’s unhealthy as hell but when I talk to those people they tell me they wish they could turn it off but they can’t.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*