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>Do you feel like a kid in a candy store when it comes to your >dating options? > >I’ve always said that if I was a dude in NYC, ATL, D.C. etc. >I’d be overwhelmed by all the honey dips in these cities. >(Yes, I said honey dips in the year of our Lord 2018. Word to >Portrait and the Boogiemonsters). > >I’m particularly interested in responses from >hetero/cis-gendered Black men who only (or mostly) date >straight/cis Black women in cities where Black upward mobility >is more common. > >To me, to be an interesting, beautiful, educated, cultured, >funny and driven Black woman is to be average in these cities. > > >But! I know so many amazing (and attractive!) women who are >looking for partnership but they’re not finding it. I go on >social media and there’s a lot lamenting about dating >options. I never hear this from my male counterparts. I tend >to follow college-educated/creative/socially conscious dudes, >writers, DJs, etc. > >While I never bought into the notion there’s barely any good >single men out there, I feel like there aren’t as many of >them as us. Decent dudes seem to have it waaaay better than >Black women. Some blame it on incarceration rates among Black >men but I won’t go there... > >Disclaimer: >I am NOT speaking from my personal experience as I don’t >date. Never been in a real relationship. Had one >“situationship” from 2016-2017 and it was HORRIFYING. LOL. >But again, I haven’t had negative experiences looking for >romantic partners cuz I’ve never actively looked. I don’t >slide into DMs, I’m not on Tinder, etc.
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