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 A year is long enough |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 1
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| ive been the female in the situation. dont waste anymore time. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 2
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 Thank you |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 14
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| Man, she ain't feeling you no more |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 3
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| Yeah that's my feeling I'm leaning heavy red on this one |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 8
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| She wants you to say I LOVE YOU |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 4
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 She's ain't ready for that. Just what I said got her to say slow down |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 6
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 Then it's time to bounce |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 17
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| yeh number is out of the phone killed all emails |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 22
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| this ain't high school... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 7
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| Ever since she mentioned it I did an about face which has surprised her |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 13
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| I read the post again... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 18
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| Did u ask her what she meant specifically when she said "open up"? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 74
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| no I should have and you're right |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 77
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| To be specific Boogie it was like 90% or more sharing more abt me |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 79
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| Well then she needs to back up her words with some action |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 19
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| exactly, but here's the thing. Moms liked her |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 21
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| you know how many mothers I've met..lol |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 33
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| snowboarding, outdoors stuff, plays, cooking, reality tv |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 35
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| and y'all done those things? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 36
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| Snowboarding fell through |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 39
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| is she worth keeping? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 53
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| I wouldn't be making this post if I felt otherwise ;) |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 54
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| **blushes** |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 56
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| Y'all ain't ready... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 5
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| Somethings happening on her end. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 9
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| You feel me? I hate pretending!!! |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 12
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| I say give the beach trip a shot... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 10
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| red |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 11
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| A year is long enough |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 15
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| I disagree... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 24
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| ^^ I lean this way |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 26
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| Multiple red flags= RUN. Don't walk, don't pass go. RUN NOW |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 16
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| Right? So I'm not crazy? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 20
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| Sounds like she has more pressing matters to deal with |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 47
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| You bout to be single fam. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 23
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| it's cool I'm about to pre empt the whole shit anyway |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 25
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| Just ask her if it's a wrap. Honestly, that's the best outcome for |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 28
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| before the trip or after? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 30
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| I'm always down for a good trip. Travel is travel. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 38
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| Thanks fam, this is good advice regardless |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 44
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| Happy to contribute to the cause |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 48
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| Bad idea, man. Not saying all people would do this, but... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 31
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| true...it's a gamble. And taking into account her expressing displeasure... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 40
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| Did she ever open up about what she was smoking? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 27
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| haha yes I did ask about that. She said it was normal shit |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 32
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| My advice: Walk away form this jawn, bruh |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 29
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| yeah, damn I was liking this one |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 34
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| And cancel that beach trip, family. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 37
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| She's paying, but food and drinks are on me or us |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 41
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| Wrong spot |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 42
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| this is about that time of month - don't mean there aren't other reason... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 43
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| Be Out. Some decisions you can't make with your heart. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 45
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| i would go on the trip and use that as a barometer |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 46
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| Yeah, I'm gonna rent a jetski(s) always wanted to do that |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 50
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| "She says just kidding!!? Have fun." <- uh is she a child? cut her off. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 49
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| Yeah I wasn't feeling it, but people can be awkward I can forgive that |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 51
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| RE the awkwardness, i refer to post 29. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 55
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| never met a woman where we would BOTH walk through fire lol |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 59
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| This part ":( no one wants to hang out with me" b/w "just kidding..." |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 66
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| She really hasn't given me much reason to suspect that |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 68
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| Have you ever seen her cry or get really emotional? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 70
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| during our big talk her body language was telling |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 71
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| it's not "awkward" |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 87
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| Trust me I'm going to address it, just not sure when. Before or after |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 97
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| yeah that type of shit is instant dismissal. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 86
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| how much of this have you two discussed? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 52
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| We just had a big discussion prior to the 1 year mark |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 58
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| bail. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 57
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| You black? She black? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 60
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| black and brown. She grew up in SC might be a blacker exp lol |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 62
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| Brown? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 64
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| Dad is a Kiwi/New Zealander mom is Jewish turned christian |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 65
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| so she white? lol |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 85
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| http://footage.framepool.com/shotimg/qf/116575880-haka-maori-polynesian-... |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 96
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| so she's 12? |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 110
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| lol that's her complexion slash facial physiognomy |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 114
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| because we family... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 61
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| wow thanks for sharing that. Why would a woman back off |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 63
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| A dog that's been trained into submission or one that's been at |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 67
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| and they say I'm cryptic |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 69
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| I need time to formulate my thoughts... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 78
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| she grows tired of waiting.... |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 82
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| What are your expectations? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 72
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| I just want to feel appreciated in whatever way she shows it |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 73
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| Two negatives don't equal positive |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 75
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| everyone comes in with negatives |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 76
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| RE: In my experience with long term relationships. . . |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 80
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| you might be in over your head |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 81
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| Why is it so bad to just say everything? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 83
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| Beats me, I guess it's just the way of things |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 84
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| not wanting to appear vulnerable. |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 101
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| 'I love so and so because they are so vulnerable' -- said nobody |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 103
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| it's why you love them nm |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 104
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| This is what I've been saying the whole post: |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 106
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| even if you loved her? |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 108
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| Yes. I'd rather be single and alone than deal with unrequited love |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 111
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| damn Flip.. |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 120
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| Yep. |
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Jul 18th 2017 |
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| Yep. |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 140
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| it's a wrap my nigga. the pizza cold and she don't wanna eat it |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 88
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| snap out of it, man. leave. |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 89
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| she's checked out already |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 90
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| something is going on, but not sure what |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 91
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| was he boring? |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 92
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| he wanted to be apart of the in crowd |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 93
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| yeah, I think it may just be 'conflicting emotions' uncertainty etc |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 95
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| Red, let it go. Know your worth |
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Jul 11th 2017 | 94
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| you had a great 40+ weeks and a couple rough ones. dont let these |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 98
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| from my perspective it's been way more good than bad |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 100
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| for ME this is all i would need to see>> I need her to show more |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 99
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| I've come to believe the source of all relationship problems are... |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 102
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| say that differently..Buddy |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 105
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| Why we got to fight though? |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 109
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| yeah. nobody wins when the family feuds... |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 118
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| haha, you're out of control. |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 119
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| lol. totally |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 122
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| nm |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 107
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| what beach yall goin' to? |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 112
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| Ocean City |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 113
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| word |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 116
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| ^^^ Gonna go by the beach, find her and ask "Are you happy?" |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 115
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| haha |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 117
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| I'm getting 500 Days of Summer vibes |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 121
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| Thanks! I'm doing this foolishness, we can all have a good laugh later |
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Jul 12th 2017 | 123
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| Yeah, definitely go on the trip |
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Jul 15th 2017 | 124
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| Man, you know that if you're SO ain't call you from Thurs-Tues... |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 129
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| If you got that feeling in your stomach you about to get kicked in the n... |
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Jul 15th 2017 | 125
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| Update - Trip was a lot of fun, rented that Jet Ski, watched GOT |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 126
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| nice |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 127
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| Washed all the dishes? |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 128
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| When I find another black woman I can relate to I'll do it |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 130
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| Was she funky on the trip? |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 131
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| Nope not at all |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 133
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| Hmm... ok |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 134
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| thank goodness |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 132
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| lol, likewise |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 136
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| nah we need more details than that quit playing. |
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Jul 17th 2017 | 135
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| lol like what? |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 142
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| fuck the bullshit what was the sex game like? that tells the tale lol |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 137
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| lmao, this could be the real reason |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 138
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| if a female take 2 days to text back you ain't hitting the draws right..... |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 139
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| I want to disagree but I can't |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 144
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| I tend to think that's the only thing she likes about me at times lol |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 141
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| didn't she pay for that trip? You better give up them draws |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 143
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| lol at any rate there weren't any complaints |
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Jul 18th 2017 | 145
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