63. "We've lived together for 6 months." In response to In response to 49 Fri Aug-21-15 12:11 PM by denny
So there's that. And fpr the billionth time.....IT WAS THE CHILD'S INITIATIVE. WE CAN'T CONTROL THE CHILD'S THOUGHTS! Do you have to be a parent to understand this or something?
I'm not sure how useful this is turning out to be. lol. I suppose people are suggesting the child is wrong for bringing it up? Thats not useful.
So.....
Any comments like 'At least wait til you're married' or 'wait for 5 years'......these are presuming that I'm asking for when we should tell the kid to call me dad. It's NEVER okay to tell the kid to call me dad. And I don't particularly WANT the kid to call me dad. The kid is ASKING to call me dad. So it's not up to me 'to wait until marraige'. lol.
I'm trying to figure out if I should LET the kid call me dad. And if not....how to tell him he can't without crushing his feelings. This may be a more difficult question to answer and may be harder for y'all to moralize and grandstand about. Sorry about that.