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57. "maybe he hears the mom call you "DADDY""
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Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad. [View all] , denny, Thu Aug-20-15 10:24 PM
 
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Yes, pleeasseee go ask the father if his son can call u dad
Aug 20th 2015
1
lol
Aug 20th 2015
3
      Yea good luck
Aug 20th 2015
5
           Same with me with my bio daughter,.
Aug 20th 2015
7
good post. let the boy call you dad.
Aug 20th 2015
2
the children are black and ur white right?
Aug 20th 2015
4
Yep.
Aug 20th 2015
6
      You dont reside in the United States correct
Aug 21st 2015
27
           This is just as odd imo:
Aug 21st 2015
30
           yes that was a very naive statement
Aug 21st 2015
46
           The bio dad is black.
Aug 21st 2015
55
                oh I c, thanks. well it's on his bio parents to be first people of conta...
Aug 21st 2015
74
           real odd.
Aug 21st 2015
54
If their bio-dad wasn't in their lives, it'd be cool....
Aug 20th 2015
8
I agree.
Aug 20th 2015
9
no
Aug 21st 2015
80
agreed
Aug 21st 2015
31
You can't talk to him and
Aug 20th 2015
10
It's the other way around though....
Aug 20th 2015
11
      Not to sound too terse or harsh but...
Aug 21st 2015
21
           Not harsh at all.
Aug 21st 2015
34
Get bio dad involved and the both of you present a united front
Aug 20th 2015
12
What if he says 'no'?
Aug 20th 2015
13
      If he's a loving dad as you say....i say involve him in it...
Aug 21st 2015
15
           If Dad says 'no' the two of you explaining why the answer is such
Aug 21st 2015
18
                step dad told the kids to call his new wife Mom
Aug 21st 2015
22
                     Yeah I got that, but folks can be complex/hypocritical
Aug 21st 2015
29
                     It's also kinda passing the buck.
Aug 21st 2015
36
                          That's why it's important that you talk to the son together
Aug 21st 2015
62
                               Good point.
Aug 21st 2015
64
                     Again.
Aug 21st 2015
33
RE: Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad.
Aug 21st 2015
14
are u and their mom married? U only been in there life for a year...
Aug 21st 2015
16
*stands in this queue*
Aug 21st 2015
32
curious: is their bio dad black then?
Aug 21st 2015
17
I called my stepdad Pop
Aug 21st 2015
19
Let him call you Diddy? &then tell his real dad to 'take that, take that...
Aug 21st 2015
20
My son asked to call me if it was ok to call me "Dad"...
Aug 21st 2015
23
it should be coming from the child not from the parents
Aug 21st 2015
24
Pulls hair out.....
Aug 21st 2015
37
It's good that you don't wanna force or even ask them to call you Dad
Aug 21st 2015
25
even bio parents have to earn it.
Aug 21st 2015
26
      do you ever not lawyer? lol
Aug 21st 2015
35
           sorry my experience is not common, bro.
Aug 21st 2015
41
           IKR... I knew he was special but damn...
Aug 21st 2015
45
                and you wonder why i despise you.
Aug 21st 2015
61
Lots of good advice in here. I vote for an alternative to "dad"
Aug 21st 2015
28
Already talked to my bio-daughter.
Aug 21st 2015
39
tell him to call you 'Pops'
Aug 21st 2015
38
i still would'nt be cool wit that if i was bio-dad
Aug 21st 2015
81
no, becasue you have a new relationship damn near every yr
Aug 21st 2015
40
no, wait until they're married.
Aug 21st 2015
42
Denny aint getting married..he's a serial dater who craves parental atte...
Aug 21st 2015
44
      damn
Aug 21st 2015
47
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Aug 21st 2015
43
kind of weird imo for parents to allow the mom/dad titles
Aug 21st 2015
49
      right that's just ridiculous, especially only after a year
Aug 21st 2015
50
      RE: right that's just ridiculous, especially only after a year
Aug 21st 2015
56
      this all day.
Aug 21st 2015
51
      they do shit different in the North
Aug 21st 2015
52
      yeah i didn't even consider they weren't married at first
Aug 21st 2015
60
      We've lived together for 6 months.
Aug 21st 2015
63
           you cant tell the child that it would be inappropriate? just because it
Aug 21st 2015
66
                I can.
Aug 21st 2015
67
                     are u serious?
Aug 21st 2015
71
                     What poem is that from?
Aug 21st 2015
78
                          flattery will get you nowhere
Aug 21st 2015
92
                     He'll get over his feelings. They're more resilient than you believe.
Aug 21st 2015
73
                          Yah...
Aug 21st 2015
79
I feel like this is one of those posts that is looking for confirmation
Aug 21st 2015
48
I'm probably defensive because more than half of the responses are about...
Aug 21st 2015
58
      your SO and her kids father sound perferct for each other
Aug 21st 2015
65
           My SO didn't do that.
Aug 21st 2015
69
                u said ur SO wanted to allow the child to call u daddy
Aug 21st 2015
72
                     theyre all idiots..those poor kids
Aug 21st 2015
                     There's a big difference between
Aug 21st 2015
76
                          Read what I wrote. I said allow. Not tell. And allowing is reckless as
Aug 21st 2015
83
                               Yah but I was responding to someone else to which you responded.
Aug 21st 2015
84
                                    Good luck, will be looking forward to the write up of the new black chi...
Aug 21st 2015
86
                                         I've had two girlfriends in the 6 to 7 years I've posted here.
Aug 21st 2015
87
                                              I think people count your old roommate a relationship too
Aug 21st 2015
89
                                              you are being very defensive and why...
Aug 21st 2015
90
                                              okp gonna okp bruh
Aug 21st 2015
93
                                                   RE: okp gonna okp bruh
Aug 21st 2015
94
                                                        oh yah....
Aug 21st 2015
95
                                                        RE: oh yah....
Aug 21st 2015
97
                                                             From "SmartStepfamilies":
Aug 21st 2015
98
                                                                  RE: From "SmartStepfamilies":
Aug 21st 2015
                                                                  RE: From "SmartStepfamilies":
Aug 21st 2015
100
                                                                       You said it's a simple solution.
Aug 21st 2015
101
                                                        From 'smartstepfamilies":
Aug 21st 2015
96
                                                             defense..deFENSE....DEFENSE clap/cheer
Aug 21st 2015
99
                                                                  I'm actually defending the legitimacy of the problem.
Aug 21st 2015
102
If the father is involved they should never call you dad
Aug 21st 2015
53
If that's our decision.....
Aug 21st 2015
59
sometimes i call my stepmom "mom"
Aug 21st 2015
68
Yah.
Aug 21st 2015
75
i know who i DON'T fuck with on here.
Aug 21st 2015
70
Damn bruh, you lost?
Aug 21st 2015
77
Him calling you dad after 6 months is way inappropriate
Aug 21st 2015
82
I have never left a kid's life.
Aug 21st 2015
85
      You seem like you really love kids in general
Aug 21st 2015
88
           To get back on topic....
Aug 21st 2015
91
the kids aren't your stepchildren, right?
Aug 21st 2015
103
I've known them for a year.
Aug 21st 2015
104
RE: Stepchildren calling their stepparents mom/dad.
Aug 21st 2015
105
It would be easier if you were married to your S.O.
Aug 21st 2015
106

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