77. "That "don't go to sleep mad" rule is stupid" In response to In response to 0
it's more of a bandaid than actually dealing with whatever the issue is. If you're hot at me, and you could say some shit you might not mean if we press the issue, maybe it's best to just chill until we're ready to have a conversation. If we can talk about it in an hour, cool. But if you gotta sleep on it & talk about it in the morning, that's cool too. I'm all about resolving issues as quickly as possible, but don't just say we fixed it just to say I love you & go to sleep but have the same issue again tomorrow. I think that's one of the biggest reasons why my longest relationship ended. We (I) HAD to say I love you & be happy before we went to sleep.