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"Marriage is for educated, middle class people (NYTimes)"
Tue Oct-03-17 10:08 AM by Triptych

          

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upshot/how-did-marriage-become-a-mark-of-privilege.html?smid=tw-share

Women, meanwhile, have learned from watching a generation of divorce that they need to be able to support themselves. And many working-class women aren’t interested in taking responsibility for a man without a job.

“They say, ‘If he’s not offering money or assets, why make it legal?’ ” said June Carbone, a law professor at the University of Minnesota and the author with Naomi Cahn of “Marriage Markets: How Inequality Is Remaking the American Family.”


Marriage is a dying institution unless two people really really want that legal binding agreement.


Rise & Shine
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Marriage is for educated, middle class people (NYTimes) [View all] , Mori, Mon Oct-02-17 02:19 PM
 
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and having children is for????
Oct 02nd 2017
1
Single Women? Gay couples? People who want them
Oct 02nd 2017
6
thank you :-)
Oct 02nd 2017
2
I don't buy the researcher's predictions or stas
Oct 02nd 2017
7
      this it right here...
Oct 02nd 2017
34
           I don't think folks generally approach
Oct 03rd 2017
45
                if God is not the foundation it will be viewed as a business n/m
Oct 03rd 2017
51
                     what does god have to do
Oct 03rd 2017
52
                          He defines what it means to love your spouse...
Oct 03rd 2017
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                               nah, the people do that.
Oct 03rd 2017
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                                    I totally get what you're saying...
Oct 03rd 2017
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                                         right on.
Oct 03rd 2017
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Definitely seen this coming....it's gonna ramp up even more very very
Oct 02nd 2017
3
Marriage is for women. I see very few benefits for myself.
Oct 02nd 2017
4
especially when it's framed like the article
Oct 02nd 2017
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Marriage the union is dope. Marriage the laws are wack
Oct 02nd 2017
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      What's the common law status in America?
Oct 06th 2017
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^^^^
Oct 02nd 2017
8
Sounds like you might be fucking with the wrong women.
Oct 02nd 2017
10
Could you two have built that without marriage?
Oct 02nd 2017
11
The legal document makes it harder to leave... lol
Oct 02nd 2017
14
I don't remember any legal documents to be honest.
Oct 02nd 2017
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come through Buddy...
Oct 02nd 2017
33
Depends on the relationship.
Oct 02nd 2017
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#9
Oct 02nd 2017
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The formality is to say, "no matter what, I got you boo".
Oct 02nd 2017
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      My homey told me this EXACT thing 20 years ago:
Oct 02nd 2017
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^^^ What he said
Oct 06th 2017
68
and that ain't even worth it as long as you can claim a dependent lol
Oct 02nd 2017
12
Marriage is supposed to extend men's lives. I know I've read the
Oct 02nd 2017
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This is true. I read the same thing. We get a few extra years
Oct 02nd 2017
19
I could see married men having more consistent health & hygiene standard...
Oct 03rd 2017
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Tax break, lol
Oct 02nd 2017
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Marriage could also be a means for poorer people to raise educated
Oct 02nd 2017
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i'm cool with this
Oct 02nd 2017
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marriage is for ppl who want to live on a pedastal.
Oct 02nd 2017
21
this put a smile on my face...thank you
Oct 02nd 2017
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i was watching some documentary on OWN
Oct 02nd 2017
27
Which reminds me, I'm gonna need your adulation token for the week
Oct 02nd 2017
26
i just skipped my aunt and uncles 50th anniversary shindig.
Oct 02nd 2017
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Cause non-married people don't like to feel special.
Oct 02nd 2017
29
good for you and y'all.
Oct 02nd 2017
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nah, we just like rings and shit. sue us.
Oct 02nd 2017
31
or...it's for people with healthy (or traditional) ideas about love?
Oct 02nd 2017
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You're always on some extra weird woe-is-me type shit
Oct 02nd 2017
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lol
Oct 03rd 2017
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naw I just despise you ppl.
Oct 03rd 2017
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      but since you can't burn it all down..
Oct 03rd 2017
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      ...
Oct 03rd 2017
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      so YOU despise people and their way of life...
Oct 03rd 2017
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      naw, i don't really care that much.
Oct 03rd 2017
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           Sure you don’t...
Oct 03rd 2017
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      I Googled and heterophobia is a thing I guess. so is trolling though
Oct 03rd 2017
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           whichever one allows you to clutch the pearls with less intensity.
Oct 03rd 2017
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                Bwahaha
Oct 04th 2017
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Everybody wants to feel special
Oct 03rd 2017
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Definitely.
Oct 03rd 2017
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this is the kind of mad making I aspire to
Oct 03rd 2017
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The secret is to not believe any of it.
Oct 03rd 2017
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most people i know that got married just did it cause you're "supposed t...
Oct 03rd 2017
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      solid
Oct 03rd 2017
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RE: Marriage is for educated, middle class people
Oct 03rd 2017
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RE: Marriage is for educated, middle class people
Oct 03rd 2017
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RE: Marriage is for educated, middle class people
Oct 03rd 2017
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Wow. Like, where I grew up in Gardena....only 2-3 of the dads on the
Oct 03rd 2017
60
      a house for 150K in the 1980's sounds high as fuck b
Oct 03rd 2017
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      L.A. is different. As they say, "six miles from the ocean"
Oct 04th 2017
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      RE: Wow. Like, where I grew up in Gardena....only 2-3 of the dads on the
Oct 03rd 2017
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           Same with San Pedro
Oct 04th 2017
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