I had no desire to smash myself...

I actually went to his house after dinner to look at a TV he mentioned he wanted to get rid of (I had said toward the end of dinner I wanted to buy a tv (as in from a store) one day in the future and he mentioned his TV) and even then nothing happened between us.

I copped the TV he drove me home and helped me bring it into my home.

Still no flirting or anything.

Anyway you might be right about him testing himself.

They only been together since December but I could see him trying to test himself early just to see if later on down the line it would be a problem.