Subject |
Author |
Message Date |
ID |
def agree. saw it in my okcupid days. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 1
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) I like it when white guys put in their profiles |
|
May 05th 2015 | 9
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) what bugged me was readin a page and thinkin "how cool... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 13
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I avoid the controversy of this topic altogether by |
|
May 06th 2015 | 163
|
I'll bee dat. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 2
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) *daps* |
|
May 05th 2015 | 14
|
Wanting to date within your race isn't racist. All other racial dating |
|
May 05th 2015 | 3
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) It's as racist as wanting to live & work around ppl the same race as you |
|
May 05th 2015 | 4
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) No, it's not. Edit; hang on. Reword. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 6
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Black and Latina women come with |
|
May 05th 2015 | 8
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Yes, correct. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 11
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Middle Eastern, Asian, and North African as well. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 25
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) I find it the same thing |
|
May 05th 2015 | 12
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I don't understand how people don't see this. It's the same thing |
|
May 05th 2015 | 30
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) hell no, it isn't the same AT ALL |
|
May 05th 2015 | 46
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Race-based prejudice. Exercise of power based on race. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 15
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Do you agree that most men would be able to 'order' hair colour? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 34
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) yeah. it's called 'colorism' too. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 36
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Where is the Race-based prejudice? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 45
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Prejudging ppl based on their race. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 50
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) you assume shared experiences just like ppl do when hiring... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 58
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I am not assuming anything. I've dated all types of women. Over time |
|
May 05th 2015 | 69
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I give them props for trying.... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 80
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) you are assuming they have the same experience as you |
|
May 05th 2015 | 55
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) You're 'assuming' a LOT. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 71
|
no it's not. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 5
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Right. And what's the "ism" for my preference for... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 10
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) the things you mentioned are variables available to all races |
|
May 05th 2015 | 16
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) There's a difference between |
|
May 05th 2015 | 19
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) because not even skin tone is exclusive to one race. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 26
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) This is an extreme though. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 29
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I honestly hit dogged about this, strictly from the race exclusion stand... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 63
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Word. We're on the same page. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 75
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Exactly |
|
May 05th 2015 | 78
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) It's not about "looking out" for anything |
|
May 05th 2015 | 31
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Exactly. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 27
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I'm pretty sure my Johnson is not racist....it just likes what it likes.... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 24
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) colorism. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 35
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Well, this seems to be getting silly. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 72
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) colorism != racism. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 84
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Glad someone asked... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 17
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) i agree that ppl shouldn't necessarily feel shame for the prejudice. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 42
|
I'd rather know if a guy who's dating me considers me an inferior |
|
May 05th 2015 | 7
|
I've never been in a situation where I had to tell somebody they were |
|
May 05th 2015 | 18
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) exactly. and why sound bigoted when you can just pass on an individual?... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 22
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) i thought that was his point |
|
May 05th 2015 | 70
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I think we're all in agreement |
|
May 05th 2015 | 82
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) we are |
|
May 05th 2015 | 92
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I disagree. I think people should make their preferences known. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 105
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) i'll dither |
|
May 05th 2015 | 109
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) uh, yeah in a situation where you get that deep with somebody |
|
May 05th 2015 | 114
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) that's how i see it. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 115
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) or they are just being honest when pressed for a why |
|
May 06th 2015 | 152
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) why? I think that is one of the chances you take when you pursue |
|
May 06th 2015 | 151
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) it's a chance when you pursue someone in your race. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 158
|
I can't believe we really have to argue this point |
|
May 05th 2015 | 20
|
What have you people done with "Racist/Racism"?? Return it immediately! |
|
May 05th 2015 | 21
|
this is an area where 'race' being a made up construct becomes fragile |
|
May 05th 2015 | 23
|
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) ndibs nails it in #4. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 33
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) nah |
|
May 05th 2015 | 41
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) yes people prefer to live around people "like" them |
|
May 05th 2015 | 62
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) it isn't racist until you don't want OTHER people to date outside |
|
May 05th 2015 | 73
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) plenty ppl who hold race-based prejudices |
|
May 05th 2015 | 37
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) ok |
|
May 05th 2015 | 40
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) not when you say it from that perspective. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 51
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) nah, if I didn't want OTHER people to date outside their race... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 74
|
Arguing Semantics before my morning coffee?? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 32
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) great. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 38
|
nope...fluidj pretty much nailed it |
|
May 05th 2015 | 39
|
some good discussion here... good post. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 43
|
lol...nah |
|
May 05th 2015 | 44
|
...what if I just dig fat chicks. Is that a thing? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 47
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Thinism. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 48
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) WHY CAN'T YOU JUST STOP OPPRESSING ME WITH YOUR PARTNER-SHAMING |
|
May 05th 2015 | 53
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) RE: WHY CAN'T YOU JUST STOP OPPRESSING ME WITH YOUR PARTNER-SHAMING |
|
May 05th 2015 | 54
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) You thinist piece of shit! |
|
May 05th 2015 | 57
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) LOL @ all 3 above responses. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 67
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Fetishizing obesity. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 52
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) ...but some of my best friends are fatties. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 60
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) they shall overcome someday. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 64
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) RE: they shall overcome someday. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 68
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) ding |
|
May 05th 2015 | 94
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) yes |
|
May 05th 2015 | 93
|
OKP tries so hard to be anti and pro that it's actually schizophrenic |
|
May 05th 2015 | 49
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) indeed |
|
May 05th 2015 | 79
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) It makes no sense. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 167
|
So? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 56
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Agreed. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 59
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) yep. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 61
|
how is my preference a mark on deciding which race is superior? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 65
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) superior in terms of your preference. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 66
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) gotcha. im not really sure how anyone can front on that |
|
May 05th 2015 |
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) gotcha. im not really sure how anyone can front on that |
|
May 05th 2015 | 77
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) No that doesn't work. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 101
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) you have decided that short women are superior |
|
May 05th 2015 | 103
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) superior? lol... |
|
May 05th 2015 | 106
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) "compatible" is superior to "superior" |
|
May 05th 2015 | 107
|
Yall need Jesus |
|
May 05th 2015 | 76
|
not if you don't have any power (i.e. Match.Com dating profile) |
|
May 05th 2015 | 81
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol |
|
May 05th 2015 | 85
|
my dating history is largely based on shared understanding |
|
May 05th 2015 | 83
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) right on. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 86
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) i really dont judge people on anything other than their character |
|
May 05th 2015 | 95
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) you probably judge them on more than that. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 96
|
given the dynamics of race in many societies |
|
May 05th 2015 | 87
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) agreed - benign racism. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 89
|
quite a logical leap |
|
May 05th 2015 | 88
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) <--- track star. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 91
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) benign racism is an oxymoron |
|
May 05th 2015 | 102
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) so is 'jumbo shrimp'. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 104
|
true |
|
May 05th 2015 | 90
|
So What? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 97
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) see #56 & 59 |
|
May 05th 2015 | 99
|
this is the most honest explanation of it ive ever heard. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 98
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) well I put them in the same group-- |
|
May 05th 2015 | 100
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) sometimes it is though |
|
May 05th 2015 | 110
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) either way, people should just be honest with themselves |
|
May 05th 2015 | 123
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) agreed |
|
May 06th 2015 | 149
|
new movement: de-pejorativization of term 'racist' |
|
May 05th 2015 | 108
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol it will be fascinating... but doesn't ''racial'' kinda cover that? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 119
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) wtf is 'racial'? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 121
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) racial = having to do with race. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 129
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) oh okay. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 137
|
it's a mistake continuously conflating bigotry and prejudice with racism |
|
May 05th 2015 | 111
|
I think if you only find beauty /attraction in one race you are racist |
|
May 05th 2015 | 112
|
tehcnically, yeah. but i'm all for people being honest. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 113
|
hmmm ... what about sexism? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 116
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) it's the sexiest of the 'isms'. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 118
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol true.... and then there's the "Hedon" |
|
May 05th 2015 | 122
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) christians go for the "altru..." |
|
May 05th 2015 | 124
|
is stating sex-based preferences sexist? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 117
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) stating right-handedness is dominism. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 120
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol what if you state you're right-handed and very short? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 125
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) *finger guns* |
|
May 05th 2015 | 126
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol |
|
May 05th 2015 | 128
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Im straight but I wont date a woman that wouldnt date a bisexual man (c) |
|
May 05th 2015 | 127
|
Is racist and helpful. No more hurtful that hearing someone prefers |
|
May 05th 2015 | 130
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) of course YOU don't. |
|
May 05th 2015 | 131
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) If someone tells me they're racist why would I feel bad about it? |
|
May 05th 2015 | 132
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) that's great, player. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 135
|
Slightly related: Are Chicken Fries a metaphor for interracial love? |
|
May 06th 2015 | 133
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) it's there. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 136
|
Classic SoWhat trolling. Yall fell for it. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 134
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) i don't think so. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 138
|
It's only racist if you preference is "White" |
|
May 06th 2015 | 139
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) Oh that's right. Only white ppl can be racist. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 140
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I didn't say that. I said anyone who states their preference is "White" |
|
May 06th 2015 | 142
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) you're right. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 143
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) If a black man prefers not to date black women that's not racist |
|
May 06th 2015 | 154
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Agreed. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 173
|
Nah. Preference is fine. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 141
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) it sure is. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 144
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) I was with you up to this. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 145
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) you can bring your dog to work? |
|
May 06th 2015 | 147
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) lmao |
|
May 06th 2015 | 148
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/mesg_level.gif) lol! |
|
May 06th 2015 | 150
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) RE: you can bring your dog to work? |
|
May 06th 2015 | 156
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Familiarity. Racism and prejudice aren't the same. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 168
|
I haven't held race against anyone, but I've only dated sistas |
|
May 06th 2015 | 146
|
What if I don't date within my race by preference? |
|
May 06th 2015 | 153
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) yup. that's right. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 155
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) Some people would label you a self hating coon |
|
May 06th 2015 | 157
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) likes them white and weak |
|
May 06th 2015 | 169
|
okay okay but what if |
|
May 06th 2015 | 159
|
![](./images/mesg_level.gif) i just heard something similar this week. |
|
May 06th 2015 | 161
|
![](./images/middle_mesg_level.gif) ![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) The best I've been able to do is show him the stats on white women |
|
May 06th 2015 | 162
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) She probably would have... |
|
May 06th 2015 | 164
|
oh , this is about the action of explicitly "STATING" it |
|
May 06th 2015 | 160
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) . |
|
May 06th 2015 | 170
|
My okc setup searches for asians and latinas only |
|
May 06th 2015 | 165
|
I wonder if white folks would date albino Indians, or Pakistanis? |
|
May 06th 2015 | 166
|
"NO BLACK MEN" isn't the same as "Prefer Black Men" |
|
May 06th 2015 | 171
|
![](./images/last_mesg_level.gif) lol |
|
May 06th 2015 | 172
|