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atruhead
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"Men, would you make your woman's plate for Thanksgiving?"


  

          

if yes, explain why

if no, explain why

  

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You aint got no job Tommy
Nov 24th 2021
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sure, if she asks.
Nov 24th 2021
2
I meant would you gladly volunteer
Nov 24th 2021
3
      I've done it before without prompt.
Nov 24th 2021
4
Not if she doesn’t ask
Nov 24th 2021
5
depends on the circumstance...i wouldn't have a problem with it though
Nov 24th 2021
6
Nobody should be making anyone's Thanksgiving plate
Nov 24th 2021
7
I look at is as an act of love
Nov 24th 2021
8
..... not if you know your spouse.
Nov 24th 2021
9
Even I don't know what I want on my plate until I get up there
Nov 24th 2021
10
      Shrug. I do, and so does my wife.
Nov 24th 2021
13
^^ stands in this line
Nov 24th 2021
15
you married or dating?
Nov 25th 2021
20
I joke with my wife that I'm a male chauvinist at Thanksgiving lol
Nov 24th 2021
11
is she a paraplegic?
Nov 24th 2021
12
RE: Men, would you make your woman's plate for Thanksgiving?
Nov 24th 2021
14
not at all one of those conversations
Nov 24th 2021
17
it’d depend on the house were eating at lol
Nov 24th 2021
16
this is another rabbit hole for sure
Nov 24th 2021
18
of course.. because she would do the same for me
Nov 25th 2021
19
^^^^^^^
Nov 25th 2021
21
pretty much
Nov 29th 2021
27
No issues at all with it
Nov 25th 2021
22
Yes
Nov 25th 2021
23
Probably not
Nov 25th 2021
24
Absolutely.
Nov 28th 2021
25
I do most of the cooking in my house.. lol
Nov 28th 2021
26
I wouldn't volunteer but would if she had asked
Nov 29th 2021
28

MEAT
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1. "You aint got no job Tommy"
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tariqhu
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2. "sure, if she asks."
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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atruhead
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3. "I meant would you gladly volunteer"
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I cant imagine any man who cared about his relationship is putting up a fight if she asks

  

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tariqhu
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4. "I've done it before without prompt."
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it's not the most common action as we both tend to make our on plates.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Ryan M
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5. "Not if she doesn’t ask"
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Or is in need of it in some way.

Thanksgiving plates are all about personal ratios. I like a lot of stuffing, for example. And while I know the foods my wife prefers - there’s no way I’d get it exactly right (nor would she for me) so unless she NEEDS me to, no - im not gonna volunteer that.

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Cenario
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6. "depends on the circumstance...i wouldn't have a problem with it though"
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but yeah, what ryan said...if its a meal with multiple options, people wanna make their own plate.

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PimpTrickGangstaClik
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7. "Nobody should be making anyone's Thanksgiving plate"
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Unless that person is under the age of 10.

Nobody knows how much cranberry sauce they want on that day. How much sweet potatoes. How many rolls.

Don't even get me started on plate layout.

Thanksgiving plates are a build your own type deal.

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atruhead
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8. "I look at is as an act of love"
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as for how much food, I would ask what she wanted and take instructions on amounts

  

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Cold Truth
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9. "..... not if you know your spouse. "
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>Nobody knows how much cranberry sauce they want on that day.
>How much sweet potatoes. How many rolls.
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>Don't even get me started on plate layout.
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>Thanksgiving plates are a build your own type deal.

If you and yours are complete strangers, I suppose.

We both know exactly what to put and what not to put on that plate.

  

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10. "Even I don't know what I want on my plate until I get up there"
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Cold Truth
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13. "Shrug. I do, and so does my wife. "
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15. "^^ stands in this line"
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legsdiamond
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20. "you married or dating? "
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auragin_boi
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11. "I joke with my wife that I'm a male chauvinist at Thanksgiving lol"
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I refuse to cook. lol Which I don't think they want me cooking anyway. hahaha

But I'll gladly do clean up (before and after if we're hosting), store runs if needed, handle kids, entertain guest, etc. But I'm only in the kitchen when it's time for food.

She likes to make my plate (so I oblige lol) but there's been occasions where she was handling a few other things and I just made her a plate. And I ask what she wants (depending on venue and who cooked what food...those choices change).

But most of the time, she's ok with the division of duties.

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ThaTruth
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12. "is she a paraplegic? "
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jimaveli
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14. "RE: Men, would you make your woman's plate for Thanksgiving?"
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>if yes, explain why
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>if no, explain why

I would. No problems on looking out for Mrs. Jimmy. This isn't one of those 'woman proposing to the man' type gender roles convos, is it?

In general, my wife will try to make my plate for me and I'll be on some old 'let me do it cuz I need to see what I'm gonna want, how much, and all of that'. For her, its kinda the same deal. She might not know what she wants for sure until she's making the plate, putting it together, and seeing how it all looks.

  

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17. "not at all one of those conversations"
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Wed Nov-24-21 04:40 PM by atruhead

  

          

>I would. No problems on looking out for Mrs. Jimmy. This isn't
>one of those 'woman proposing to the man' type gender roles
>convos, is it?

Im against chauvinism if that's the root of anyone's "no", especially if it comes with the expectation that the woman is supposed to fix the man's plate

  

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16. "it’d depend on the house were eating at lol"
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Wed Nov-24-21 04:30 PM by BrooklynWHAT

  

          

if it’s my family definitely not. I’d never hear the end of it from the women or the men. We still do gender roles in our family for the most part

Her family, depends on the temperature of her family

We’re hosting? I mean she’s probably eating last anyway just based on how it typically goes for the woman of the house whenever hosting is involved.

Doing a Friendsgiving kind of thing? Yeah I don’t mind making her a plate.

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18. "this is another rabbit hole for sure"
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>if it’s my family definitely not. I’d never hear the end
>of it from the women or the men. We still do gender roles in
>our family for the most part

I have baggage behind families telling other grown adults how their lives should run. one of the only non-negotiables in a relationship should be mutual respect

  

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19. "of course.. because she would do the same for me"
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if I asked or was busy.

never understood why this is a big deal for some people.

why wouldn’t someone do something nice for their SO?

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21. "^^^^^^^"
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27. "pretty much"
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22. "No issues at all with it "
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I don’t mind doing for those who do for me

  

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23. "Yes"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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24. "Probably not"
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I'm Vegan. Sometimes she doesn't eat that way. Especially when folks are offering rare delicacies. Though, I do have her second guessing everyone's ability to prepare meats lol.

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25. "Absolutely."
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I fix her plate when it's NOT Thanksgiving.

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26. "I do most of the cooking in my house.. lol"
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and I’m a waiter and chef and dishwasher for 2 girls under 6.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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28. "I wouldn't volunteer but would if she had asked"
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