legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79594 posts
Thu Jun-03-21 02:49 PM
"When the wrong people volunteer to be in charge"
why does it always seem like the worst people always step up to be in charge of some shit?
but at the same time, EYE know I don’t want to do it but damn, why is it always people who will get it all wrong who end up just running with it?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
the biggest issue is she is micromanaging and doing too much
she created a Fb page and labeled it with our HS and called it the Black Alumni Association. Why? I do not know.. lol
Then she got in her feels when she realized some of our classmates that we aint never been cool with ended up being Trump supporters. So she cancelled that invite and made it a Black only event.
why? I do not know.. lol.
just need her to stop doing shit. Its not that hard to rent the park pavilion and tell all our peoples the date.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79594 posts
Mon Jun-07-21 01:21 PM
10. "real rap.. that was the plan" In response to Reply # 9
since we don’t live at home we would put plans in place and use friends and fam back home to help with logistics
and that’s what is happening
but ole girl just a little too enthusiastic and misguided in some of her moves. Leave the politics out of it, leave the petty FB feelings out of it..
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
4. "At my job, nobody volunteers b/c they don't want to take the blame if it..." In response to Reply # 0 Fri Jun-04-21 10:11 PM by SuiteLady
goes wrong. Today we were on a call where the vendor asked for someone at our org to share their screen. Clearly (to me at least) the digital manager should have volunteered, but she left the call so there was a 3-5 minute awkward silence... seemed so long.
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79594 posts
Sun Jun-06-21 01:18 PM
7. "and this is the problem.. I’m involved" In response to Reply # 6
I created the invite flyer, found the caterer.. researched and found the pavilion schedule and down payment amount.
but somehow she put herself in charge by starting a FB group. Its an event that no one really needs to be “in charge” of but she kind of ran with it once she started the FB group
we just need her to post less info.. lol
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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