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Ron Burgandy
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Wed May-26-21 02:38 PM

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"Do your parents know your annual income?"


  

          

I know most don't discuss salary, etc. with others. But do your parents know how much you make?

You stay classy okayplayer!!

  

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Yeah, my father and I have discussed
May 26th 2021
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my mom.. I would’ve told her
May 26th 2021
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Less than me but they aint got student loan debt, so more than me
May 26th 2021
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I have told her but I doubt she remembers. She can barely remember
May 26th 2021
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uh....😒
May 26th 2021
5
gottdamn, you know what...I am strangely ashamed.
May 27th 2021
16
      I tried that once.
May 27th 2021
17
           150 an hour...tradesman?
May 27th 2021
21
yes...she manages some of my investments back home
May 26th 2021
6
Probably told them when I was seeking advice about buying a house
May 26th 2021
7
yeah and i think it hurt my mom's feelings
May 26th 2021
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dont think so
May 26th 2021
9
Yes - or pretty close
May 26th 2021
10
"you must make a lot of money to have that!"
May 26th 2021
11
Not exactly, but they know I'm doing well.
May 26th 2021
12
my mom doesn't, but my kids do.
May 26th 2021
13
my mom been asking me how much money i make for 2 decades.
May 26th 2021
14
she just wants to crunch the numbers
May 27th 2021
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lol...she trying to close your tab out
May 27th 2021
18
Ballpark. I’m more concerned about
May 27th 2021
19
Just enough to keep them from worrying.
May 27th 2021
20
no...
May 27th 2021
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no
May 27th 2021
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told her once after she kept insisting on giving back money she felt s...
May 28th 2021
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I know that was a proud moment
May 28th 2021
25

Lach
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Wed May-26-21 02:40 PM

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1. "Yeah, my father and I have discussed"
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When I finally hit 6 figures I couldn't wait to tell him lol

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed May-26-21 03:16 PM

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2. "my mom.. I would’ve told her"
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my dad? prolly not. He woulda hit me up every day for money.. lol

but yeah.. woulda told both of them on some “we did it!”

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MEAT
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Wed May-26-21 03:29 PM

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3. "Less than me but they aint got student loan debt, so more than me"
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SuiteLady
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Wed May-26-21 03:32 PM

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4. "I have told her but I doubt she remembers. She can barely remember"
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her own stuff.

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double negative
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5. "uh....😒"
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sorta, not really.

my parents used to work in a place where they were able to see financial/tax info on everybody. I'm sure they've looked.

I've never explicitly stated it for stupid reasons. I guess, I'm afraid of being hit up for cash even though they don't play that game. This is a "me thing".

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double negative
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16. "gottdamn, you know what...I am strangely ashamed. "
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Thu May-27-21 12:10 PM by double negative

  

          

my pops one day was like (in reference to his sister) "Oh yeah man, shes been HUSTLING, shes doing overtime on top of overtime, that's how she made ____ a year"

cue me: https://media.giphy.com/media/7zSzFBQwwGMC54c19q/giphy.gif

me saying: "Awesome"

but, me thinking: "YEAH NIGGA! I MADE MORE'N THAT HO OFF THE STRENGTH OF HAVING A GOOD ASS JOB. I WANNA KISS M'GODAMN WALLET RIGHT NOW"

and me also saying: "You know, good for her"


It's fucking weird. I am fucking weird about money.

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legsdiamond
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Thu May-27-21 12:27 PM

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17. "I tried that once. "
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and my pops asked me for money

Did you know you uncle charges $150 and hour”

me: “I’m not there yet but I charge X amount an hour”

pops: well damn.. lemme hold something???

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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21. "150 an hour...tradesman? "
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I could theoretically charge that if I went full indie contractor role but I don't think it's worth it, nor am I built for that life.

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tomjohn29
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Wed May-26-21 03:41 PM

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6. "yes...she manages some of my investments back home"
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Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

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To swim or to touch not
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flipnile
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Wed May-26-21 04:12 PM

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7. "Probably told them when I was seeking advice about buying a house"
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They probably remember the range I'm in.

  

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BrooklynWHAT
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Wed May-26-21 04:14 PM

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8. "yeah and i think it hurt my mom's feelings"
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Wed May-26-21 04:15 PM by BrooklynWHAT

  

          

i could tell she underestimated what i was doing out here and why i was annoyed by her unnecessary professional advice

pops was proud as hell when i told him one time

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mista k5
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Wed May-26-21 04:21 PM

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9. "dont think so"
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i dont know how much my siblings make either. i may have told my parents when i moved to this job but i dont remember.

none of them really know where i work. ive told them where i work. ive explained what the company does. ive shown examples of items we have done. ive given them clothes and doodads with the company logo. ive explained what i do. they still tell me "why dont you want us to know where you work?" im just like huh?

they think i work at a kinkos print center or something. ill get hit up asking about printing invitations or photos im like uh yeah THATs not what we do.

back to the money question. my brother thats in SC recently interviewed for a job in the chicago area. looked like he was going to move there but his current job matched. he told us his pay increased 18k. so im sure theres a calculation i can make to figure it out but eh. im sure hes doing well so its not my business.

i worry about my other siblings but im the only one that doesnt own a house so idk who needs to be more worried lol

  

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handle
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10. "Yes - or pretty close"
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Because we've discussed retirement strategies pretty extensively.

Probably not aware of the exact take home with overtime, but within 10k.

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Cold Truth
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Wed May-26-21 06:04 PM

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11. ""you must make a lot of money to have that!""
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Wed May-26-21 06:08 PM by Cold Truth

  

          

Nope. But my lights stay on, we've always had new- but modest- cars, and we have money to go and do shit.

I don't talk to my mom and her man anymore, but for years they would make comments like that, about absolutely everything. They have no clue, really, other than it "must be a lot!" to afford a Camry or a Fusion.

  

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12. "Not exactly, but they know I'm doing well."
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tariqhu
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13. "my mom doesn't, but my kids do."
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my mom probably wouldn't really even understand.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Reeq
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Wed May-26-21 10:47 PM

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14. "my mom been asking me how much money i make for 2 decades."
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i learned early on to keep that info close to the vest.

  

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legsdiamond
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Thu May-27-21 11:42 AM

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15. "she just wants to crunch the numbers"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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18. "lol...she trying to close your tab out"
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19. "Ballpark. I’m more concerned about "
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My mom telling everyone she can what my off days are. People will more easily plan out your off day than hit you up for money.

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20. "Just enough to keep them from worrying."
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Not enough for them to start counting my money for me.

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22. "no..."
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it’s one of things that you should never ask me

  

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will_5198
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23. "no"
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they are smart enough to figure a rough estimate

but my parents always thought talking about income was tacky as fuck and I have followed suit

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24. " told her once after she kept insisting on giving back money she felt s..."
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Fri May-28-21 05:53 AM by thegodcam

  

          

Went like this
- mom do u know how much I make year?
- says some random number
- nah way more
- adds 20k to random number
- nah mom
- adds 10k
- nah mom. Last year I made ....
-well damn....

Not gonna lie, was a lil proud after all the sacrifices that woman has made for me.... feels good that she can see it was not in vain...

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25. "I know that was a proud moment"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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