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Binlahab
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"What it means to be a man in 2021."


  

          

Off the top...women don't get to define that

You mad?

Good.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
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Subject Author Message Date ID
Not GAF about how another man defines himself.....
Apr 09th 2021
1
Sounds nice in theory, utterly impossible IRL
Apr 09th 2021
4
**sips coffee**
Apr 09th 2021
2
Hola!
Apr 09th 2021
3
Same thing it's always meant
Apr 09th 2021
5
Eh.
Apr 09th 2021
11
      You can be a male, but you aint a man
Apr 09th 2021
16
Having to be calm/cautious at all times
Apr 09th 2021
6
Uh...I disagree nm
Apr 09th 2021
12
      Why though, women really don't like it when men lose their temper
Apr 09th 2021
18
           Soon as you raise your voice/get emotional you're
Apr 09th 2021
19
           I think you may need to have a sit down with the wife
Apr 10th 2021
25
           women dont get to decide or have a say in what a man is nm
Apr 09th 2021
20
           I'm still aware there's going to be consquences to how
Apr 09th 2021
21
                And accepting those consequences...makes you a man nm
Apr 09th 2021
23
           this isn’t true.. they don't like when we lose our temper towards them
Apr 10th 2021
24
                yeah women love to see their men at full froth on their behalf
Apr 10th 2021
27
                     uh not necessarily
Apr 21st 2021
36
                          nah.. nope.. nada
Apr 22nd 2021
38
                               LOL ok fine
Apr 22nd 2021
39
what version of man are we talking about? White Man or man?
Apr 09th 2021
7
In any statement I make the Black is silent
Apr 09th 2021
13
Accepting your patriarchal bullshit for what it is
Apr 09th 2021
8
A method of survival? Fa sho nm
Apr 09th 2021
14
My pops gave me the roadmap I am raising my boys with.
Apr 09th 2021
9
Every man defines himself...
Apr 09th 2021
10
#givethanks
Apr 09th 2021
15
respect...peace to you and him....
Apr 09th 2021
17
your dad sounds like a dope dude.
Apr 09th 2021
22
Man showing up is half the battle.
Apr 22nd 2021
37
bruh.. the part about never cowering to a white man is dope as fuck
Apr 10th 2021
26
Man My pops from a generation where you really didn't have to deal with
Apr 10th 2021
28
      I lived in PA and we sorta had that but not on that scale
Apr 10th 2021
29
Solid
Apr 20th 2021
30
daps nm
Apr 20th 2021
31
still trying to define something that's not real definition.
Apr 21st 2021
32
*opens lawn chair and fills cup w/ drank*
Apr 21st 2021
33
It probably wont lol
Apr 21st 2021
34
      LOL you prolly right
Apr 21st 2021
35
You prolly don’t fuck with her, but is she wrong? (Link)
Apr 27th 2021
40
🙄 she's a piece of shit bedwench and supporter/ apologist for..
Apr 28th 2021
41
This is where I'm at basically. Fuck her.
Apr 28th 2021
42
Emphatically.
Apr 28th 2021
43
Is Bob Darker white? They love this woman for some reason
Apr 28th 2021
44
      RE: Is Bob Darker white? They love this woman for some reason
Apr 28th 2021
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      yeah.. when I see people push her
Apr 28th 2021
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           RE: yeah.. when I see people push her
Apr 28th 2021
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      Naw, bruh...I’m definitely not white and I don’t fuck with CO like t...
Apr 28th 2021
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           RE: Naw, bruh...I’m definitely not white and I don’t fuck with CO li...
Apr 28th 2021
50
           i can respect that
Apr 28th 2021
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           Not "pushing" her, just taking time out of your day to watch her videos
Apr 28th 2021
52
                this
Apr 29th 2021
55
We not sharing and discussing Candice Owen in 2021 are we?
Apr 28th 2021
54
We get to choose, because the western ideal of manhood is dead.
Apr 28th 2021
45
damn straight.
Apr 28th 2021
51

FLUIDJ
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1. "Not GAF about how another man defines himself..... "
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"

  

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Binlahab
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4. "Sounds nice in theory, utterly impossible IRL"
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people care immensely what others think abt them


on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
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2. "**sips coffee**"
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good morning, daddy 😊

  

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Binlahab
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3. "Hola!"
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You know the vibes ©️


on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
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5. "Same thing it's always meant"
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Respect for self, respect for others

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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

  

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Binlahab
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11. "Eh."
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I can have zero respect for others/someone else and be a man

  

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MEAT
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16. "You can be a male, but you aint a man"
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Fri Apr-09-21 12:40 PM by MEAT

  

          

Unless you talking about no respect for certain individuals. But overall, nah. You aint living long like that.

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6. "Having to be calm/cautious at all times"
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R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
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Binlahab
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12. "Uh...I disagree nm"
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on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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18. "Why though, women really don't like it when men lose their temper"
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Fri Apr-09-21 12:54 PM by select_from_where

  

          

they want a wall to lean their emotions on, seeing men lose their composure creates stress for them.

  

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Adwhizz
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19. "Soon as you raise your voice/get emotional you're"
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Fri Apr-09-21 01:21 PM by Adwhizz

  

          

perceived as as a threat/source of trauma

If I talked to my Wife/my Ex-GFs the way they talked to me I would probably have had a nice little stint in a jail cell.

Maybe I just have a really approachable face/demeanor but pre-pandemic there were instances where random strangers/people I barely know (not just women) would feel comfortable touching me, and yea I might have WANTED to stiff arm them, but in the long run it's not worth the hassle to be out here barking on people.

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
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legsdiamond
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25. "I think you may need to have a sit down with the wife"
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cause you shouldn't tolerate being talked to like that UNLESS you said or did some foul shit.

Early in our relationship after an argument the wife and I agreed we wouldn’t talk to each other like that. Not saying we don’t argue or disagree on things but the tone of our voice will never be on some disrespectful shit.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Binlahab
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20. "women dont get to decide or have a say in what a man is nm"
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on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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21. "I'm still aware there's going to be consquences to how "
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I'm perceived by other people, including women.

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

  

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Binlahab
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23. "And accepting those consequences...makes you a man nm"
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on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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24. "this isn’t true.. they don't like when we lose our temper towards them"
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Sat Apr-10-21 08:20 AM by legsdiamond

          

but let someone disrespect them while you are with them and unless its jail time they will want you to show emotion and anger towards that person

I mean.. what person likes it when their mate shows anger towards them? Only damaged goods likes that type of energy pointed in their direction.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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27. "yeah women love to see their men at full froth on their behalf"
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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36. "uh not necessarily"
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let me handle the disrespect myself, then u be mean mugging right behind me just in case the shit goes left LOL

d

"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing at how stupid you are." - bshelly

  

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38. "nah.. nope.. nada"
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I have seen this scenario too many times

the woman: “I can handle it myself” .. “please chill, stop being so aggressive”

goes to club or venue and drunk dude oversteps and the man chills

the woman: “wtf? where were you? didnt you see what was happening? If I can’t trust you to protect me..”


my wife is my nuggah, she always tells me she got my back. When shit goes down tho.. she knows to go start the fucking car. I don’t need both of us getting knocked the fuck out.

Someone gotta drive us home dammit.

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39. "LOL ok fine"
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"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing at how stupid you are." - bshelly

  

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7. "what version of man are we talking about? White Man or man?"
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Only because I read 'The Man Not' and that particular nugget has been rattling around in my head for a while.

i think about the insights from recent studies that show black fathers are more involved with child-rearing than others

and, I know that there are additional roles and considerations black men , all black men in America shoulder


so...it depends

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13. "In any statement I make the Black is silent"
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I'm not talking abt or concerned with anyone else but my people

So if I type women do xyz...the Black is silent. I'm talking abt Black people. Forever and exclusively


on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
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8. "Accepting your patriarchal bullshit for what it is"
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Big PEMFin H & z's
"I ain't no entertainer, and ain't trying to be one. I am 1 thing, a musician." � Miles

"When the music stops he falls back in the abyss."

  

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Binlahab
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14. "A method of survival? Fa sho nm"
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on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

  

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9. "My pops gave me the roadmap I am raising my boys with. "
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I never seen my dad play a sport. Never threw a football with me and I had to learn basketball on my own.

I never seen my dad wear jeans or sneakers until much later in life. Like in his 60s.

I've seen him cry a million times. In public. He could be at church and sharing a story and be moved to tears.

And yet he was always the coolest, smartest, baddest mofo I have ever met.


Man loved clothes, cars, music, knowledge and people. Wasn't a subject matter he couldn't speak on. Was always reading some huge biography. Had subscriptions to GQ, Esquire, New Yorker and Vanity Fair when no one within 3 zip codes were reading those type of magazine. Was more charming than anyone I've ever met. Could talk to anyone from the brothers on the corner to my college professors.

I've never seen my dad cower or bow his head to white folks. Seen him curse out everyone from cops to judges (even was held in contempt and put in jail for telling a judge off).


I mean look at this moutha.

https://ibb.co/F39DqW7


So I say all this to say I've seen so many brothers struggle with the idea of what it means to be a man and conform to societal standards whether its street toughness, or bagging chicks or even making money but I really neer felt those pressures because my dad was never that type of man but was still "The Man" in my eyes.


My pop turns 80 next week and is in a home suffering from dementia so forgive a brother for bragging, that's headspace I'm at in the moment.



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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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10. "Every man defines himself..."
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..No two men share the same perspective all the time.

Your pops sounds like one helluva character and a stand up dude. Honor that.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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15. "#givethanks"
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Talk yo shit


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17. "respect...peace to you and him...."
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and everyone affected by his condition. Watching your pops not be as strong as you remember is very hurtful.

when I threw the rifle in the river,
it looked like Bol Bol was diving in the river - Action Bronson

  

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22. "your dad sounds like a dope dude. "
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i never had a father.

i had to figure out what it meant to be a man on my own.

by most people's accounts, i figured it out pretty well. your pops sounds a lot like me now (but definitely better read).

and now i get to pass it down. i hope my son sees me how you see your pops some day. feels like he does now, but he's also 5. when he's 35, i hope it feels the same.

respect.

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37. "Man showing up is half the battle. "
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Just being there and trying to have your kids see you like that means you already on the right track.

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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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26. "bruh.. the part about never cowering to a white man is dope as fuck"
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that’s powerful

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28. "Man My pops from a generation where you really didn't have to deal with"
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White People. Virginia Union and Virginia State, HBCU cats who became professionals working for themselves and servicing black clients and people and really didn't have to deal with or need White people at all to prosper. I don't even think that exists anymore.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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29. "I lived in PA and we sorta had that but not on that scale"
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I’m old enough to remember a lot of Black owned businesses.

Lived in a predominantly white suburb but of course we had our own shit because they didnt want any part of us in their establishments

but with the steel mills pumping we had a lot of dollars circulating.

my schooling was PWT but my afterschool program and summers was all black everything.

10 years ago an Italian friend found himself at our Black VFW and was amazed. We’ve known each other for 40 years, he lived 2 minutes from it and never knew it existed. We lost that building because of unpaid taxes and the younger generation moving away or going to clubs in the city. This VFW is where Duke Ellington and Ella would perform after playing white clubs in the city.

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30. "Solid"
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Sounds like home. Pops would kill when Jeopardy came on and got us interested in reading by subscribing to every magazine under the sun.

  

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31. "daps nm"
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But hell, what do I know?

  

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32. "still trying to define something that's not real definition."
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or at least no meaning that applies to universally. every trait that is deemed 'man', can be given to anyone.

also, men are emotional creatures, just like other humans. wish we'd stop with the calm/stoic caricature that some of us have become. including me.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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33. "*opens lawn chair and fills cup w/ drank*"
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this should be interesting.

d

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Bambino Grande
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34. "It probably wont lol"
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>this should be interesting.
>
>d
>
>"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of
>people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing
>at how stupid you are." - bshelly

  

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35. "LOL you prolly right"
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"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing at how stupid you are." - bshelly

  

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Bob Darker
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40. "You prolly don’t fuck with her, but is she wrong? (Link)"
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https://youtu.be/QBf3lwjqvgo

We all might hate her opinions on most topics...but is she wrong here?

Particular to @7:22 ...

Her point on men:

The modern woman wants to mold males into men that they ultimately don’t want.

Is this true?

I saw a IG post with a woman calling men that approach her at grocery stores “incels.”

So dudes that she doesn’t find attractive that have the gall to say hello are incels now?

Like, damn...really?!

That word is almost as overused as “simp.”

Humans gonna be extinct within 100 years at this rate.

  

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41. "🙄 she's a piece of shit bedwench and supporter/ apologist for.."
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for white supremacy and the murder of Black people at the hands of law enforcement, hence, her opinion on ANY & EVERYTHING should be null and void, ESPECIALLY when it concerns Black folks.

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42. "This is where I'm at basically. Fuck her."
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43. "Emphatically."
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44. "Is Bob Darker white? They love this woman for some reason "
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only thing I have to add is she looks just like my sister in law..

and my SIL only dates white dudes. Must be the look.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Somnus
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46. "RE: Is Bob Darker white? They love this woman for some reason "
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Hell if I know, but I'm willing to wager dude may be lacking in the melanin dept...physically or otherwise.

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47. "yeah.. when I see people push her "
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its usually those Ye types who want to troll Black folk..


or its white dudes who love to see Black people shit on Black people.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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48. "RE: yeah.. when I see people push her "
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>its usually those Ye types who want to troll Black folk..
>
>
>or its white dudes who love to see Black people shit on Black
>people.

or hillbilly redneck/incel types with a Stacy Dash/ Omarosa-type fetish

but in comparison Klandace makes them two look like Assata Shakur and Angela Davis

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49. "Naw, bruh...I’m definitely not white and I don’t fuck with CO like t..."
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But I do have the ability to separate the message from the messenger, which apparently some folks can’t do, I see...

I didn’t ask if anyone liked her...

I asked if what she was saying wrong in regard to women’s expectations of men, vs. what they really want on a biological level.

Nobody is pushing CO....I just saw the vid and tied it to what this post was asking.

Ole buddy talking about people trolling and incels... the fact that she live in that man’s head like that rent free...damn...that shit must suck.

Fuck the messenger....focus on the message.

Is what she saying wrong?

  

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50. "RE: Naw, bruh...I’m definitely not white and I don’t fuck with CO li..."
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>But I do have the ability to separate the message from the
>messenger, which apparently some folks can’t do, I see...
>
>I didn’t ask if anyone liked her...
>
>I asked if what she was saying wrong in regard to women’s
>expectations of men, vs. what they really want on a biological
>level.
>
>Nobody is pushing CO....I just saw the vid and tied it to what
>this post was asking.
>
>Ole buddy talking about people trolling and incels... the fact
>that she live in that man’s head like that rent
>free...damn...that shit must suck.
>
>Fuck the messenger....focus on the message.
>
>Is what she saying wrong?

just to reiterate: fuck if what she's saying is right or wrong at this point, SHE IS AND BEEN WRONG; her whole existence is wrong. Fuck her and everyone she loves.

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53. "i can respect that"
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>just to reiterate: fuck if what she's saying is right or wrong at this >SHE IS AND BEEN WRONG; her whole existence is wrong.
>Fuck her and everyone she loves.

Her overall paid white-face ideology is trash for sure, but I figured cats would be mature enough to discern the difference between 'who is saying' and 'what is being said.'

Definitely wasn't trying to turn this into convo about her, but I get it, she triggers many just at the sight of her. I get it.

All good.

  

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52. "Not "pushing" her, just taking time out of your day to watch her videos"
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and post them from an alias account for others to watch.
Not pushing her though.
Gotcha.

--
"You can't beat white people. You can only knock them out."

"There is only one god and his name is death. And there is only one thing we say to death: not today."

  

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55. "this"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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54. "We not sharing and discussing Candice Owen in 2021 are we?"
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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45. "We get to choose, because the western ideal of manhood is dead."
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One Hundred.

  

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51. "damn straight. "
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In a generation of swine, the one-eyed pig is king.
-Hunter S. Thompson

  

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