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She has Stage 4 Kidney Disease, and is in the process of evaluating dialysis options, and getting placed on a transplant list.
My initial reaction to this has not been good, given the closeness of our relationship, and the fact that her and her son are the only blood relatives me and my kids have a close relationship with.
But she's explained the long term outlook from her doctors, a treatment plan, dietary changes and all that, and I've done my googles enough to gain a realistic perspective on her outlook. From what I've seen, the average life expectancy for a woman aged 40 ranges from 9 to 16 years.
To that end I'm not at all happy right now, but it's not like she's going to be gone tomorrow or anything.
That said, is anyone familiar with Kidney Disease, particularly in Stage 4/5, and transplant lists?
Basically, any info or insight that can help her, and in turn set my own fucking mind at ease. I know we all die, but getting what amounts to a rough, expected finite time limit has me rattled.
If nothing else, it's motivation to make the most of her time here, because ten years is a long time, but can absolutely fly by.
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