4. "BM & BW both choose some (below) average looking white partners" In response to Reply # 3 Wed Jul-01-20 03:43 AM by Boogie Stimuli
and it's a function of our society over valuing whiteness and under valuing blackness. Every person in this society is constantly receiving and internalizing these messages unless they're consciously fighting against them.
5. "Basically regular old school wife shit that a lot of women today scoff....." In response to Reply # 3
at. Just be his peace. Beyoncé “Cater 2 U” type shit.
When those conversations come up women get to waiving their hands back and forth talking about “these n***** don’t deserve all that!” but some do but you have to be willing to try and wait and see.
Dr. Dre wasn’t a billionaire when he met her but she was with him “shooting in the gym”.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 06:46 AM
8. "Ehh.. I think that’s a myth" In response to Reply # 5
besides the fetishized sex I think every person I know who married white has dealt with the same shit along with the racial blind spot.
It’s mostly dudes who just prefer dealing with white skin and all the things that come with a relationship.
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first of all the “fetishized sex” is the myth. All women are different sexually regardless of race.
And from what I’ve seen white women can be even more loyal because they stepped out there in the first place usually against their family’s wishes so they are even more invested to “make it work” for a multitude of reasons. If they were married to a black man, especially if there are children involved, if they divorce they can almost never go back “white”. I know there are exceptions to everything but that is generally the case.
>besides the fetishized sex I think every person I know who >married white has dealt with the same shit along with the >racial blind spot. > >It’s mostly dudes who just prefer dealing with white skin >and all the things that come with a relationship.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 08:04 AM
13. "It’s not a myth. Sex is sex regardless of who you are with.." In response to Reply # 9
But some folks enjoy seeing different skin which is where the fetishizing comes in. Why do you think Interracial pron is so popular.
As far as being loyal. That’s a myth. IMO those women are the least loyal of all. Black women are way more loyal but they are also passionate and push us to be our best selves which leads to some dudes tapping out.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
27. "That’s what I was saying..." In response to Reply # 13
>But some folks enjoy seeing different skin which is where the >fetishizing comes in. Why do you think Interracial pron is so >popular.
It depends on what you’ve been exposed to. If you’ve been around people of other races your entire life the “skin fetish” thing is overrated.
>As far as being loyal. That’s a myth. IMO those women are >the least loyal of all. Black women are way more loyal but >they are also passionate and push us to be our best selves >which leads to some dudes tapping out.
I meant more likely to try and make it work because people will be quicker to say “I told you so”
>And from what I’ve seen white women can be even more loyal >because they stepped out there in the first place usually >against their family’s wishes so they are even more invested >to “make it work” for a multitude of reasons. If they were >married to a black man, especially if there are children >involved, if they divorce they can almost never go back >“white”. I know there are exceptions to everything but >that is generally the case. > >>besides the fetishized sex I think every person I know who >>married white has dealt with the same shit along with the >>racial blind spot. >> >>It’s mostly dudes who just prefer dealing with white skin >>and all the things that come with a relationship. >
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 06:37 AM
7. "If you elevate white skin every level is 2X dope" In response to Reply # 3
so average becomes pretty
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 08:15 AM
15. "Love who you love but don’t lie nigga.. lol" In response to Reply # 12
Proximity my ass..
some Black men like white girls.. That’s it, that’s all.
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17. "Wait, that woman ain't black? Or something?" In response to Reply # 3
Besides the point already made about elevating white so much you think mediocre is great, the other thing I would note is that white women age terribly.
I was at my class reunion and there were several of my classmates who looked the same walking around with these old looking white women. I just guessed that they were hotter when they were younger and aged badly.
This woman is 50. I am guessing she was probably bad AF at 23.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 10:53 AM
30. "Correct. I went home one time and whew.. " In response to Reply # 17
a lot of those women looked old af.
I thought I was gonna see an average white chick.
She looks aight to me for her age but I think people have unrealistic expectations for celebrities SO’s. They gotta be bad af because lower knows these other don’t deserve love.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 12:08 PM
32. "Definitely had some fillers" In response to Reply # 19
He face looks much bigger..
She was attractive in some of the earlier photos I googled.
I mean.. for 50 she is not a bad looking woman.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Thu Jul-02-20 10:02 AM
63. "I’m not up on all the celebs baby mommas. Sorry. " In response to Reply # 57
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Thu Jul-02-20 05:30 PM
66. "This too... she looks totally different now" In response to Reply # 65
and Jamie wasn’t really that famous back then.
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Sat Jul-04-20 12:11 PM
74. "Yeah, it’s never a good idea to clown hair styles from 25 years ago" In response to Reply # 71
Most of them were hilarious.
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61. "This is where things get goofy with expectations" In response to Reply # 3
It's interesting how we look at rich and powerful men funny if they don't have a trophy wife. Like they can't just find a woman in their orbit that's interesting and attractive, to them, and roll with it?
In Dre's case though, I'd speculate there's some underlying issues.
Going by his wiki, Dre's had kids by 3 different black women before the age of 25.
He was dating a hot black woman and beating the brakes off her for several years before getting with his current ex-wife.
He'd already been convicted of beating another black woman.
Maybe black women in LA just collectively said "Nah, not worth the squeeze for the juice" and he went outside the community.
In broader terms, if you haven't committed to exclusively dating black or brown, the sheer number of white people means there are just alot more of them available.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 08:10 AM
14. "I just clicked the links. She got a big ass head. " In response to Reply # 0
2 questions tho..
1) is she white? She looks like she is mixed with something and they did a great job casting her in the movie. Did she play herself?
2) lmao at cramming wit into the middle of “fucking Sedele” after the fact I’m that letter on reddit.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
>2 questions tho.. > >1) is she white? She looks like she is mixed with something >and they did a great job casting her in the movie. Did she >play herself? > >2) lmao at cramming wit into the middle of “fucking >Sedele” after the fact I’m that letter on reddit.
Yea the above conversation had me tilting my head too, I always assumed she was mixed race or something. But I don't know either way for sure, that was just always the impression I got.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 10:49 AM
29. "I don’t think she is Black.. but she ain’t white" In response to Reply # 24
She something tho..
Prolly mixed or has a mixed parent.
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 02:19 PM
37. "I’ve seen bios that said she was mixed or N/A" In response to Reply # 35
Not sure that site is anymore legit than the others.
She looks a little something to me but I’m not willing to fight over it.
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40. "the subjects divorce and yall went straight to looks etc " In response to Reply # 34
Don’t act
> >********** >"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then >they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson > >"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 03:01 PM
47. "Post 3.. a woman sent us down this path " In response to Reply # 40
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Jul-01-20 02:53 PM
45. "Maybe tomorrow.. it’s too late for me today. " In response to Reply # 42
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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