"What is the #1 universal advice for giving a girl good head"
Apart from the obvious fact everyone likes different stuff, what is the best advice that's been passed down to you from the great sages or that you've found through your own experience to be true?
1. "I support getting it poppin on a thursday morning. " In response to Reply # 0
Wondering how this type of post will do with this OKP crowd in 2020. ********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
14. "what's more weird is if I do the same thing to you" In response to Reply # 10
as I did to my last woman, but you don't like it? then you blame me for not knowing how to hook you up or tell your girls I don't know what I'm doing.
sometimes not having the level of communication works if things line up well. however, I really think that if we can't talk about it, that says I don't need to be there.
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
31. "read some of the responses..." In response to Reply # 30
bet it came with experience -
usually the problem is finding the boat. The technique should be pretty easy if you’re paying attention to her body language during the act. with this kind, all I’m saying is, I would be uncomfortable having a conversation with a 47 yr old man on how to navigate. not that if we had the conversation it’s an end all.
32. "I think we're cross talking." In response to Reply # 31
I'm saying that the talks can be more specific to you. of course he should know the big picture stuff. but the nuance of you will be different and talking helps a lot with that.
34. "then pay attention..." In response to Reply # 32
I mean, I get what you’re say. just that if you know the fundamentals there’s no reason to be having a conversation. lest you’re not paying attention during the act...
paying attention during the act is my final answer, Alex
38. "SMH right here. Some times even women don't understand that every" In response to Reply # 10
woman is different. And what got the last girl off might not be your cup of tea. So, IMHOP, the only rule of good head is listen to the woman which definitely implies the woman has some obligation to let a guy know what she likes. Doesn't have to be with words, there are other ways to tell. But you can't expect a dude from jump to know exactly what you like. If you got a partner you trust, and open with, it will only get better over time.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
40. "you hurt my feeling, Buddy..." In response to Reply # 38
it bothers me that you think something is wrong with being uncomfortable. I assume you’re thinking that it’s a knock to the guy but, it’s not. It more of what’s going on in my mind, how some men are sensitive about performance and I don’t like hurting people feeling. I would talk about it with him tho.
with that in mind ^ . If you know every woman is different, don’t you have a process in knowing that
My old lady liked to be lick but my new lady doesn’t respond to that like me try sucking on her
Shit, the beautiful part of intimacy is the discovery...
> >Apart from the obvious fact everyone likes different stuff, >what is the best advice that's been passed down to you from >the great sages or that you've found through your own >experience to be true?
eclipsedInI Member since Jul 29th 2002 92867 posts
Thu Apr-02-20 02:17 PM
8. "ask her what she likes, what feels best, or what sounds/seems good" In response to Reply # 0
pay attention the labia minora/majora both equally don't just focus on the clitoris try and be as light as possible with the clitoris until she communicates what sort of pressure she likes applies
use a finger or two along with your tongue
don't just focus on her vagina if you do decide to use a finger...sphincter is right there
but DO NOT use the anus finger on the vagina
try & use a separate hand if you can
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29. "Lool that is exactly whst not to do for my current girl" In response to Reply # 8
Except for the finer double dip
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
9. "hand on the abdomen. it she's convulsing, stay the course" In response to Reply # 0
if she's not convulsing then do something else to achieve it. it's been a minute since i've done this but i think you're looking for involuntary contractions in the lower and middle abdomen areas, like the bottom half or third of a six pack
tongue dexterity and consistency is important too. push through any discomfort on your end and keep at it. listen to her as well. if she says, "i'm close," (or the guttural moan equivalent) then keep doing what you're doing for another 5 minutes (shoutout john henton). you should be mainly working the clitoris. different women like different things so i can't offer specifics on this. just keep trying different things until you get a reaction, then keep doing that thing. gentle at first is generally a good rule. don't ever hammer at it (unless she asks for it) or be generally oafish. your tongue should be a nimble instrument built for delivering pleasure. you should aim for world class pianist or surgeon, not a construction worker on a jackhammer
i'm a believer in the peaks and valleys method. bring her close to the edge — like where she can see it but it's not quite in focus — then back off a little and build up again. never have her on the brink of an orgasm then back off; that's really fucked up. if done right she can ride the orgasm for minutes instead of seconds and you can sometimes get multiples out of one session if you space it out a little and let her sensitivity levels go down. also gentle caressing of sensitive areas post-orgasm is said to be pleasant and keeps the engine running for another buildup
THE END. Because something that one loves, will do nothing for the next. Its amazing how it can vary from person to person. Find out what she likes and do that.
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>THE END. Because something that one loves, will do nothing >for the next. Its amazing how it can vary from person to >person. Find out what she likes and do that.
Your go-to move might have sent that last chick to the moon. But maybe it doesn't do anything at all for the next chick. So pay attention. Be ready to improvise. And don't be shy about asking her what she likes. Every woman is gonna be different.
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