legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79574 posts
Thu Feb-27-20 12:49 PM
3. "Had no idea she has a baby with DOC" In response to Reply # 0
She’s a wild one.
I remember being in Asheville and the promoter told me she went to pick up Badu for her concert and asked us to guess what dude was in there rubbing her feet.
We were like “3Stacks?, Common?..”
She responds: Osama, the weed dude who was just in here with you”
Huh???
Said she had him running around Asheville taking photos of bugs and fire hydrants for a week or 2 after she left
She got that hypnotic.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79574 posts
Fri Feb-28-20 02:00 PM
32. "Dude was mad cool but we did not expect to hear his name" In response to Reply # 10
I got more stories too.
She tried to get my boy to whip it out in front of everyone at the studio
“You cute.. pull it out”
She wild yo... lol.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79574 posts
Fri Feb-28-20 02:02 PM
33. "Grade A and celeb gossip don’t belong in the same sentence. " In response to Reply # 30
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79574 posts
Fri Feb-28-20 02:47 PM
36. "Stay outta her lane bro" In response to Reply # 34
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
37. "she's a real person that could see it and be hurt by it" In response to Reply # 31
intentionally benign or not, the shit is not benign
this reference to her family in such a callous way is never benign
black women are ALWAYS discussed in this way...im saying to participate in that, in any way, is shitty
we need to hold ourselves to a higher standard when it comes to how we treat Black women, public figures or not, and i will always call this out no matter who it is
38. "maybe. but i personally doubt it" In response to Reply # 37
she has shown herself - *here* - to be FAR from thin skinned
she even is known do dish it out with skillful APLOMB (and a degree of wicked enjoyment that is far from small)
i don't know her, and i don't think you do either, not like that. we are randumb folks, on an outdated mechanism talking about nothing in particular
while i generally agree with your point TO a point, (regarding the general level of respect we should maintain) I *ALSO* think treating Black Women as though they are fragile is also a disservice. they are FAR from that
alls I did was ask the names of her children's fathers, if you think that is overboard: so be it
if you wanna tell me your full opinion on it for righteous indignation reasons
that's cool too. whatever.
but AGAIN
the lifespan of post will be as long as folk keep responding
there is a disingenuous element in feeding the beast then complaining about its health and destructiveness
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79574 posts
Fri Feb-28-20 03:22 PM
40. "She sold perfume with herself in it... she ain’t trippin off this pist" In response to Reply # 38
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
43. "good. respect is the point. its not about fragility" In response to Reply # 38 Fri Feb-28-20 08:22 PM by Damali
"but she's not thinskinned" is a copout and an excuse to say foul shit about people. you didn't refer to "her children's fathers"...you specifically said "her baby father roster". that's some bullshit and you know it. words matter, love.
and i been on these here boards for a minute and am well aware of how posting works, thanks.
i said what i said tho...and when i see shit that's foul, i speak on it, regardless. and i've been doing that CONSISTENTLY for the entire time i've been posting here, WITHOUT care for how its perceived. and i will ALWAYS as long as i have a login.
so miss me with "disingenuous" bullshit. i'm one of the most, if not THEE most genuine mofo on here. i don't post for views...i say what the fuck is on my mind. period.
44. "With you." In response to Reply # 43 Fri Feb-28-20 10:44 PM by Brew
Well said, per usual. I don't think Selah intended to be inflammatory but you nailed it when you said impact matters more than intention. Sometimes you've gotta humble yourself and admit you were wrong even if your intentions were good.
>"but she's not thinskinned" is a copout and an excuse to say >foul shit about people. you didn't refer to "her children's >fathers"...you specifically said "her baby father roster". >that's some bullshit and you know it. words matter, love. > >and i been on these here boards for a minute and am well aware >of how posting works, thanks. > >i said what i said tho...and when i see shit that's foul, i >speak on it, regardless. and i've been doing that CONSISTENTLY >for the entire time i've been posting here, WITHOUT care for >how its perceived. and i will ALWAYS as long as i have a >login. > >so miss me with "disingenuous" bullshit. i'm one of the most, >if not THEE most genuine mofo on here. i don't post for >views...i say what the fuck is on my mind. period. > >child, please. > >d
46. "i agree that she meant no illwill, however" In response to Reply # 44
calling me disingenuous crossed a line, so i felt the need to correct that
people need to learn how to handle being called out without feeling the need to go on the attack.
and before anyone even goes there, when i'm wrong (which is alot!), i am quick to admit it. I want to learn facts...i have no shame or embarrassment about being proved wrong. Why should any of us? we all need to get the fuck out of our egos and learn some shit
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