"Poll question: "Quick react": Just completely terrible or...just a little terrible?" Tue Feb-11-20 05:52 PM by c71
(Or are we just victims of fate?)
Bottom line: if a person is "quick react" then he or she just "goes off"/"pops off" without filter.
That's pretty much hellish.
but...
Some will find some other things about such a "quick react" person (looks, $$$, etc.) so they try to see if things can work.
uh...
Should it just be "accepted" that "quick react" people should be left alone as far as romantic relationships are concerned? I'm thinking this is too obvious, but....for some reason, it's not, seemingly(?)
1. "Bruh, if you're asking if you should date that crazy chick, answer is NO" In response to Reply # 0 Wed Feb-12-20 11:46 AM by flipnile
Unless you're one of those dudes that likes drama and being in dumb situations. We're too old to be dating folks that "pop off," "lose they mind" or whatever bamma-ass slang they use for poor self control.
Chick gonna have your old-ass up in the club brawling with dudes in their 20s over some nonsense.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79545 posts
Wed Feb-12-20 11:50 AM
2. "Lmao.. I have no idea what dude is really getting at" In response to Reply # 1
but hopefully he takes her out on a date and reports back.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
im in a healthy relationship i mess up we talk we move on
i think in the situation its more about ego of each partner than just the "fly off the handle" nature my wife has a strong enough ego so understand some of my "quick react" tendencies I have a strong enough ego to know when im wrong
rinse repeat
now crazy is another level of this...and thats is different
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**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
8. "I could write a book on this. " In response to Reply # 0
I'm slow to react, my wife is extremely quick.
We both have anxiety issues.
I slow down time to gain composure and figure out what the issue or problem is and how I'm going to approach it. The thought is, get it right the first time no matter the cost of time.
She picks up speed to tackle problems. Her thought is lay down a mark and THEN work through to resolve introduced counter issues.
90% of the time it works out when we work as a unit to tackle life problems; she reacts and I act as anchor to calm things down or talk things through or I move to slow and will take forever finding the perfect anything and she acts as the gas pedal to keep things moving forward.
For the most part things are fine until serious shit-hitting-fan arguments come up. When that happens everything is like crip walking in an ice rink.
10. "Every person I've known that was "quick react" were too high strung for ..." In response to Reply # 0 Wed Feb-12-20 03:54 PM by flipnile
Men and women. Always another fucking problem, drama, somebody did them wrong, they phone battery died, they hungry, etc. Being around these types is figurative hell for me. Always some more dumb shit coming down the pike... never anything dope, deep or fly.
I'm slow / no react. Usually if something bothers me for stupid reasons, I just remove myself from the situation. Hard to co-exist with people that run towards drama.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79545 posts
Wed Feb-12-20 04:13 PM
11. "Those people are physically draining " In response to Reply # 10
Always something and most times it’s nothing serious.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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