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Crisco
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"Poll question: I may be Killing her softly, from a Broken Heart"


  

          

Last year I was putting this girl I was dating thru it. Half ass boyfriend taking advantage of her financially all around jerk. Tried to break up with her. She got really sick and had a heart attack. had to get stints put in. She stayed with me. I don't know why.

This year I'm still a jerk but this chick loves me unconditionally. Tried to tell her to let me go numerous times this year. Finally break up with her a few Fridays ago. She has another heart attack.

She is in the hospital having Open heart surgery as I am typing this. I'm praying she pulls thru. She was born with some health issues the Bad artery issue came to light last year. She has a 14 year old daughter. I don't want to be responsible for taking her mom away

I'm thinking about breaking up with her for good when she comes to of the hospital. More so going ghost with one last good bye text.

Poll result (3 votes)
Breakup with her immediately after surgery (1 votes)Vote
Breakup with her after she has recovered and gone home (1 votes)Vote
Don't breakup with her hang in till she dumps me (0 votes)Vote
Don't break up with her and keep being a narcissitic jerk (0 votes)Vote
Other (1 votes)Vote

  

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
WoW
Jan 15th 2020
1
Wow indeed any suggestions
Jan 15th 2020
5
Damn, man.
Jan 15th 2020
2
Ive told her I think I'm causing her heart issues
Jan 15th 2020
6
Suregery going well according to her mom text
Jan 15th 2020
3
Bruh...
Jan 15th 2020
4
Thinking Imma ghost her once she fully recovers
Jan 15th 2020
7
Leave now.
Jan 15th 2020
8
Help for what? I'm good
Jan 15th 2020
10
      he's saying don't this shit get old?
Jan 15th 2020
13
           Yeah it does get old actually
Jan 15th 2020
15
           Right? Every so often my boy and I reminisce about
Jan 15th 2020
20
                exactly.
Jan 15th 2020
21
                Crisco; bringing you true Trife since since May 21st 2003
Jan 16th 2020
29
Bruh
Jan 15th 2020
9
      Indeed. A brother may need to settledown. This is a sign
Jan 15th 2020
11
I voted (Other) btw: POS of the Year Award
Jan 15th 2020
12
Thanks for your input
Jan 15th 2020
14
She is out of surgery and doing great
Jan 15th 2020
16
You've been low-key leadin her on smh
Jan 15th 2020
17
Low-key?
Jan 16th 2020
26
You're still doing this? smdh.
Jan 15th 2020
18
"Y'all wonder why we hate men..." - Ms. Hill
Jan 15th 2020
19
Think she´d cosign a 2021 whip?
Jan 15th 2020
22
I had a neighbor who lost all muscle functions and couldn’t talk
Jan 16th 2020
23
Good Points. But I feel bad leaving her while she is healing
Jan 16th 2020
24
      Best to do it while she has tons of support and nurses around
Jan 16th 2020
27
Suregery was a success. She is doing well
Jan 16th 2020
25
lol. you ain’t shit...
Jan 16th 2020
28

eclipsedInI
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1. "WoW"
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just


WoW

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Crisco
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5. "Wow indeed any suggestions "
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I'm obviously not invested emotionally like she is with me.
But feel like if I break up with this chick she could literally die from another heart attack.

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flipnile
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Wed Jan-15-20 09:54 AM

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2. "Damn, man."
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Crisco
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6. "Ive told her I think I'm causing her heart issues"
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Well the attacks I mean. She says it's not me that all couples go thru things. But man the timing has been spot on both times.

I declare it's over, Sick then Heart attack twice a year apart.

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Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
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Crisco
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3. "Suregery going well according to her mom text"
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3 more hours to go. This is nerve racking.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
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legsdiamond
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4. "Bruh... "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Crisco
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7. "Thinking Imma ghost her once she fully recovers"
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Or at least leaves the hospital. Then she has 2 to 3 months actual recovery.

Otherwise, I'm the type of dude that will ride that train (Financial benefits) till the wheels fall off. And I even have to admit that aint right.

At some point he gotta have morals right?
How selfish can a man be.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
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legsdiamond
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8. "Leave now. "
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Get some help bruh...

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Crisco
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10. "Help for what? I'm good"
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What are you tryna say? LOL

All my chicks cater to me.
That's how I gets down.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
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tariqhu
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13. "he's saying don't this shit get old?"
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how you stay finding yourself in these situations?

you getting text from her mom? that means you're in too deep to be playing these games.

this can't be good for your own health, physically or mentally, let alone hers.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Crisco
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15. "Yeah it does get old actually"
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Which is why I've been tryna drop her for over a year.
Guess I need to just do it and stop the excuses.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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legsdiamond
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20. "Right? Every so often my boy and I reminisce about "
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the trife days...

This dude talking about this shit in 2020.

Gotta be a better way.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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tariqhu
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21. "exactly."
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Wed Jan-15-20 03:15 PM by tariqhu

          

I wouldn't think it be fun anymore. if this was a chick posting, folks would hollering all types of insecure.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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FLUIDJ
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29. "Crisco; bringing you true Trife since since May 21st 2003 "
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but...
dude stay On Brand...don't know why y'all be trying to change him lol....

  

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Boogiedwn
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9. "Bruh"
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Anything but this

Yeah dead the relationship and don't look back

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Crisco
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11. "Indeed. A brother may need to settledown. This is a sign"
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>Anything but this
>
>Yeah dead the relationship and don't look back

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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eclipsedInI
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12. "I voted (Other) btw: POS of the Year Award"
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Crisco
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14. "Thanks for your input"
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smh

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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Crisco
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16. "She is out of surgery and doing great"
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Well as good as you can be after Open heart surgery.

I think she knows what's coming once she heals.
She kept reinforcing that we are good together
last night when I visited her in the hospital.

I kept giving her the sure we are good reply.
Which we all know means we aint good.

Ugh this sucks.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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17. "You've been low-key leadin her on smh"
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soulpsychodelicyde
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26. "Low-key?"
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18. "You're still doing this? smdh."
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I hope she pulls through. Seriously though, you should get a therapist so that you can stop hurting people.

  

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19. ""Y'all wonder why we hate men..." - Ms. Hill"
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22. "Think she´d cosign a 2021 whip?"
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legsdiamond
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23. "I had a neighbor who lost all muscle functions and couldn’t talk"
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It’s a rare ass disease and he had to relearn how to talk and walk.

Somehow he started dating a friend of my wife after his rehab.

She broke up with him and he had another relapse. She didn’t stick around for him to get well.

I don’t know if a person actually gets sick intentionally when they get dumped but my point is leave now.

Let her heal without your ass.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Crisco
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24. "Good Points. But I feel bad leaving her while she is healing"
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Even though I have no intention on continuing this relationship.

So maybe I should just stop contacting her now.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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legsdiamond
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27. "Best to do it while she has tons of support and nurses around"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Crisco
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25. "Suregery was a success. She is doing well"
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Now She needs to do well without me in her life.

I am no good for her health or her mental.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
My Datpiff Page
http://www.datpiff.com/JayfromJerz-and-DJ-Sat-One-The-Bee-Sides-mixtape.709908.html
http://

  

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28. "lol. you ain’t shit..."
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I hate the, “I tried to tell you” argument.

  

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