legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79545 posts
Mon Dec-30-19 06:27 AM
5. "shoot your shot or pass the rock" In response to Reply # 0
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
6. "I've got an SO, so I chat up women all the time without hollering" In response to Reply # 0 Mon Dec-30-19 12:23 PM by flipnile
Not every social interaction has to end in a holler. Fun when we got out, and my lady is talking with her friends. I start floating around randomly talking to women (and men, as well). Always interesting when the women get that "well, aren't you gonna holler?" body language and I gotta let them know I'm here with my girl and just chit-chatting.
Anyway, if you want to holler then holler. Fortune favors the bold.
7. "folks aren't "getting" that I'm suggesting sometimes a man" In response to Reply # 6
might kinda look favorably on a woman not "hinting" at the man "holla-ing" ("hollering"?) AND the man wants to see if the woman will just hand over the phone number.
Why folks acting like the man always has to do stuff?
You seen a woman do more than hint about what the man "should" do.
8. "Even the women that are head-over-heels for you probably won't holler" In response to Reply # 7
Just how it is. Just recently, I was at my college's homecoming talking to a few ladies I went to school with, and when I was leaving one came up to me and told me her friend really liked me and wanted get my phone number/holler. Thing is, I was talking to her for like an hour and she gave NO indication that she was interested like that.
On the flip side, the women that aggressively hollered at me were usually the types I wasn't interested in. One of life's ironies.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79545 posts
Mon Dec-30-19 01:19 PM
11. "only the most stubborn of male hunters don’t want a woman to holla" In response to Reply # 9 Mon Dec-30-19 01:21 PM by legsdiamond
I always appreciated a woman who made the first move.
Anything to crack the ice is cool beans.
Not sure what metoo has to do with any of that either.
IMO like with women, it’s all about how the person looks. If you are attracted it doesn’t bother you at all... if she’s ugly then it’s, “why me?”
I got accused of being gay because I turned down a woman who wanted to dance. Whatever makes her feel better about rejection is cool too.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
13. "I prefer to approach... not sure about what most men would prefer." In response to Reply # 9 Mon Dec-30-19 03:20 PM by flipnile
Always works out better that way (for me).
Seems like when women approach me, they don't realize that I'm a weirdo and are disappointed when they figure it out. When I approach, they know right away.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79545 posts
Mon Dec-30-19 01:08 PM
10. "just hand it over? This ain’t the movies bruh " In response to Reply # 7
Unless you that nigga or in college you are going to have to do “something” to get her to throw you then digits.
How many times has a woman have you her number?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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