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"TI is a horrible father to his daughter. "


          

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Expeditiously
Nov 06th 2019
1
garbage parenting.
Nov 06th 2019
2
How would he check his sons?
Nov 06th 2019
4
      you don't.
Nov 06th 2019
5
           Y’all make it sound like he performs the exam himself.
Nov 06th 2019
7
                no we don't lol.
Nov 06th 2019
12
Because he takes her to the Gyno?
Nov 06th 2019
3
He cares but
Nov 06th 2019
8
When that time comes.. she will find out if he trust her
Nov 06th 2019
13
Nah that time has passed
Nov 06th 2019
18
I mean the question is if it turns out it is broken what does he do?
Nov 06th 2019
14
      Bingo
Nov 06th 2019
16
      Gross.
Nov 06th 2019
36
      It's none of his damn business if it's broken
Nov 06th 2019
40
      He can have a serious sex talk without needing to know her hymen status.
Nov 06th 2019
42
      Who said that he isn't having serious talks before taking her to the Dr....
Nov 07th 2019
63
           In this case, it's the only information that matters.
Nov 07th 2019
64
      "broken"
Nov 06th 2019
45
      exactly. good gracious.
Nov 16th 2019
181
      I had an overprotective Dad
Nov 24th 2019
213
You can’t really be this stupid.
Nov 06th 2019
19
remember - I told y'all about these dudes
Nov 06th 2019
38
RE: Because he takes her to the Gyno?
Nov 07th 2019
57
I get it's intrusive but how does this make him a horrible father?
Nov 06th 2019
6
He’s involved.. and cares
Nov 06th 2019
10
What's so magical about 18?
Nov 15th 2019
158
that's why, intrusive.
Nov 06th 2019
11
I’m sure if she had an ulcer or cancer
Nov 06th 2019
15
cuz that's the same thing?
Nov 06th 2019
20
That's the problem with hot takes, why would anyone read it that way?
Nov 06th 2019
21
      I'm basing it on what I've read.
Nov 06th 2019
23
      “So it’s this one time we go, I think this might have been after her...
Nov 06th 2019
25
      remember. I told y'all about these motherfuckers
Nov 06th 2019
41
WOW.
Nov 06th 2019
26
by people who have literally any understanding of what a hymen is
Nov 06th 2019
37
i agree this alone doesn't make him a horrible father
Nov 07th 2019
58
Might as well follow her to the dentist and hand doctor too....
Nov 06th 2019
9
RE: Might as well follow her to the dentist and hand doctor too....
Nov 07th 2019
61
The way he worded it was a lot.....
Nov 06th 2019
17
THANK YOU.
Nov 06th 2019
27
CarFax LOL
Nov 06th 2019
31
Lil flip won
Nov 06th 2019
22
*post over*
Nov 06th 2019
24
does she not wanna be a virgin?
Nov 06th 2019
28
lets check her likes on twitter.
Nov 06th 2019
30
      welp.
Nov 06th 2019
33
On the other hand, she'll earn a solid bride price
Nov 06th 2019
29
what's the win?
Nov 06th 2019
32
      You told us for a reason.. lol
Nov 06th 2019
34
           haha
Nov 06th 2019
35
Him doing that is kinda weird to begin with,
Nov 06th 2019
39
he thinks it's commendable.
Nov 06th 2019
43
people are killing their daughters over this myth
Nov 06th 2019
44
"give me back **my** results expeditiously."
Nov 06th 2019
46
I clicked this post and thought, "I bet somehow some dudes defend this."
Nov 07th 2019
47
and you could guess who it is
Nov 07th 2019
48
I clicked this post and thought...
Nov 07th 2019
49
RE: I clicked this post and thought, "I bet somehow some dudes defend th...
Nov 07th 2019
51
know your audience.
Nov 07th 2019
54
^^^^^^^^^^
Nov 07th 2019
56
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Nov 08th 2019
114
This is fucked up nm
Nov 07th 2019
50
Fuck that walking malapropism
Nov 07th 2019
52
disgusting
Nov 07th 2019
53
and this does nothing towards prevention...
Nov 07th 2019
55
I don't care
Nov 07th 2019
59
smh nigga proud too
Nov 07th 2019
60
Anyone defending this can suck a BIG one. This is fucking horrible.
Nov 07th 2019
62
Kinda lame, kinda weird...but might be ALL CAP.
Nov 07th 2019
65
ehhh. it's kinda heavy on specifics
Nov 07th 2019
66
I am hoping its BS, because it is really intrusive.
Nov 07th 2019
72
      see my link above. it's being done in the US all the time
Nov 07th 2019
76
That was my thought.
Nov 07th 2019
67
it's funny that buddy doesn't know shit about shit.
Nov 07th 2019
68
^^The brain trust over hear says it must be true because it is specific
Nov 07th 2019
69
      TI: I actually do this. Buddy: I don't believe it.
Nov 07th 2019
70
           Real Talk: Are you saying you don't look like this dude?
Nov 07th 2019
71
                I can argue that you're an absolute waste of a taint
Nov 07th 2019
75
It is COMMON in Africa & Arab countries.
Nov 07th 2019
73
lol you're seriously doing this and sticking by it too lmao
Nov 14th 2019
142
Here’s HER likes on twitter
Nov 07th 2019
74
not to me...
Nov 07th 2019
77
wow...
Nov 08th 2019
78
Edit while it's still time
Nov 08th 2019
80
Truth hurts huh
Nov 08th 2019
82
      What truth ?
Nov 08th 2019
85
      Truth about Trin’s post.
Nov 08th 2019
87
      "checking your daughter's hymen is good, responsible parenting" - you
Nov 08th 2019
89
           Please show me where I said that
Nov 08th 2019
91
                checking your daughter's hymen isnt so bad when you think about it - you
Nov 08th 2019
96
                     more paraphrasing... do better homie.
Nov 08th 2019
98
                          But that's essentially what you said.
Nov 08th 2019
99
                          Night I said what I said
Nov 08th 2019
104
                               Negro*
Nov 08th 2019
113
                               Is it the worst thing a father could do to his kid? No - legsdiamond
Nov 10th 2019
124
                          paraphrasing doesnt make a conclusion false
Nov 10th 2019
123
yall never cease to amaze
Nov 08th 2019
86
it’s not that black and white...
Nov 08th 2019
100
      It *is* that black and white.
Nov 08th 2019
101
      It’s my experience tho lol
Nov 08th 2019
102
           What are you even talking about?
Nov 08th 2019
103
           my original response to this post?
Nov 08th 2019
105
                :-/
Nov 08th 2019
106
                     should’ve done that in the first place lol
Nov 08th 2019
107
                          Don't poke the bear, mama.
Nov 08th 2019
111
                               no disrespect...
Nov 08th 2019
117
                                    it's disgusting to anyone with the good sense the Lord gave them
Nov 10th 2019
126
           Tell’em Trin
Nov 08th 2019
112
      you're dumb as shit
Nov 08th 2019
108
      I’ve dropped two links in this thread on how she feels
Nov 08th 2019
110
      let's try this again, see if you can answer this time
Nov 10th 2019
125
there are innumerable other ways
Nov 08th 2019
109
that's some real faulty & stereotypical logic you're using there
Nov 12th 2019
129
      This has been my experience Sis...
Nov 12th 2019
130
           you don't need to still think like a 14 year old
Nov 12th 2019
131
           Ouch
Nov 12th 2019
133
           are you even aware of what this post is about?
Nov 12th 2019
134
           TI being a horrible father...
Nov 12th 2019
136
                Ugh.
Nov 13th 2019
139
                if you need it to be explained, there's no helping you see it
Nov 15th 2019
149
           the idea that virginity is precious is steeped in patriarchy
Nov 15th 2019
151
sick world that we live in
Nov 08th 2019
79
and Lawrence Fishbourne is great dad to his daughter
Nov 08th 2019
81
there's no middle
Nov 08th 2019
83
Why get nuanced now though?
Nov 08th 2019
88
      RE: Why get nuanced now though?
Nov 08th 2019
90
           RE: Why get nuanced now though?
Nov 08th 2019
93
                I don't think he a terrible parent overall.
Nov 08th 2019
97
                     RE: I don't think he a terrible parent overall.
Nov 12th 2019
128
                          so we're debating slightly different points.
Nov 13th 2019
140
what ?
Nov 08th 2019
84
      If she is 18 she doesn’t have to give him the info
Nov 08th 2019
92
           True
Nov 08th 2019
95
           there is no info to give.
Nov 08th 2019
115
y'all are fucking sick defending this shit
Nov 08th 2019
94
via Will Smith
Nov 08th 2019
116
Ok. Are you prepared to say Will Smith is a better dad than T.I.?
Nov 08th 2019
118
      Wasn’t she laid up in a bed with an old white dude when she was 14
Nov 09th 2019
119
      RE: Ok. Are you prepared to say Will Smith is a better dad than T.I.?
Nov 13th 2019
137
want to blame Tiny for not shutting this down but
Nov 09th 2019
120
okp goddammit
Nov 10th 2019
121
Something told me not to click this and I should have listened nm
Nov 10th 2019
122
I wish I wasn't the weird introverted type and joined in the OKP RE days
Nov 12th 2019
127
no. none of these people show up for shit, first off
Nov 12th 2019
132
      Lmao. Look at the tough guy
Nov 13th 2019
138
           how many OKP-related events have you attended?..
Nov 13th 2019
141
           I lived in Philly, I was just on the other side of OKP and didn’t know...
Nov 14th 2019
143
                once again, you missed the point...
Nov 14th 2019
144
                K. Glad y’all met.
Nov 14th 2019
145
                     Like I said... lmao.
Nov 15th 2019
150
                The jawn on 19th? Can't remember then name. Used to be all up in there.
Nov 14th 2019
146
                     Yup. That joint was off the hook
Nov 14th 2019
147
                     Parc
Nov 19th 2019
189
           who's tough? there's a clear line
Nov 14th 2019
148
           Co-sign
Nov 15th 2019
172
           this.
Nov 15th 2019
173
           I am pretty sure I have met RJCC at least once, if not twice.
Nov 15th 2019
171
                if someone's met me and thinks I ain't shit then it's whatever
Nov 15th 2019
175
                     RE: if someone's met me and thinks I ain't shit then it's whatever
Nov 15th 2019
177
                          ain’t no one stalking dude, if he ignored me it would be a glorious da...
Nov 19th 2019
191
                               Ignore him first? Or back, eitehr way it is CORNY
Nov 19th 2019
192
                                    What’s corny is being dudes hype man
Nov 19th 2019
193
                                         Link fight?
Nov 23rd 2019
206
without fail, the same people are always loud and wrong on here
Nov 12th 2019
135
Pornhub Offered T.I.'s Daughter $1MM to Lose Virginity on Camera
Nov 15th 2019
152
I mean if we going there doesn't make the case for the value of virginit...
Nov 15th 2019
153
Damn
Nov 15th 2019
155
The horrible point is trying to make the Porn offer sound like a good th...
Nov 15th 2019
157
      If that's what she is saying with her post
Nov 15th 2019
159
           the point is HE IS A TERRIBLE PARENT
Nov 15th 2019
161
                True but
Nov 15th 2019
163
                look at you...
Nov 15th 2019
164
                It’s her way or it’s fucked the fuck up!!!!
Nov 15th 2019
166
                Oh, I thought you were pro porno and saw this as a good thing.
Nov 15th 2019
165
                I'm pro porn and this is a TERRIBLE THING.
Nov 15th 2019
169
                The only public f**kery is...
Nov 17th 2019
185
It doesn't make the case that it belongs to TI to police/verify
Nov 15th 2019
156
yeah let's totally ignore the daughter's public embarrassment
Nov 15th 2019
160
ugh
Nov 15th 2019
154
I can’t find any place that substantiates the came by that site.
Nov 15th 2019
162
that's a fake site. pornhub is absolute shit, but they don't do that.
Nov 15th 2019
168
      ok thanks. even the existence of this online is sad for her
Nov 15th 2019
170
This is all part of being a public figure.
Nov 15th 2019
167
you're updated on the hymen status of lots of celebrity kids, word.
Nov 15th 2019
174
I laughed out loud
Nov 15th 2019
178
you have daughters
Nov 16th 2019
180
My daughters are MY business
Nov 19th 2019
190
      so we're at one of two conclusions
Nov 20th 2019
195
           Do I ask you about your fragile mental health?
Nov 20th 2019
196
                feel free to when it's relevant
Nov 20th 2019
201
dude. nobody can even see that shit it's a private account.
Nov 15th 2019
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      Wtf are you you talking about?
Nov 16th 2019
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           i think there's a deleted reply
Nov 16th 2019
183
                Lmao. I thought dude lost his mind
Nov 16th 2019
184
                     it was the same cam post that's already locked
Nov 17th 2019
186
                          That post got LOCKED with a quickness
Nov 18th 2019
187
                               the Charlize Theron 3 year old identifying?
Nov 19th 2019
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                                    Yep that one but it was linked to a pic of the kid
Nov 20th 2019
198
                                         Ok
Nov 21st 2019
202
                                         no one said you were inappropriate
Nov 21st 2019
203
                                         Ha, I know, and as the self proclaimed not-a-loser that you are
Nov 23rd 2019
205
                                              whoa. you said something about my mom
Nov 23rd 2019
210
                                                   I apologize if your feelings are hurt.
Nov 23rd 2019
211
                                                        I don't know what that's supposed to do
Nov 27th 2019
215
                                         Wait a white celebrity has a TRANSKID?
Nov 23rd 2019
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                                              the issue is the kid is Black and identified at 3
Nov 23rd 2019
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                                                   A white Hollywood star has a BLACK (adopted I assume)
Nov 23rd 2019
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                                         Wait what? WTF IS GOING ON
Nov 23rd 2019
207
is T.I. aware that u can have sex without vaginal intercourse?
Nov 19th 2019
194
T.I. to talk about Daughter on Jada Pinkett Smith's Red Table Talk
Nov 20th 2019
197
he should really stop talking about it.
Nov 20th 2019
199
True
Nov 20th 2019
200
damn. I’m not on Facebook...
Nov 21st 2019
204
      there's nothing to address without an apology
Nov 24th 2019
214
I didn't see Red Table Talk, but word is he apologized
Nov 27th 2019
216
That’s a falsity. He apologized to his daughter
Nov 27th 2019
217
word?
Nov 27th 2019
218
His apology
Nov 28th 2019
220
      I apologize for being a bad father when she was 15 or 16 - T.I.
Nov 28th 2019
222
      I’m tripping that some thought he was in the room...
Nov 28th 2019
224
           which isn't at all what the issue is
Nov 29th 2019
229
                let’s put it to rest...
Nov 29th 2019
231
                LMAO. Right?!
Nov 29th 2019
233
"a public apology is not admitting wrongdoing" - legsdiamond
Nov 28th 2019
219
look at this fuckstick
Nov 29th 2019
230
he apologized for making it public.
Nov 28th 2019
223
      Exactly. Atru out here running victory laps and shit.
Nov 29th 2019
226
           y'all: he *only* embarrassed his daughter worldwide
Nov 29th 2019
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           I wasn't giving him props.
Nov 29th 2019
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           never said you were giving him props
Nov 29th 2019
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           "victory laps" implies there was a debate or a competition
Nov 30th 2019
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Article
Nov 28th 2019
221
shouldnt have went on RTT
Nov 28th 2019
225
her mom was like “stfu you narcissist fuck” lol
Nov 29th 2019
227
Let’s close out this year hearing from Lord Yeezus of Coonhaven
Dec 31st 2019
236
direct video link:
Dec 31st 2019
237
      is he performing at a planet fitness?
Dec 31st 2019
238
Pretty sad really
Jun 16th 2020
239
They still stretching this story out in the show?
Jun 17th 2020
240
      "They" would be the owner of the hymen on question.
Jun 17th 2020
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      So this is a yes?
Jun 18th 2020
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           No, it's you still having a problem with her speaking on it
Jun 18th 2020
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                Nope. Never said I had a problem with it
Jun 18th 2020
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                     One in the same
Jun 18th 2020
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                          Nope.. nice try tho.
Jun 18th 2020
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      I wouldn't call it stretching out so much.
Jun 18th 2020
248
Damn we getting Genderwarz greatest hits this week
Jun 17th 2020
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[Twitter thread] 19 victims have come out with drug/sexual abuse stories
Jan 29th 2021
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I was wondering what happened to that other post
Jan 29th 2021
250
maybe bizarro interest in your daughter's hymen isn't a sign of well-bei...
Jan 29th 2021
251
lol right
Jan 29th 2021
252
anonymous instagram dm's?
Jan 30th 2021
253
      i tried to watch that video and lasted 30 seconds
Jan 30th 2021
254

Lurkmode
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1. "Expeditiously"
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He's wasting his time.

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2. "garbage parenting."
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I'm sure he's not checking his sons.

and what happens if doc says the hymen is not there? maybe she rode a bike or something.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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4. "How would he check his sons? "
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and what if Tiny checks the sons?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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5. "you don't."
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just like you don't check for that on your girls.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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7. "Y’all make it sound like he performs the exam himself. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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12. "no we don't lol."
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just his reasoning for it is stupid.

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3. "Because he takes her to the Gyno? "
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Sounds like he cares

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8. "He cares but"
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does he trust her ? What if it is a bike or something else that breaks it or it doesn't break and she is having sex.

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13. "When that time comes.. she will find out if he trust her"
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18. "Nah that time has passed"
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He wouldn't go to the Doc if he trust her.

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14. "I mean the question is if it turns out it is broken what does he do?"
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If he beats her, shames her and excommunicates her from the family. He is a terrible father.

If he has serious talks to her about sex or does any of the other things parents do when they think their kid might be having sex, then he probably is a regular dad.

Half these folks on twitter chirping about it wish they had an overprotective dad.

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16. "Bingo"
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36. "Gross."
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40. "It's none of his damn business if it's broken"
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42. "He can have a serious sex talk without needing to know her hymen status."
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This notion that he MUST know what her insides are looking like before having that safe sex talk is completely bullshit and it’s weird that you’re framing it like that.

  

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63. "Who said that he isn't having serious talks before taking her to the Dr...."
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There is this assumption that the only information we have is the only information there is.


>This notion that he MUST know what her insides are looking
>like before having that safe sex talk is completely bullshit
>and it’s weird that you’re framing it like that.


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64. "In this case, it's the only information that matters."
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I don't care if he has serious heart-to-heart talks with her before, during, and after, his 'hymen checks' are fucking disgusting.

Anyone who thinks otherwise is equally disgusting.

  

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45. ""broken""
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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181. "exactly. good gracious."
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these folks won't learn tho.

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213. "I had an overprotective Dad"
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He talked to me about sex while still making sure I had ownership over my own body and sexual choices. My Dad was Muslim so premarital sex was a huge no no, but he still had the capacity not to treat me like a piece of property. Y’all just really want to be excused for your inherent misogyny and it’s really disgusting.

  

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19. "You can’t really be this stupid. "
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You really think people are up in arms simply because he took her to a gyno?

You can’t be that stupid to not realize it isn’t about taking her to the gyno, it’s that he’s getting yearly updates on her hymen.

  

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38. "remember - I told y'all about these dudes"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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57. "RE: Because he takes her to the Gyno? "
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framing it like this either shows you haven't actually paid attention to what was actually said by TI and her reaction to it or just willfully ignore all of that

it's not a simple concern

he's literally "concerned" about pussyfax

you can be concerned without being intrusive and reinforcing an obvious double standard

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6. "I get it's intrusive but how does this make him a horrible father?"
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I mean I want to hear what the ultimate negative impact will be on this girl?

Curious to hear how yall were raised better.


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10. "He’s involved.. and cares"
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and that’s a no no.

Gotta let these kids get it in and just hope they talk to you because that’s who progressive people operate.

I damn sure will try everything I can to make sure my kids wait until they are 18.

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158. "What's so magical about 18? "
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>and that’s a no no.
>
>Gotta let these kids get it in and just hope they talk to you
>because that’s who progressive people operate.
>
>I damn sure will try everything I can to make sure my kids
>wait until they are 18.

What knowledge will they have on their 6,575th day outside that they didn't have on their 6,574th?

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11. "that's why, intrusive."
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we can't know how this affects her. and she'll prolly do like most of us who said we got spanked and turned out ok.

the way this reads is that he goes specifically for that reason. doesn't really indicate he's concerned with much else.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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15. "I’m sure if she had an ulcer or cancer "
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he would be concerned.

Y’all reaching.

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20. "cuz that's the same thing?"
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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21. "That's the problem with hot takes, why would anyone read it that way?"
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>the way this reads is that he goes specifically for that
>reason. doesn't really indicate he's concerned with much else.


I don't even watch any of his reality shows but I can easily guess that's not the only thing he is concerned with.

Folks sharing this clip with their commentary probably didn't even hear the whole interview.

I am growing tired of everyone having an opinion about everything.



>
>
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23. "I'm basing it on what I've read. "
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he says he specifically asks about the hymen. again, for what? it doesn't prove or disprove anything.

I would imagine he's concerned about other stuff as well, but that's not how it reads since he focused on that aspect. nothing wrong with going to the docs with your kids. we should all be doing that, but I'm not asking my doc to share with me if my daughter's hymen is there.

from what I've read, there is no test that can determine if a female has been sexually active. so it would have to come from conversations anyway. so checking for virginity is a waste of time and likely somewhat humiliating to the child.



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25. "“So it’s this one time we go, I think this might have been after her..."
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“So it’s this one time we go, I think this might have been after her 16th birthday. This is what we do. Right after the birthday we celebrate,” he said. “Usually like the day after the party she’s enjoying her gifts. I put a sticky note on the door: ‘Gyno. Tomorrow. 9:30.’ So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism. He’s like, ‘You know sir, I have to, in order to share information’ — I’m like, ‘Deyjah they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you would not want me to know? See doc? No problem.’ And so then they come and say, ‘Well I just want you to know that there are other ways besides sex that the hymen can be broken like bike riding, athletics, horseback riding and just other forms of athletic physical activity.’ So I say, ‘Look doc, she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bike, she don’t play no sports. Just check the hymen please and give me back my results expeditiously.'”

Each year, the results have been to his liking.

“I will say as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

She’s still a virgin, which works for the rapper because that way, it sounds like he thinks she will have a hard time getting guys to stick around.

“They’re no fun. Who wants a virgin?” he asked. “Like really? All that work.”


https://madamenoire.com/1111720/ti-daughter/

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41. "remember. I told y'all about these motherfuckers"
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"Folks sharing this clip with their commentary probably didn't even hear the whole interview." -- someone who didn't look at the whole interview

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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26. "WOW."
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37. "by people who have literally any understanding of what a hymen is"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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58. "i agree this alone doesn't make him a horrible father"
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but it's not exactly good father activity

sometimes it's ok to recognize hyperbole for what it is

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9. "Might as well follow her to the dentist and hand doctor too...."
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*winks*
______________________________________________________________________________

"To Each His Reach"

but.....

Fuck aliens.

  

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61. "RE: Might as well follow her to the dentist and hand doctor too...."
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HAHAHAHA

  

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17. "The way he worded it was a lot....."
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If he was simply saying he takes her to the gyno then whatever.

It's the "lemme get a yearly CarFax on this hymen tho" that's kinda wild.

  

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27. "THANK YOU."
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>If he was simply saying he takes her to the gyno then
>whatever.
>
>It's the "lemme get a yearly CarFax on this hymen tho" that's
>kinda wild.

We actually gotta explain this?

  

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31. "CarFax LOL"
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>It's the "lemme get a yearly CarFax on this hymen tho" that's
>kinda wild.

  

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22. "Lil flip won"
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24. "*post over*"
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28. "does she not wanna be a virgin?"
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like is he forcing chastity on his daughter like some feudal lord? lol.

what if she wants to be a virgin and he is just making sure she stays committed?

  

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30. "lets check her likes on twitter. "
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https://imgur.com/a/pvViq3E

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33. "welp. "
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29. "On the other hand, she'll earn a solid bride price"
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<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->
<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->

  

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32. "what's the win?"
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do people actually still care about marrying virgins?

I happened into it, but I didn't even believe her when she told me lol. but I also wouldn't have cared if she wasn't. and definitely didn't go seeking it.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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34. "You told us for a reason.. lol"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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35. "haha"
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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39. "Him doing that is kinda weird to begin with, "
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but why would you TELL people you do that!??!

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43. "he thinks it's commendable."
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why hide it?

AND THERE ARE MOTHERFUCKERS WHO POST HERE WHO AGREE WITH HIM

they might not be good people.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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44. "people are killing their daughters over this myth"
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https://www.marieclaire.com/health-fitness/a29488743/virginity-testing-america-doctors/


they're forcing their daughters to keep silent about sexual assault

they're encouraging their daughters to keep secrets about their lives


and some people in this thread are calling it "good parenting"



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46. ""give me back **my** results expeditiously.""
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Not *the* or *her* results?

  

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47. "I clicked this post and thought, "I bet somehow some dudes defend this.""
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Depressing how predictable this board can be.

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48. "and you could guess who it is"
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49. "I clicked this post and thought..."
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>Depressing how predictable this board can be.

I bet guys are talking about dudes who ARE defending this.

How pathetic are these folks really????

  

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51. "RE: I clicked this post and thought, "I bet somehow some dudes defend th..."
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>Depressing how predictable this board can be.

Make your own world

  

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54. "know your audience."
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*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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56. "^^^^^^^^^^"
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Co-sign

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114. "^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^"
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_____________________
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50. "This is fucked up nm"
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52. "Fuck that walking malapropism "
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53. "disgusting "
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55. "and this does nothing towards prevention... "
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This seems to be more about her not getting pregnant than having sex but even then, its all after the fact!!!

he is either uncomfortable having an honest conversation about sex with his daughter or just never learned from his misogynistic ways


either way, everything about this is just wrong.

"Fuck this shit man"

  

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59. "I don't care"
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but I find the outrage to be fake.

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60. "smh nigga proud too"
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62. "Anyone defending this can suck a BIG one. This is fucking horrible. "
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Not to mention most girls Hymens break before loosing their virginity. Fuck him.

'Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent. ~Victor Hugo'

  

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65. "Kinda lame, kinda weird...but might be ALL CAP. "
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Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg
http://www.Tupreme.com

  

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66. "ehhh. it's kinda heavy on specifics"
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whether or not the doctor is unethical enough to actually do the examination is questionable, but he thinks it's real

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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72. "I am hoping its BS, because it is really intrusive."
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That is some shit a Somali grandma does, not a gangsta rapper from ATL.


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76. "see my link above. it's being done in the US all the time"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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67. "That was my thought. "
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Story doesn't remotely sound true and sounds like the exageration a parent would say to make a point but yeah he got people talking so he won.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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68. "it's funny that buddy doesn't know shit about shit."
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There was an article literally two days ago about how parents actually do this but Buddy didn't read it because Buddy can't read.

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69. "^^The brain trust over hear says it must be true because it is specific"
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and because an article says some people actually do this.

SMH.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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70. "TI: I actually do this. Buddy: I don't believe it."
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Gynecologists: People actually do this


Buddy: I definitely know better.

there's not a more worthless shitnozzle in the next three counties than buddy.


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71. "Real Talk: Are you saying you don't look like this dude?"
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https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DRSWFfhX4AAHJe8?format=jpg&name=small

You can argue with a certainity that you know what TI did based on him saying it, I can not.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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75. "I can argue that you're an absolute waste of a taint"
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73. "It is COMMON in Africa & Arab countries."
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Like that shit happens a lot, but its usually via your grandma. Like your hip-hop azz dad aint doing virginity checks, its not proper here.


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MiracleRic
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142. "lol you're seriously doing this and sticking by it too lmao"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

  

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74. "Here’s HER likes on twitter "
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https://imgur.com/a/pvViq3E

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77. "not to me..."
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I might not have been a young mother had my daddy did the same thing.





  

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78. "wow..."
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I'm sure there are plenty of women that weren't young mothers whose parents also didn't verify their hymen.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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80. "Edit while it's still time"
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Too late

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82. "Truth hurts huh"
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I would rather a parent be overprotective and in a child’s life than out of it.

She won’t be in his house forever.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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85. "What truth ?"
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That link in 44 is brutal

>I would rather a parent be overprotective and in a child’s
>life than out of it.
>
>She won’t be in his house forever.

What TI is doing goes beyond overprotective.

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87. "Truth about Trin’s post. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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89. ""checking your daughter's hymen is good, responsible parenting" - you"
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91. "Please show me where I said that"
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it’s better than being absent or not being involved.

Is it overbearing? Definitely..

Is it the worst thing in the world a father could do to his kid? Nope



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96. "checking your daughter's hymen isnt so bad when you think about it - you"
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98. "more paraphrasing... do better homie. "
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99. "But that's essentially what you said. "
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Your position is that it ain't 'that bad,' no?

  

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104. "Night I said what I said"
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and that wasn’t what I said

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113. "Negro* "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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124. "Is it the worst thing a father could do to his kid? No - legsdiamond"
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atruhead
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123. "paraphrasing doesnt make a conclusion false"
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86. "yall never cease to amaze"
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let's say in this alternate reality your father checks your hymen annually

you think living in this type of fear would lead to healthy relationships with men, let alone a healthy sense of agency as a woman?

  

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100. "it’s not that black and white..."
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I hate that you niggas are so quick to jump lol

since none of us know how she feels about it, who are any of you to judge what kind of father he is?

If I would be ok with my father going to the dr with me, why would you judge me?







  

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soulpsychodelicyde
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101. "It *is* that black and white."
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>I hate that you niggas are so quick to jump lol
>
>since none of us know how she feels about it, who are any of
>you to judge what kind of father he is?
>

I don't give a fuck how she *feels* about it, quite frankly. The idea that some man -- worse, her father -- is checking her hymen to police her body is horrifying. That yall are normalizing and justifying this shit is not surprising, but no less disgusting.

>If I would be ok with my father going to the dr with me, why
>would you judge me?

And reducing this to him simply 'going to the doctor with him' is ridiculous and obtuse.
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Trinity444
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102. "It’s my experience tho lol"
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how you feel about it is moot and it’s sloppy of you to judge without having all the facts.

  

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103. "What are you even talking about?"
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I said nothing about you or your experience.

  

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105. "my original response to this post?"
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to which I stated, “not to me”....TI being a horrible father.

  

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106. ":-/"
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I'm going to be nice and reserve comment. Enjoy your weekend.

  

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Trinity444
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107. "should’ve done that in the first place lol"
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or at least been open to reading why I felt this way


  

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111. "Don't poke the bear, mama."
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I will comment as I see fit. With that, let me be clear, there is NO acceptable rationale for this behavior. You do not have a justifiable or healthy or logical rationale for it, and neither does anyone else.

The idea is disgusting and so is anyone that thinks it is anything but.

'tis all.

  

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117. "no disrespect..."
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I didn’t care for your approach. Like, you showed no interest in why I may feel the way I do. so many ways this topic could have gone; yet, y’all wanna talk about how disgusting it is...to you!

It’s all good

  

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126. "it's disgusting to anyone with the good sense the Lord gave them"
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>I didn’t care for your approach. Like, you showed no
>interest in why I may feel the way I do. so many ways this
>topic could have gone; yet, y’all wanna talk about how
>disgusting it is...to you!
>
>It’s all good

  

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112. "Tell’em Trin"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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108. "you're dumb as shit"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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110. "I’ve dropped two links in this thread on how she feels"
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Here’s it for a third time.

https://imgur.com/a/pvViq3E

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125. "let's try this again, see if you can answer this time"
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>let's say in this alternate reality your father checks your
>hymen annually

a scenario you said you wished would have happened


>you think living in this type of fear would lead to healthy
>relationships with men

a scenario where a father takes extreme measures to make sure his teenage daughter isn't having sex, do you think this would lead to a healthy love life for her?


let alone a healthy sense of agency as
>a woman?

do you think an 18 year old girl entering adulthood should have the only say over the decisions she makes regarding sex?

  

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109. "there are innumerable other ways"
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>I might not have been a young mother had my daddy did the
>same thing.

a father can help prevent teen pregnancy without intruding on the bodily autonomy of their daughter. The way Tip is going about it is sick.

  

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129. "that's some real faulty & stereotypical logic you're using there"
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you're assuming that girls with strict/overbearing fathers mostly don't have kids young and that girls with absent or lenient fathers do...

you're also assuming that teenage you wouldn't have rebelled against such a strict father

since you can't go back in time to test your theory, that's just a weird thing to say...but ok

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130. "This has been my experience Sis..."
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however it comes across to you, you have to deal with

but for me, not have anyone to tell me how precious virginity is and having a child at 14, what TI is doing with his daughter is meaningful...to me

I understand how some may find it intrusive tho

just saying...

  

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131. "you don't need to still think like a 14 year old"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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133. "Ouch"
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damn

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134. "are you even aware of what this post is about?"
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you're conflating "I wish my dad paid more attention" and "I wish my dad took me to the doctor to make sure my hymen was still intact"

don't say you're not, because if you're not then you're not aware of what this post is about

  

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136. "TI being a horrible father..."
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yet, you (and others) offered up only judgmental views rather than stating what makes him a horrible father. atruhead, what makes him a horrible father?

or are you in here contributing to the divide...




  

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139. "Ugh."
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You out here tryna 'all lives matter' this up. Please stop. There are not 'good people on both sides' of this shit -- there is no 'other side.' WTF?

  

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149. "if you need it to be explained, there's no helping you see it"
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151. "the idea that virginity is precious is steeped in patriarchy"
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and TI is a bad father because

-policing her private body that SHE owns
-bullying her into sharing her medical information with him
-raising her to think that he's entitled to do the above
-publicly violating her privacy, thereby making her vulnerable to online attacks and harrassment

  

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79. "sick world that we live in"
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81. "and Lawrence Fishbourne is great dad to his daughter"
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rather have a father be in my business than a father who ignores me.

take a message

  

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83. "there's no middle"
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between fishburn and ti?

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88. "Why get nuanced now though?"
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If we are judging TI a terrible parent based on him doing this, I am curious if people think TI is a better or worst parent than:

1. The father of a girl who ends up a stripper?
2. The father of a girl who ends up pregnant at 16?
3. The father who leaves the family when the girl is young?

I should be clear, I think going to your daughters doctor to confirm her hymen is unbroken is extra, over the top and embarassing and crass to talk about on the radio, but I don't think this makes him a terrible father...if he actually does it.

I've known women who've had overprotective dads and dads who don't give AF. Which girls do you think generally grow up with more confidence, more stable and stay away from trash dudes?


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90. "RE: Why get nuanced now though?"
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>If we are judging TI a terrible parent based on him doing
>this, I am curious if people think TI is a better or worst
>parent than:
>
>1. The father of a girl who ends up a stripper?
>2. The father of a girl who ends up pregnant at 16?
>3. The father who leaves the family when the girl is young?

the first 2 can happen even with the best parenting. the last one would fall into terrible parenting in my book. choosing to leave your kids doesn't normally help them.
>
>I should be clear, I think going to your daughters doctor to
>confirm her hymen is unbroken is extra, over the top and
>embarassing and crass to talk about on the radio, but I don't
>think this makes him a terrible father...if he actually does
>it.

So what are you defending? I don't get it. you wouldn't do this with yours?
>
>I've known women who've had overprotective dads and dads who
>don't give AF. Which girls do you think generally grow up
>with more confidence, more stable and stay away from trash
>dudes?

this is way more than overprotection. this is an invasion of her privacy, a lack of trust for her to make good decisions, controlling, and a complete waste of his time. hymen presence doesn't indicate lack of sex. is he also checking for non-vaginal sex acts. probably not.
>
>
>**********
>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
>
>"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

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93. "RE: Why get nuanced now though?"
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>>If we are judging TI a terrible parent based on him doing
>>this, I am curious if people think TI is a better or worst
>>parent than:
>>
>>1. The father of a girl who ends up a stripper?
>>2. The father of a girl who ends up pregnant at 16?
>>3. The father who leaves the family when the girl is young?
>
>the first 2 can happen even with the best parenting. the last
>one would fall into terrible parenting in my book. choosing to
>leave your kids doesn't normally help them.


My point is this alone doesn't make TI a terrible parent. Like you point out a girl can have a kid or end up a stripper regardless of the parenting, I think the same can apply here.


>>
>>I should be clear, I think going to your daughters doctor to
>>confirm her hymen is unbroken is extra, over the top and
>>embarassing and crass to talk about on the radio, but I
>don't
>>think this makes him a terrible father...if he actually does
>>it.
>
>So what are you defending? I don't get it. you wouldn't do
>this with yours?

I am pushing back on the idea this makes him a terrible father. No I doubt I would do this if I had a daughter. I will be all up in the sex life of my boys as long as they are under my roof.


>>
>>I've known women who've had overprotective dads and dads who
>>don't give AF. Which girls do you think generally grow up
>>with more confidence, more stable and stay away from trash
>>dudes?
>
>this is way more than overprotection. this is an invasion of
>her privacy, a lack of trust for her to make good decisions,
>controlling, and a complete waste of his time. hymen presence
>doesn't indicate lack of sex. is he also checking for
>non-vaginal sex acts. probably not.

I am just starting to figure out you probably don't have kids. Kids have been complaining about the invasion of privacy, lack of trust and controlling since the beginning of time. It doesn't make a parent doing so a terrible parent.

As far as waste of time I disagree. While I agree its not a scientific way to determine if your kid is having sex it is a highly symbolic act that sends a strong message to your child.

When I was younger and even living with my with (then girlfriend) at the time whenever we would visit my parents my parents had a rule we had to sleep in different bedrooms. It was purely symbolic and you could call a waste of time considering we lived together, but it did send a strong message to us.


>>
>>
>>**********
>>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
>>
>>"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
>


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97. "I don't think he a terrible parent overall."
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but this doesn't indicate that he's great at it either. at least when it comes to sex and his daughters.

>>>If we are judging TI a terrible parent based on him doing
>>>this, I am curious if people think TI is a better or worst
>>>parent than:
>>>
>>>1. The father of a girl who ends up a stripper?
>>>2. The father of a girl who ends up pregnant at 16?
>>>3. The father who leaves the family when the girl is
>young?
>>
>>the first 2 can happen even with the best parenting. the
>last
>>one would fall into terrible parenting in my book. choosing
>to
>>leave your kids doesn't normally help them.
>
>
>My point is this alone doesn't make TI a terrible parent.
>Like you point out a girl can have a kid or end up a stripper
>regardless of the parenting, I think the same can apply here.
>
>
This particular subject is garbage parenting tho. I don't know what else he's done as a parent.
>
>>>
>>>I should be clear, I think going to your daughters doctor
>to
>>>confirm her hymen is unbroken is extra, over the top and
>>>embarassing and crass to talk about on the radio, but I
>>don't
>>>think this makes him a terrible father...if he actually
>does
>>>it.
>>
>>So what are you defending? I don't get it. you wouldn't do
>>this with yours?
>
>I am pushing back on the idea this makes him a terrible
>father. No I doubt I would do this if I had a daughter. I
>will be all up in the sex life of my boys as long as they are
>under my roof.

so you're not going to do this but think its ok that does? got it.
>
>
>>>
>>>I've known women who've had overprotective dads and dads
>who
>>>don't give AF. Which girls do you think generally grow up
>>>with more confidence, more stable and stay away from trash
>>>dudes?
>>
>>this is way more than overprotection. this is an invasion of
>>her privacy, a lack of trust for her to make good decisions,
>>controlling, and a complete waste of his time. hymen
>presence
>>doesn't indicate lack of sex. is he also checking for
>>non-vaginal sex acts. probably not.
>
>I am just starting to figure out you probably don't have kids.
> Kids have been complaining about the invasion of privacy,
>lack of trust and controlling since the beginning of time. It
>doesn't make a parent doing so a terrible parent.

I've got 2. thank you. including a 15yr old daughter. there are levels to privacy as they get older. she's got more space for privacy than my 10yr old son. she's shown that she's good at making decisions. we talk with her frequently about everything. she's comfortable to come ask us questions, without prompting from us. we look through her phone, the computers, look through the room. that stuff happens less frequently now than it did when when was younger. we don't need to check her physically like he's having the docs do.

>
>As far as waste of time I disagree. While I agree its not a
>scientific way to determine if your kid is having sex it is a
>highly symbolic act that sends a strong message to your child.

the symbols are all wrong. the symbols are she doesn't control her own body and he can't trust her.
>
>
>When I was younger and even living with my with (then
>girlfriend) at the time whenever we would visit my parents my
>parents had a rule we had to sleep in different bedrooms. It
>was purely symbolic and you could call a waste of time
>considering we lived together, but it did send a strong
>message to us.

that's not the same thing. you were visting with someone that your parents knew you had sex with. their message was no sex in our house. easy to understand. Ultimately, I do think its silly for grown folks to have to sleep separately, but that's their house.

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128. "RE: I don't think he a terrible parent overall."
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I mistyped and meant to say I wouldn't do this to my daughter. Or better yet I doubt I would do this to my daughter.

Again, I think it's crude and extra and especially to talk about it in public...if he actually does it, but I am not convinced this makes him a terrible parent.

I don't know the kid or their dynamic and I've grown super annoyed with how the internet looks into other people's lives and judges what may work for them.

I guess part of me keeps returning to the idea that within our community we don't have a problem with black dads being too involved with their children lives but quite the opposite. I guess I am giving dude points for giving a shit when so many dads don't. I know it's a low bar but I am dealing with this every day within my own family tree.


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140. "so we're debating slightly different points."
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>I mistyped and meant to say I wouldn't do this to my
>daughter. Or better yet I doubt I would do this to my
>daughter.
>
>Again, I think it's crude and extra and especially to talk
>about it in public...if he actually does it, but I am not
>convinced this makes him a terrible parent.

I can't understand how anyone thinks this is good parenting. I never want to be that much in her business. I'm in her biz cuz she's my child, but not specifically because she's my daughter. same with my son. I'm trying to not have sexism in my house. not always successful, but I'm mindful of it and make sure I listen to the two ladies that are there. also so my son can move forward with good examples of how to treat people.

>
>I don't know the kid or their dynamic and I've grown super
>annoyed with how the internet looks into other people's lives
>and judges what may work for them.

this is no diff than anything else. we all do this, no matter the source. we do it with the internet, news, stories folks have told us. we never know the full story unless we're actually living it. and we make judgements based on limited information. so all we have are his own words. the words that came from his mouth saying that he does this. this may not make him a bad parent overall, but it doesn't help the argument that he is.

>
>I guess part of me keeps returning to the idea that within our
>community we don't have a problem with black dads being too
>involved with their children lives but quite the opposite. I
>guess I am giving dude points for giving a shit when so many
>dads don't. I know it's a low bar but I am dealing with this
>every day within my own family tree.

I completely understand this. we all have knuckle head men folk around who are absent from the kids. hell, my dad was one of these.

however, I can't give props just for being there. being there and doing the right things counts more. honesty, sometimes its better for the dad not to be there if he's a shitty person in the household. I've seen examples of this in my fam too. father making things worse by being there.

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84. "what ?"
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You want hymen checks at 18 ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ikXim4wevc

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92. "If she is 18 she doesn’t have to give him the info"
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95. "True"
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that's why he shouldn't put his daughter in a position where she has to say no.

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115. "there is no info to give. "
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but you wormbrained fucks don't know that.



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94. "y'all are fucking sick defending this shit"
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116. "via Will Smith"
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On Willow cutting her hair.

“We let Willow cut her hair. When you have a little girl, it’s like how can you teach her that you’re in control of her body? If I teach her that I’m in charge of whether or not she can touch her hair, she’s going to replace me with some other man when she goes out in the world. She can’t cut my hair but that’s her hair. She has got to have command of her body. So when she goes out into the world, she’s going out with a command that is hers. She is used to making those decisions herself. We try to keep giving them those decisions until they can hold the full weight of their lives.”

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118. "Ok. Are you prepared to say Will Smith is a better dad than T.I.?"
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119. "Wasn’t she laid up in a bed with an old white dude when she was 14"
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137. "RE: Ok. Are you prepared to say Will Smith is a better dad than T.I.?"
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Not here to argue about will vs tip because I have no kids but willow at 18 seems pretty solid.

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120. "want to blame Tiny for not shutting this down but"
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this is so heteronormative... hearts break harder than hymens

  

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121. "okp goddammit"
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122. "Something told me not to click this and I should have listened nm"
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127. "I wish I wasn't the weird introverted type and joined in the OKP RE days"
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Just to see if the ignorance on here matches in real life

"Fuck this shit man"

  

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132. "no. none of these people show up for shit, first off"
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138. "Lmao. Look at the tough guy"
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Like you showing up ready to throw hands.

Sit yo ass down.

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141. "how many OKP-related events have you attended?.."
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..I can personally vouch for RJ's attendance @ plenty of events (in several cities).

I've hosted him in my own home.

His response was simply that none of the "Loud and Wrong" usual suspects ever show up (let alone, show out) in person. He's not wrong.

I think you misread his response and jumped the gun.


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143. "I lived in Philly, I was just on the other side of OKP and didn’t know..."
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most of my interaction with OKP was at Black Lilly or that French Spot in Rittemhouse Square.

You hosted OKPs at your house.. so did I but they were artist. Hezekiah is my dude. We toured, he came down to Richmond and pretty much got us to Philly.

But nah.. I wasn’t even aware of chat sites and OKP until Hez brought it up. But I was throwing shows and running up and down the east coast touring while y’all were meeting up.




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144. "once again, you missed the point..."
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>most of my interaction with OKP was at Black Lilly or that
>French Spot in Rittemhouse Square.
>
>You hosted OKPs at your house.. so did I but they were artist.
>Hezekiah is my dude. We toured, he came down to Richmond and
>pretty much got us to Philly.
>
>But nah.. I wasn’t even aware of chat sites and OKP until
>Hez brought it up. But I was throwing shows and running up and
>down the east coast touring while y’all were meeting up.

RJ's reply spoke to the fact that none of the loud & wrong posters on this site ever really show up (or show out) in public. Basically shutting down the TOKPR. You know, Real World™ vs the real world.

Your reply challenged his position with the false assumption of something physical (ie: throwing hands), completely missing his point that NONE of these fools are really 'bout it like that in person.

I mentioned that you might've missed the point and gave example of such, but even that was lost on you. Instead, you start rambling about hosting/touring with artist like you're in some sort of pissing contest (again, I wasn't challenging you, I was verifying RJ's original point), when you HAVE YET to address the fact that you were completely tone deaf on this one.

LOL.





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145. "K. Glad y’all met. "
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Y’all talking like meeting up and having a different opinion on a topic can’t happen.

You asked about OKP related events show I answered.

But I’m glad you guys slept in the same apartment. That’s cool.



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150. "Like I said... lmao. "
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146. "The jawn on 19th? Can't remember then name. Used to be all up in there."
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>French Spot in Rittemhouse Square.

For the life of me I can't recall the name, just remember being there dozens of times.


>most of my interaction with OKP was at Black Lilly

Used to be in the black lily pretty heavy too. Don't think I was on OKP much back then tho, so I had no context for the folks on this site.


Used to stay in Filos, Fluid and Pearl of Africa as well.

  

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147. "Yup. That joint was off the hook"
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I also did Soma just because the drink special was lovely in Tuesday’s. Oh to be young again and go hard and still wake up and go to work.

Fluid was a ill lil spot.





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189. "Parc"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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148. "who's tough? there's a clear line"
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people who gotta hear both sides on hymen testing, are not people who show up and say hello with their real faces and names

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172. "Co-sign"
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173. "this."
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171. "I am pretty sure I have met RJCC at least once, if not twice."
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We all used to KICK IT!!!! Do not sleep


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175. "if someone's met me and thinks I ain't shit then it's whatever"
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but it's just *weird* for someone to be mad at an exclusively online persona for a fuckin decade+, looking at pictures and shit, and never get over it.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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177. "RE: if someone's met me and thinks I ain't shit then it's whatever"
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1.) These niggaz is stalking you.

2.) You need to start ignoring these dudes LOL.

3.) We need a block feature, some of these cats is creepy bro.



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191. "ain’t no one stalking dude, if he ignored me it would be a glorious da..."
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192. "Ignore him first? Or back, eitehr way it is CORNY"
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193. "What’s corny is being dudes hype man"
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206. "Link fight?"
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135. "without fail, the same people are always loud and wrong on here"
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I would say it's trolling, but they're actually serious

  

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152. "Pornhub Offered T.I.'s Daughter $1MM to Lose Virginity on Camera"
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https://www.hiphopoverload.com/pornhub-offers-t-i-daughter-deyjah-1-million-dollars-to-lose-her-virginity-on-video/

*closes book*

d

  

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153. "I mean if we going there doesn't make the case for the value of virginit..."
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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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155. "Damn"
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That's a horrible point.

Edit while it's still time. Too late

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157. "The horrible point is trying to make the Porn offer sound like a good th..."
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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159. " If that's what she is saying with her post"
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it's bad enough you can't follow her down the slippery slope.

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161. "the point is HE IS A TERRIBLE PARENT"
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LOOK AT THE PUBLIC FUCKERY HIS BULLSHIT HAS CAUSED THIS POOR GIRL

it's telling that y'all minds don't even go there

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163. "True but"
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>LOOK AT THE PUBLIC FUCKERY HIS BULLSHIT HAS CAUSED THIS POOR
>GIRL
>
>it's telling that y'all minds don't even go there
>
>d

you don't have to use Porn hub to make that point, the links MEAT posted 3 times from her social media was enough. smh

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164. "look at you..."
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all that shit you talk about people being judgmental and here you are lol

like you’ve never made any mistakes parenting your child

it’s ok to not agree with but to call him terrible is contradicting...




  

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166. "It’s her way or it’s fucked the fuck up!!!!"
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165. "Oh, I thought you were pro porno and saw this as a good thing. "
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I agree that this is a bad look created by TI. I would hope he realizes by now that whatever they do at home it was a terrible idea to talk about it on a podcast (and he should want to punch someone from Pornhub in the face).

However, even seeing this aftermath I am still not prepared to call TI a bad parent.

Mainly because I am a parent just trying to figure it out too. Anf I know my parents mad all sorts of mistakes but they were just parents trying to figure it out and above all else I felt immensely loved which to me was the thing that really mattered (and I just have to go to therapy for all the rest).

But go ahead and cast the first stone if you have figured this parenting thing out.




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169. "I'm pro porn and this is a TERRIBLE THING."
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>I agree that this is a bad look created by TI. I would hope
>he realizes by now that whatever they do at home it was a
>terrible idea to talk about it on a podcast (and he should
>want to punch someone from Pornhub in the face).

This is exactly how I feel.

>However, even seeing this aftermath I am still not prepared to
>call TI a bad parent.


That's ok. I am

>Mainly because I am a parent just trying to figure it out too.
> Anf I know my parents mad all sorts of mistakes but they were
>just parents trying to figure it out and above all else I felt
>immensely loved which to me was the thing that really mattered
>(and I just have to go to therapy for all the rest).
>
>But go ahead and cast the first stone if you have figured this
>parenting thing out.

I don't have to have shit figured out to know that he's a bad parent.

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185. "The only public f**kery is..."
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people act like they have some say so or an opinion about what’s going on in someone else’s household.

  

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156. "It doesn't make the case that it belongs to TI to police/verify"
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A bad Samaritan averaging above average men (c) DOOM

  

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160. "yeah let's totally ignore the daughter's public embarrassment"
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and suffering to focus on the larger point of how valuable virginity is.

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154. "ugh"
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America has imported more warlord theocracy from Afghanistan than it has exported democracy.

  

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162. "I can’t find any place that substantiates the came by that site. "
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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

  

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168. "that's a fake site. pornhub is absolute shit, but they don't do that."
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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170. "ok thanks. even the existence of this online is sad for her"
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dudes were posting offers to take her virginity on her IG

  

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167. "This is all part of being a public figure. "
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Really no different than Will and Jada and all the parenting stuff they put on the Ted Table.

They talk about how they parent their kids and we discuss. They still rich as hell and making money off their family.



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174. "you're updated on the hymen status of lots of celebrity kids, word."
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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178. "I laughed out loud"
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180. "you have daughters"
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either you would be okay taking the same course of action that T.I. has or you're that bored on the internet and trying to rile people up

both are pretty wild, but which is the case?

  

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190. "My daughters are MY business"
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End of discussion on that.

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195. "so we're at one of two conclusions"
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1) "I've been doing a lot of shitty trolling, T.I. is pretty awful and there's no way I would do that with my daughters"

2) "I would take my daughters for mandatory annual hymen check ups, but Im not willing to say it because it's no one's business"

so which are you, shitty troll or shitty father?

  

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196. "Do I ask you about your fragile mental health? "
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Don’t worry about my parenting skills

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201. "feel free to when it's relevant"
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this is a post where you're defending T.I.

I say you're either

- trolling

- as awful as he is

which is it? it's a very simple question

  

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179. "dude. nobody can even see that shit it's a private account."
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you are a fuckin loser, go away. please stop trying to share whatever that is even though whoever posted it does not want it shared publicly you dickhead.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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182. "Wtf are you you talking about? "
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You lost or paranoid?

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183. "i think there's a deleted reply"
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i hate when that happens because if you're in the wrong spot, the replies skip to that one and it looks like you got 10 people calling you a piece of shit lol

  

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184. "Lmao. I thought dude lost his mind"
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186. "it was the same cam post that's already locked"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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187. "That post got LOCKED with a quickness"
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188. "the Charlize Theron 3 year old identifying? "
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That one?

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198. "Yep that one but it was linked to a pic of the kid"
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who is 6 or 7 in a girls bathing suit. They did the right thing taking it down.

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202. "Ok"
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I made a equally hyperbolic post, to this poast.
Near identical title, identical commentary free link.
Which I did partially as kind of a commentary on this place always allowing these brash damning and/or disrespectful posts to wildly fly without issue. But also to continue the similar debate as the multiple perspectives in the IG commentary (the lock and the delete happened so immediately I didn't get a chance to edit to a non-private link).

I expected some fake outrage, pretending it was transphobic, so the possibility of it getting Rjcc'd crossed my mind.
But based on this poast, I thought maybe I'd be able to ignite a similar debate here, as with the IG commentary.

Instead, I'm the inappropriate one.

I forgot I was in Bammaland, presided over by HisRoyalOddness. Shame on me.

Now, let's see how long before this get's Rjcc'd.

  

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203. "no one said you were inappropriate"
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I said you were a loser.


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205. "Ha, I know, and as the self proclaimed not-a-loser that you are"
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I bow to your authority.
But tell your Mom it's not that I lose her panties when she comes over, I throw them away.

  

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210. "whoa. you said something about my mom"
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congratulations on having the insult game of a below average third grader, that shit must be impressive wherever you're from.

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211. "I apologize if your feelings are hurt."
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Tell your Mom I asked about her though.

  

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215. "I don't know what that's supposed to do"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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208. "Wait a white celebrity has a TRANSKID?"
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So predictable, you cannot make this HOLLYWOOD shit up.


>I made a equally hyperbolic post, to this poast.
>Near identical title, identical commentary free link.
>Which I did partially as kind of a commentary on this place
>always allowing these brash damning and/or disrespectful posts
>to wildly fly without issue. But also to continue the similar
>debate as the multiple perspectives in the IG commentary (the
>lock and the delete happened so immediately I didn't get a
>chance to edit to a non-private link).



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209. "the issue is the kid is Black and identified at 3"
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My kid was a boy, a tiger, a puppy and a cat at 3.


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212. "A white Hollywood star has a BLACK (adopted I assume)"
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transkid LOL, WTF.

And she is from like the last bastion of African colonization, you cannot make this shit up.


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207. "Wait what? WTF IS GOING ON"
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>who is 6 or 7 in a girls bathing suit. They did the right
>thing taking it down.


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194. "is T.I. aware that u can have sex without vaginal intercourse? "
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how is he gonna check if she had oral or anal sex? dumb negro

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197. "T.I. to talk about Daughter on Jada Pinkett Smith's Red Table Talk "
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https://people.com/movies/t-i-to-address-controversial-comments-about-daughter-on-jada-pinkett-smiths-red-table-talk/

T.I. to Address Controversial Comments About Daughter on Jada Pinkett Smith's Red Table Talk

Jada Pinkett Smith is sitting down with controversial rapper T.I. on next week's episode of the Facebook Watch show

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199. "he should really stop talking about it."
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the public doesn't really need to know anymore. plus he may end up embarrassing her even more.

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200. "True"
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He should leave it alone.

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204. "damn. I’m not on Facebook..."
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I think it’s good he address it, since folks all up in arms about it.
Then maybe y’all can hush lol





  

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214. "there's nothing to address without an apology"
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>I think it’s good he address it, since folks all up in arms
>about it.
>Then maybe y’all can hush lol

the only acceptable responses come by some variation of

A) "I was kidding on a podcast, I didn't expect that reaction and I apologize"

B) "I wasn't aware of how invasive I was being and I've come to see that I've been going about this the wrong way"

if he stands by what he said, it will be weird but not comparable to you defending it as a woman

  

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216. "I didn't see Red Table Talk, but word is he apologized"
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what will you weirdos and losers come up with next

"he wasn't wrong, cancel culture made him apologize"

"why should he have to apologize for how he's parenting?"

  

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217. "That’s a falsity. He apologized to his daughter"
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but not to anyone else.

and not for going but for implying he was going after she was 18 and for embarrassing her for making it public.



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218. "word? "
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220. "His apology"
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"I am incredibly apologetic to her, for you sweet baby Deyjhah, not any of these other weirdos. She understands my intentions and knows who I am, knows who I've always been."

———

T.I. says he never claimed to have been in the exam room, and that he also didn't say the virginity checks were being done present day. He explained they went down when Deyjah was 15 and 16 at the time, and that once she became an adult he "lost control."

The rapper also pointed out that her mother was present at every exam, and there was never an objection. Tip said he legitimately thought he was being a responsible parent and didn't understand the greater meaning.

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222. "I apologize for being a bad father when she was 15 or 16 - T.I."
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I thought I was being responsible and I didn't understand the greater meaning - T.I.

"He didn't apologize, he did nothing wrong" - legsdiamond

  

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224. "I’m tripping that some thought he was in the room..."
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It never crossed my mind tho...

nice that he cleared it up.

  

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229. "which isn't at all what the issue is"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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231. "let’s put it to rest..."
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whatever I type you’re not going to agree with. I’m cool with it if you can be.





  

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233. "LMAO. Right?!"
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219. ""a public apology is not admitting wrongdoing" - legsdiamond"
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230. "look at this fuckstick"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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223. "he apologized for making it public."
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not for what he said.

his said...

- he was joking.
- never said he was in the room during the exam
- never said it was done present day
- realized she was embarrassed and hurt
- didn't know the hymen could be broken otherwise or intact after sex
- he was oblivious to how sensitive a subject this is
- didn't understand patriarchy
- thinks feminism is to silence men

still doesn't seem to understand the controlling aspect of it. doesn't believe in over protection. says there's protected and not protected. still seems think virginity is a prize.

he seems open to learn from this whole thing. admits he doesn't understand some things.





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226. "Exactly. Atru out here running victory laps and shit. "
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TI like... fuck you and all y’all niggas who had a problem with the alway I parent my daughter.

He just apologized to her for embarrassing her but it’s obvious he would do it again privately if he had another daughter

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228. "y'all: he *only* embarrassed his daughter worldwide"
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because he doesn't know how the human body works and thought it would make him look good to brag about.


that's your victory, after you were defending the original claim.

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232. "I wasn't giving him props."
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nothing he said convinced me that he hadn't done what he previously said.

and if you're gonna put your child's very personal biz out there (even in jest), people will come at you. seems logical to me. that's still trash parenting.

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234. "never said you were giving him props"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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235. ""victory laps" implies there was a debate or a competition"
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you defend shitty behavior, plain and simple

the same way you thought you were scoring points bringing up whatever you thought about my mental health in a discussion on parenting

the same way you took personal shots at another poster's wife

there's a pattern here


you're going to do the predictable "you mentioned my daughters" thing, yes in a discussion about parenting

  

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221. "Article"
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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/t-i-daughter-rapper-t-i-addresses-backlash-over-taking-his-daughter-to-the-gynecologist-to-check-her-hymen/

  

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225. "shouldnt have went on RTT"
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people had already forgotten about this dumb shit and moved on to something else. willingly throw yourself back on the bar-b brehs

<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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227. "her mom was like “stfu you narcissist fuck” lol"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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236. "Let’s close out this year hearing from Lord Yeezus of Coonhaven"
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“They were trying to play T.I but he’s talking about something that is god approved.”

https://thegrapevine.theroot.com/kanye-west-defends-t-i-virgin-testing-his-daughter-s-1840733637

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237. "direct video link:"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSMNcsf6WCU

  

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238. "is he performing at a planet fitness?"
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239. "Pretty sad really"
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https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/t-daughter-deyjah-harris-reveals-220800530.html

he fucked up

  

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240. "They still stretching this story out in the show? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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241. ""They" would be the owner of the hymen on question."
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Spoiler: T.I doesn't own the hymen in question.

That would be Deyja, and she's the one "stretching this out". It's pretty clear this wasn't just a media cycle blurb for her.

But, you know, god forbid she get to discuss her point of view.

People like you got to spend a lot of time discussing the situation, while defending her father's ridiculous and, frankly, gross approach to the subject.

It's weird, that you have no issue with her dad doing yearly hymen checkups, but you do seem to have an issue with her discussing her perspective on it.


To say you have a badly antiquated, misogynistic view of this situation, would be an understatement.

  

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243. "So this is a yes? "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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244. "No, it's you still having a problem with her speaking on it"
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It's you having a lot to say in defense of a dad doing yearly hymen checkups on his daughters, and then being first in line to take issue when said daughter speaks out about how she feels about the whole thing.

This isn't up for debate, or interpretation, or revisionism, it's literally exactly what happened.

  

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245. "Nope. Never said I had a problem with it"
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Just asked if they are still stretching this topic out on the show

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246. "One in the same"
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You had a lot to say in defense of the check ups.

Your response to her speaking on her side was "still stretching this out?".

Yes, that's an illustration that you're more concerned with the fact that this is still being discussed, then the fact that she has finally spoken up about how she- the person most impacted by this- feels about it.

  

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247. "Nope.. nice try tho. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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248. "I wouldn't call it stretching out so much."
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this is prolly due to the filming cycle.

but its cool to finally get her side.

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242. "Damn we getting Genderwarz greatest hits this week"
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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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249. "[Twitter thread] 19 victims have come out with drug/sexual abuse stories"
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about T.I. And tiny (so far) in less than 24 hours.

https://twitter.com/moneyymaya/status/1354912815593779202?s=19

  

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ThaTruth
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250. "I was wondering what happened to that other post "
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"Take the surprise out your voice Shaq."-The REAL CP3
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2H5K-BUMS0

  

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251. "maybe bizarro interest in your daughter's hymen isn't a sign of well-bei..."
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actually

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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Brew
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252. "lol right"
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Reeq
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253. "anonymous instagram dm's?"
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i dont care if theyre guilty or not. no horse in this race for me.

but i would hope that we arent at a place where we automatically believe serious charges against someone based on instagram dm's that literally anybody could be sending/faking. and that constitutes people 'coming forward'.

either way...all these people are exhausting just to listen and pay attention to. i tried it and i dont know how anyone does it.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CKo3EpRBx8S/
https://www.instagram.com/p/CKpS1dDhnhL/

  

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legsdiamond
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254. "i tried to watch that video and lasted 30 seconds"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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