legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79560 posts
Wed Nov-06-19 10:21 AM
4. "She prolly knew you would talk her out of it" In response to Reply # 1
Does that throw a wrench in the budget?
I would be pretty upset if my wife did that.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
6. "there's some truth to that." In response to Reply # 4
I would've wanted her to do more in line with getting the next gig. fix up the res, linkedin, make use of whatever union resources are available. none of that was done.
along with that I would have suggested at least staying til January so we could skate through the holidays. bad timing.
the other part that wasn't considered is that my job is not completely secure. my company has been laying people off for years. so this could be a whole disaster is that happens. hopefully not. it wasn't thought through enough. so I'm more pissed at this stuff than her actually leaving the job. I wanted her outta there too. it was a shitty situation.
we'll be fine for a bit. won't be able to save as much as normal or do other things that we were considering. I bought a car least year. now I'm rethinking it since that note won't be as easy to pay. I also did a 15 year mortage, which brought that note up a bit too.
she was close to 50k. not sure if she'll be able to jump back into that, but she'll have to get something within 6 months and hope my job doesn't act a fool.
it really caught me off guard because she never does this type of stuff. we don't have communication issues. at least I thought we didn't, lol.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79560 posts
Wed Nov-06-19 10:19 AM
2. "At the doctor. Have to take better care of myself" In response to Reply # 0 Wed Nov-06-19 10:23 AM by legsdiamond
That is all
Oh.. and DC was live. I wish the baseball team lost tho, the parade messed up our plans to go to the AA museum.
Dispensaries tho???? Awesome.
Almost forgot. Crazy neighbor across the street moved.. or was kicked out. Looks like they dumped the whole house in the front yard too.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
8. "Appreciate the help more than a lot, but it’s time to move on" In response to Reply # 0
The baby has the flu. My parents response “y’all need to isolate, I don’t wanna get sick” my sister talking about “guess we can’t come over” , now my wife is in the group text apologizing for a sick baby, her mom is trying to say don’t feel bad. My dad is on some “I can’t afford to get sick” shit like he doesn’t have sick leave.
What the entire hell is wrong with my family?
It’s been like this for two years. Between being in their house since June or when her mom was coming down every day. Just grown folks TOO comfortable in our day to day. So I sent this
“Kids get sick. We'll wipe down things and rest up. I'll knock out the next few hours at work and then head home. Jessica said we need like humidifier stuff, mom you need anything? Dad you need anything? Sister do y'all have your flu shots?”
But I also went and scanned our W2’s and I’m going full steam ahead on this house paperwork because I’m not about to be doing this goofy shit.
------ “There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus
10. "In times like these, I like to reflect on the wise words of E40...." In response to Reply # 8
Family, it's a fool But everybody in ya family ain't cool Family can be a friend To be family you ain't even gotta be know kin Family can be two-faced and be run with others Some of ya family can be jealous No matter what I'ma love 'em till the day I drop Nigga, we all we got
Dig it, ya know That's real and and family gon' be there through thick and thin Family gon' be there no matter what Ya know during trials and tribulations Through the heavy times, ya under a dig Family gon' be there no matter what pimpin' That's why I love my family
9. "Trying to give advice without being judgemental" In response to Reply # 0
Group text with me and my two best friends..A asked if T had to work on friday, cause he biught tickets to the Hornets for cheap, and was suggesting T bring his two boys. T went on a rant about how he aint doing nothing for anybody anymore, cause everybody at home sees him as the asshole, so he's not rewarding them for being a jerk to him.
I said "so you're teaching conditional love, huh? Theyre teenagers..you're making memories" and I asked "if the whole house is mad at you, look at what you're doing bruv".
Anyhoo...had a big argument with She on Sunday...I need to get approved from the job to WFH and head to Charlotte for a while.
The Kid ordered these "Tyler, the Creator" converse yesterday..kinda dope. Been laying low with meeting females..not in the best position for that right now, lol.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79560 posts
Fri Nov-08-19 11:11 AM
16. "What opened your eyes? " In response to Reply # 15
Dumb racist white people?
Hilldawg being hated on by a ton of people?
Ignoring the rust belt voters?
Not realizing it comes down to a few swing states?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79560 posts
Fri Nov-08-19 11:56 AM
18. "White or Black or Others?" In response to Reply # 17
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79560 posts
Fri Nov-08-19 03:36 PM
22. "I heard a radio ad on the radio. Black Voices for Trump" In response to Reply # 21
Text 828 WOKE
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