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Geah
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Wed Oct-16-19 07:12 AM

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"** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **"


          

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@geahuwine

  

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driver is deaf
Oct 16th 2019
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I sent a proposal and haven’t heard back from them
Oct 16th 2019
2
Stick your value. If it's too high for them, they aren't the right clien...
Oct 16th 2019
5
Definitely. Took years to realize this.
Oct 16th 2019
10
You did the right thing by sticking to your rate
Oct 17th 2019
16
Put my car up for sale and now I’m sad
Oct 16th 2019
3
one of my thesis committee members is not responding...
Oct 16th 2019
4
I hate the term ally.
Oct 16th 2019
6
yeah.... apathetic sympathizers
Oct 16th 2019
7
Like I personally sympathize with a number of causes but I’m no ally
Oct 16th 2019
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https://twitter.com/natasharothwell/status/1185457274422054913?s=12 “a...
Oct 19th 2019
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Why can’t people just go to work and work?
Oct 16th 2019
9
Are you being a Curmudgeon?
Oct 16th 2019
11
Man, my wife works with white women who aren’t as educated
Oct 16th 2019
12
reading my mind right now. all these staff meetings, team building shit,...
Oct 17th 2019
13
Bruh... >< on this one
Oct 17th 2019
14
      when i really want to work...i stay at home lmao
Oct 17th 2019
18
Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage.
Oct 17th 2019
15
so many rats in the cage
Oct 17th 2019
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mista k5
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Wed Oct-16-19 11:17 AM

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1. "driver is deaf"
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saw this sticker on a van yesterday. it confused me. i never considered that deaf or hard at hearing people needed special consideration for driving. made me google it. i guess it makes sense to alert other drivers or police officers that the person driving is deaf so theyre not clueless as to why the driver isnt possibly responding to audio signals.

it also touched on not hearing an ambulance approaching but honestly most of the time i dont hear one over the radio. noticing other cars slowing down or pulling over is usually enough of a signal to look out. looks like they do also sell devices that can give the driver visual signals for such situations but theyre not necessary.

it was interesting to look this up.

that said, i was stopped behind this driver and when the light turned green they took a while to start driving. i considered pressing my horn but...well thats not really my style and then i remembered the sticker lol. to be clear i dont think the slow start had anything to do with being able to hear. i have no issue with deaf people being allowed to drive. just a the more you know moment.

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Oct-16-19 11:46 AM

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2. "I sent a proposal and haven’t heard back from them"
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I think I may have come in too high (for them) or maybe I didn’t give them enough options.

I just gave them one price for a decent amount of rebranding items.

It’s a fair price tho...

Not giving away work anymore. I have to design a button this evening.



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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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Wed Oct-16-19 01:29 PM

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5. "Stick your value. If it's too high for them, they aren't the right clien..."
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I spent 2 years recovering from undervaluing my work....
And I'm going to spend the next year cushioning my fee too....

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Oct-16-19 03:00 PM

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10. "Definitely. Took years to realize this. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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flipnile
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Thu Oct-17-19 09:08 AM

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16. "You did the right thing by sticking to your rate"
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Learned the hard way from doing websites for people. I charge based-on the time it takes me to complete a project, so when folks balk it's like they don't give a fuck about the value of my time. Pissed me off so much I completely stopped doing freelance web work. Just wasn't worth it compared to what I make at my day job (comparing hourly rates). Rather keep that free time to work on my own side projects.

  

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MEAT
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Wed Oct-16-19 11:50 AM

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3. "Put my car up for sale and now I’m sad"
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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

  

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akon
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Wed Oct-16-19 12:17 PM

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4. "one of my thesis committee members is not responding..."
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to emails.
im supposed to meet each of them prior to my defense so i get a sense of what their concerns are
met my committee chair yesterday... he's concerned about this
my advisor is furious
im.... disappointed
its the only woman member and i selected her specifically
i was hoping she would give me extensive feedback since she's the only demographer
on the team
so far its been crickets
i was hoping i'd count on her when i am standing in front of the committee responding to questions.
im really really disappointed.
anyway... still need to prepare my public defense seminar.
i hope this will all soon be over.

ugh

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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MEAT
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6. "I hate the term ally. "
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It feels like a catch all cop out. It’s just a label. I’m at a strange point in life driven by a number of things that I need a verb as opposed to a noun. Are you a person that agrees with, encourages, stands with, fights for ... etc. Ally allows a person to just obfuscate all of that under a general understanding that an ally isn’t an enemy. But there are times when passive silence aides the enemy, are they in allyship at those times?

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PG
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Wed Oct-16-19 01:35 PM

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7. "yeah.... apathetic sympathizers"
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... I was just having this thought last week. we all do it for various things... it's weak.

  

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MEAT
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Wed Oct-16-19 01:44 PM

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8. "Like I personally sympathize with a number of causes but I’m no ally"
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I don’t sacrifice a damn thing in those fights.

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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

  

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MEAT
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Sat Oct-19-19 11:06 AM

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19. "https://twitter.com/natasharothwell/status/1185457274422054913?s=12 “a..."
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https://twitter.com/natasharothwell/status/1185457274422054913?s=12 “allyship”

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legsdiamond
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Wed Oct-16-19 02:58 PM

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9. "Why can’t people just go to work and work?"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Case_One
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Wed Oct-16-19 03:20 PM

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11. "Are you being a Curmudgeon?"
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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

The Case for Christ Lecture: https://youtu.be/67uj2qvQi_k

Looking for Good News: https://www.goo

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Oct-16-19 03:31 PM

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12. "Man, my wife works with white women who aren’t as educated "
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as she is so they are intimidated and always doing passive aggressive shit

Which means she is always doing more work than she has to to cover her tracks.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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Thu Oct-17-19 05:53 AM

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13. "reading my mind right now. all these staff meetings, team building shit,..."
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bonding shit, enrichment shit.... FOH.

I want to smooth come in....get my shit done...smooth roll out.




"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"

  

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flipnile
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Thu Oct-17-19 08:51 AM

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14. "Bruh... >< on this one"
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My office is a passive-aggressive social gathering for most of the day.

  

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BrooklynWHAT
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Thu Oct-17-19 09:10 AM

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18. "when i really want to work...i stay at home lmao"
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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flipnile
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Thu Oct-17-19 08:52 AM

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15. "Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage."
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Gotta take more shots in 2020 and beyond.

  

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Crash Bandacoot
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17. "so many rats in the cage"
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